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Thank you brother. You're one of the few men I trust here at CC. You are straight forward,honest and yet compassionate.I appreciate you. You are a blessing.
Thank you, sister. The feeling is mutual, and that goes for our blue and purple sisters as well.
 
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Liars get no compassion from me. They don't deserve it..
Hmm I do recall the scriptures saying to love & pray for your enemies. I do recall the scriptures saying “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. I mean more & more you display your ways are not of God but have at it.
 

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I want the truth of this situation to come out. You're defending a liar and satan right now, so what does that say about YOUR ways of God? He says to root out evil and expose it. You're trying to defend it.


Hmm I do recall the scriptures saying to love & pray for your enemies. I do recall the scriptures saying “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. I mean more & more you display your ways are not of God but have at it.
 

Lynx

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Yeah, time for commercials.
Ugh, commercials...

Oh well, guess it pays the bills. Like Bill my bookie and Bill my attorney.

INTRODUCING TROLL-B-GONE!

 
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I want the truth of this situation to come out. You're defending a liar and satan right now, so what does that say about YOUR ways of God? He says to root out evil and expose it. You're trying to defend it.
I'm defending satan? boy oh boy you just enjoy making things worst for yourself huh. All I have stated was there was no need to comment in the manner you did to a newcomer. I then stated your excuse for not helping her was poor because she said preferably a mans perspective, not only so apparently you dont know what preferably means. then i told her to stay if she desires to yet im defending satan? Yea ok may God have mercy on you.
 

blue_ladybug

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Well, you're defending a liar. So in Jesus' book, that equates to defending satan.. And what she said to others in PM, she would NOT have said to women, and it had NOTHING to do with virginity.


I'm defending satan? boy oh boy you just enjoy making things worst for yourself huh. All I have stated was there was no need to comment in the manner you did to a newcomer. I then stated your excuse for not helping her was poor because she said preferably a mans perspective, not only so apparently you dont know what preferably means. then i told her to stay if she desires to yet im defending satan? Yea ok may God have mercy on you.
 
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I don't remember exactly who said I needed to find a different site for "my needs", but don't worry, I asked a moderator to delete my account on here and I'll walk out the door. You won't have to see me posting on this Christian forum again. Thanks to those who understood, and didn't judge. And thanks to those who helped. I really thought I could be a part and feel a part of this forum. Being someone who has been a little isolated lately for various reasons, still coping with the death of a loved one (my mother) and dealing with a little social pressure on this issue (now that everyone knows who the virgin girl on this forum is, I don't even care anymore, "thanks" to whoever spit it out there) I thought I could use some help. I understand that from a women's perspective they might think I am doing the wrong thing, but trust me, when there is no one you can talk to, you kind of hold onto whatever chance of help you can get. I felt questioned, judged, lectured, and so on. My identity was even questioned, some saying I might be a guy posing as a girl. And precisely because people here don't know me, I shouldn't have been judged. It's all. Just because someone just signed up on a site a few minutes ago and the first thing is posted is about that, doesn't mean they've got a different intention. Just because someone states they would like the opposite sex perspective on the matter, doesn't make them an male attention seeker looking for a creep to privately message them and it sure as hell didn't mean I didn't want women to help me. (Again, read the original post). Just because someone does not want to share a certain thing, doesn't make them someone who is hiding something else and is so suspicious because if they are not hiding anything "they could just share it publicly". There was a man who replied with what I wanted to ask, and right here so everyone could see, making me extremely uncomfortable. I kind of felt my privacy was being invaded. As a man, he could've just said " can't help you, sorry", and move onto the next thing. Yet he chose, without my consent, to let everyone know what I was asking privately, making it even worse for me, since he said something like "she's asking questions that are inappropriate and blah blah blah". I wanted the Earth to swallow me in that moment. So seeing this went on an on for a few days, my email all flooded with notifications of dozens of replies, and without having even posted anything else on here yet, I am leaving. I hope the ones who started jumping to conclusions so fast had a good time. I hope you had a good laugh. Because I didn't.

I have not read past the point where you say "thanks, whoever spit it out there" because that is the point where you caught yourself in your own net and I did not need to read further.

I am privy to NO special information, so I certainly don't have to remain quiet and am obligated to not remain quiet, for the very fact that I do follow Christ, I have to speak.

YOU are the one who published abroad your state of virginity, and so now, unless one cares NOT to go and carefully read your posts, they can easily discern for themselves and ask, why is she saying thank you to whoever "betrayed" her and "put it out there" when she is the one who freely put it out there?

This has been super manipulation from the very first and a discerning man or woman can now see it for themselves. And once they see it, they will be able to cull out all of the other manipulations and directing and sleights-of-hand.

You have manipulated these brothers and taken great satisfaction in the fact that while you were doing it, they had no idea what was being done to them. And you tried to harm these sisters too, by turning the brothers they love against them. It's not that you need more practice - you are quite adept at your craft. It is that you don't understand that we trusting and gullible christians have a help for our discernment and protection that is Supernatural. And that very Power we discern by would also like to know you, and loves you. And these same people who you manipulated love you too, believe it or not, because the One who loves them is living in them and He loves you, so they can't not love you too. As strange as that sounds, it is true, though it is not how the world and people work. It is how WE work, by His love in us.
 
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Well, you're defending a liar. So in Jesus' book, that equates to defending satan.. And what she said to others in PM, she would NOT have said to women, and it had NOTHING to do with virginity.
What she told me was about virginity and her problems. But why am im telling you for you care more about trying to "expose" someone than actually help them.
 
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I'm defending satan? boy oh boy you just enjoy making things worst for yourself huh. All I have stated was there was no need to comment in the manner you did to a newcomer. I then stated your excuse for not helping her was poor because she said preferably a mans perspective, not only so apparently you dont know what preferably means. then i told her to stay if she desires to yet im defending satan? Yea ok may God have mercy on you.
Please brother, read my post and go back and search out the matter for yourself.
 
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Hmm I do recall the scriptures saying to love & pray for your enemies. I do recall the scriptures saying “if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. I mean more & more you display your ways are not of God but have at it.
My brother, your ways and our sisters' ways are most definitely of God, however some of you guys, including me, are coming at things from different perspectives, and there's nothing wrong with that. God is obviously not the author of confusion but rather He is the Giver of spiritual gifts. As you know, different people have different gifts, and these gifts are being shared here with passion and conviction. Though its all for the good, it sometimes proves to be temporarily painful.
 

blue_ladybug

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I get what you're telling me. BUT I am a direct person. I don't apologize for that. Yes maybe I could've been more helpful, however it WAS helpful to point out to her, her dangerous idea of asking men to PM her. Her PM with YOU may have been about virginity. Her PM's with others was of a much different nature. I'm trying to expose the TRUTH. Not her.. But as usual around here, the truth gets silenced by people who don't want to hear it.

I'm done on this thread. I have far more important things to attend to.


What she told me was about virginity and her problems. But why am im telling you for you care more about trying to "expose" someone than actually help them.
 
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I want the truth of this situation to come out. You're defending a liar and satan right now, so what does that say about YOUR ways of God? He says to root out evil and expose it. You're trying to defend it.
Please forgive him. He has not done it from any guile on his own part, as you can see now, and she has caught herself in her own snare so the matter can be put to rest.
 

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Like I said, I'm done here..

Please forgive him. He has not done it from any guile on his own part, as you can see now, and she has caught herself in her own snare so the matter can be put to rest.
 
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I get what you're telling me. BUT I am a direct person. I don't apologize for that. Yes maybe I could've been more helpful, however it WAS helpful to point out to her, her dangerous idea of asking men to PM her. Her PM with YOU may have been about virginity. Her PM's with others was of a much different nature. I'm trying to expose the TRUTH. Not her.. But as usual around here, the truth gets silenced by people who don't want to hear it. I'm done on this thread. I have far more important things to attend to.
I would think women such as you & Mag who are older than the OP would address her differently but that's my perspective. Continue to address people however you desire.
 

blue_ladybug

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Maybe we're simply more discerning than you younger ones.. I already said I could've approached it differently. What more do you want? Get off my back..

I would think women such as you & Mag who are older than the OP would address her differently but that's my perspective. Continue to address people however you desire.
 
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The reason these people are on my ignore list, is because their general attitude has been either self-righteous, devious, manipulative, antagonistic, or aggressive. And the worst part, they will go to the grave saying it is all in God's name and of course that means that anyone that goes against them must be Satan to them.

This is NOT the God I know, so whatever God you are worshipping, you need to think about how much love you have for yourself, those around you, and towards others. I do not see love from you. You can respond with any of the 5 attitudes above, but you can also respond with LOVE, even if you do not like what that person says.

I rebuke evil when I see it. I don't need my time here intoxicated by it.

And how Galathea was treated as a newcomer, absolutely disgusting. And still days later, you are trying to defile her intention to prove yourself right. Absolutely disgusting.

blue_ladybug
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The reason these people are on my ignore list, is because their general attitude has been either self-righteous, devious, manipulative, antagonistic, or aggressive. And the worst part, they will go to the grave saying it is all in God's name and of course that means that anyone that goes against them must be Satan to them.

This is NOT the God I know, so whatever God you are worshipping, you need to think about how much love you have for yourself, those around you, and towards others. I do not see love from you. You can respond with any of the 5 attitudes above, but you can also respond with LOVE, even if you do not like what that person says.

I rebuke evil when I see it. I don't need my time here intoxicated by it.

And how Galathea was treated as a newcomer, absolutely disgusting. And still days later, you are trying to defile her intention to prove yourself right. Absolutely disgusting.

blue_ladybug
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That's a hardcore post, bro. Everyone on your list proclaims Jesus as Lord and Savior, and they are warriors for His saving grace. I know, you're probably thinking, well, they don't share much of His grace, but in fact, they do, but like me, they share it in a very direct manner. Jesus turned over the tables in the temple and He didn't apologize for it.

If there were ever an apocalyptic battle and I could have ten people from CC in my foxhole, you basically just named seven of them. They are a mine of wealth, and though they are rough around the edges when necessary, a huge portion of that wealth is love of God, neighbor and righteousness.

I love what you bring to the table here, bro, and am most definitely glad you're here. I look forward to learning and sharing with you, but in all honesty, you're doing yourself a disservice by having them on ignore. You're only cheating yourself out of an enormous amount of wisdom. I hope you reconsider.

With love, respect and your very best interest at heart,
your brother,
Utah.
 

Oncefallen

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Albeit I haven't read every post in this thread (not even close to every page), all I can say is wow guys, just wow.

It's pretty sad when the kids that post in the Teens Forum seem to have a greater level of maturity than what I have seen displayed in this thread.
 
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