This thread has officially become may place of venting so I apologize if I drive some of you insane, or to think I'm insane after reading my posts on here, just ignore and move on
This one I've been thinking about for the past week or so, and showed some of my frustration about it in another thread, but honestly, the more time I spend around women, the more disinterested I get in dating again. I'm actually almost to that point of never even wanting to be with anyone again. I work in an oddity of a factory, as most factories have a majority of male employs and there are few women. Where I work we actually have a far higher ratio of women than men, and the way these women behave just makes me sick.
One person in particular I'm referring to has been married for 17 years and she is constantly getting flirty with most of the guys there. She kind of reminds me of the story of the prostitute and the fool in proverbs. Anyway, any guy who is really dumb enough to fall for it or even just likes the attention of someone flirting with them, she manipulates so that they will do something for her whenever she asks them to. And amazingly enough she always wins. And she gets extremely angry with someone when they won't let her flirt her way out of something. She started pulling the same on me, and I let her know very explicitly not talk to me like that, and she got mad at me and quit talking to me. A week later she started apologizing and asked if we could be friends again, I said that was fine, but don't ever talk to me like that again, and she got mad again
The sad part is, is that's how a lot of women there are, the sadder part is that, as I watch other single or dating women behave, christian or not, they do the exact same thing. Really? My ex-wife cheated on me, admitted it, and then denied it literally 5 minutes after she admitted it. If that wasn't enough to crush any trust in a future relationship, seeing this kind of flirty, manipulative behavior, even from christian women, does. It's kind of sick. Maybe some of you girls need to step up and make an example? Or how about we get over this whole "tact" and "tolerance" and "respect" thing and start calling people out on actions like this that only deceive and hurt.