Yikes! I feel for you, IloveyouGod. I really do. I'm a bit disappointed in some of you that you think she didn't act in a Christian or mature way. If someone is sexually harassing you, what she did is appropriate and understandable. Not everyone's an angel in disguise (stop over-spirtualising things) or an innocent, old person. There are sexual predators of all ages and sizes. Personally, I think she did well. I would have to restrain myself from bopping him in the face. Abuse of others, even minor stuff, is not cool!
You are over-reacting to be bopping this guy, he was practically DEAD, tin-tin. Didn't you FULLY read her post before saying all this, subtle accusation at myself and others for wondering why she acted this way to a man who was about in a grave? (Did the guy have can, IlyG?)
You can't look MORE innocent than this old person, tin-tin, he could hardly stand up, and, needed to brace himself to do it, what was he possibly going to do to hurt IlyG at that ATM ? Nothing.
And, I already said in my last post that she should NOT give the man a ride despite his asking.
I don't support sexual predators or abuse. The man was obviously not completely there, couldn't walk, couldn't talk (loud), couldn't hear, I think, I heard too (pun intended
) ; He was someone that VERY likely put his hand on IlYG's arm to BRACE himself . It looked like he was 'rubbing' her arm because he could hardly stand, he had arthritis more likely than not, couldn't get a grip even on her arm to stabilize himself while she talked and he listened. I don't know. Even if he was rubbing her arm, just say , 'Please stop that.' Or, here is what I would say , 'Why are you doing that?'
What was the guy going to suddenly turn into Superman and whisk her away when she asked that question, tin-tin? He could hardly breath, let alone whisk her away. IlyG said it herself, the decrepit guy looked like he was 'excused from his coffin.'
My suggestion, in the future do a LITTLE more reading, bro, before you come in here and insinuate and attack me. That's wise advice, the Lord leads, but there was no reason to say that. And, I don't feel one bit that I was 'over-spiritualizing anything. I simply was saying that she could have been entertaining an angel unaware and Scripture does say this, in Hebrews, that we can be doing that. Believe your bible or not, bro, I choose to believe my bible, and, this man was similar to the story that I related to you all on here earlier in a post a few pages back . I feel, the person who came to me at that soccer game just may have been an angel. You read my story and decide for yourself, but, hey, that's just what I believe, it's OK, if you don't believe in angels. Just believe in God, John 3:16, that's it, God says you do that and you will go to heaven. Keep in mind, it takes faith in Christ to 'believe in Him,' but, yes, that's it.
I am sorry I may have ruffled some's feathers, because of all the 'like' comments to tin-tin's post--and, I understand 'abuse' and why you COULD feel that way
--- but, this person at the bank machine with IlyG didn't just look like an innocent old man, he WAS an innocent old man by ALL indicators. If I was looking like having one foot from my grave and I asked someone for a ride, I would hope they would help me out, that's just me, I guess. I am a guy and I do NOT, as I already said, suggest it for a girl. But, if you ARE a guy? Help the man !! Give him a ride. QuIT being paranoid, tin-tin.
I'm guessing that you wouldn't have even give that old man a ride and you are a guy, bro. Whatever. That's not a salvation issue, that's between you and God, it's a good work to do, that's all (And, don't bother me with works and faith doctrine, I'm in the bible discussion forum a lot, go there
) . But, I believe God would be speaking on your heart to help that guy out, if you were in any position to do it. That's where FAITH comes in, perhaps, and, praying a simple prayer, asking for the blood of Christ protection. For a girl, I say that in past posts, when you are in a potentially dangerous situation, stop and pray to God for His 'blood of Christ' protection. He likes that, what's more, He will hear your voice , He likes it when we put our faith and hope and trust in Him