persNickety
I didn't respond in the thread this was posted in, as it was the Woman Thoughts thread and i'm not a woman.
But i would like to remind that in the past i, and many other men, have complained about the attitudes toward men on this site from women. Perhaps for right now the pendulum has swung, but for a while i felt constantly put down as a man for just being a man. That men are horny, selfish pigs who are never good enough, or spiritual enough to be worthy of marriage.
But i see this a lot. One gender only sees one side of things, but never realize the other gender often faces similar things. Whatever you're feeling, guys get the same thing. The details of the complaints may not be the same, but the degradation on the mind and spirit is no different.