As much as I want to be in love, it's hard enough to love those around me and those who enter my life. But like all cravings, this feeling will subside.
I have no time to nurse this cold. I have to work hard, and work harder after that. Because if I work hard, then I will be seen as a man to my family. If I care, then I will be seen as a man to the women in my life. If I give the majority of my pay, then I will be seen as a "good" man. If I help my brothers and my sisters with whatever I can give, then I will be seen as a man. If I continue to love those around me selflessly, I will not be happy. If sacrificing my happiness means having at least a small amount health in my relationship with them then it will be worth the pain, and maybe even worth death.
I have no time to nurse this cold. I have to work hard, and work harder after that. Because if I work hard, then I will be seen as a man to my family. If I care, then I will be seen as a man to the women in my life. If I give the majority of my pay, then I will be seen as a "good" man. If I help my brothers and my sisters with whatever I can give, then I will be seen as a man. If I continue to love those around me selflessly, I will not be happy. If sacrificing my happiness means having at least a small amount health in my relationship with them then it will be worth the pain, and maybe even worth death.
Love does not always mean giving people whatever they ask. Love does not mean killing yourself over trivial favors. Love does not mean hating yourself, or seeking human approval no matter what it costs you. Love does not mean doing more harm in the long run to make things a little easier for someone right now. Love does not mean encouraging or enabling somebody's self-destructive behavior. Love does not mean bowing down to someone else's definition of what a "man" is.