I am VERY appreciative of the good guys in my life, and I don't know where I would be in life without them. Like anyone else, I've gone through some really rough spots in my relations with the opposite gender, but praise God for good men who were understanding and willing to help a sister out, whether by listening or by being an example of what a good, Godly guy really is.
Roh, I'm always grateful for your presence here. Not only do you have a great sense of humor and are always fun to banter with, you have a unique sensibility and sensitivity that makes you especially gracious to how people differ. You're always very considerate of people's backgrounds, cultures, and yes, gender, and even during disputes, you always remain a calm, encouraging presence.
I came to CC while I was going through some really hard times. I've loved being able to talk and laugh with the (girls and) guys here, to see some positive interactions between the sexes, because the men here might not know it, but just by being a steadfast, trustworthy, pillar of character, even on the internet, they're helping teach many women that they can feel safe around men again.