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You didnt offend me shine
But I am a love poet
True LOVE is my breath

If u are engaged I love to pray

But like the boy that cried wolf
U pretend u are engaged a hundred times a day

Report to us if it is real

So we all can pray for ur engagement
Not games
Thanks
I don't, though. I never have pretended I was engaged. This was my first time. So, I don't know what you mean by saying, "You pretend you are engaged a hundred times a day."

I do apologize that you thought this was real. Jsr had said he had started the teasing and he apologized. Sky, I have reached out through PM and through threads. I love and care about you as a person and my heart breaks that you're going through such a tough time. Know that my intent is never to hurt you or to confuse you....but just to love on you.
 
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skylove7

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Report to us if it is real!
So we can pray blessings.
Pfft...
All I am saying
 

melita916

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sometimes, we miss out on context because some posts get lost as people reply.

i know i sometimes don't read all the post cuz so many add on, but if i don't understand something, i go back and read so i can know what's up :)
 
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Anyways, let's continue. SKy, if you have any awkward moments, I'd love to hear them! Life is full of silly moments. :)

So, this happened, but no one was there to experience it and awkward moments by themselves are always lame. The awkward moment when you try to drink your bottled water and it spills all over you. Today is not my day, people. First, I drool. Then I spill water. Maybe I just need to go to my apartment and sleep.
 
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skylove7

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Blah Blah I didnt read this

It is an A and B situation shine

You post u are married
I post my prayer
You post
Its a joke

I shall not address this further

You joke about a wedding
Cool

I give u a page of prayer

You joke

There are people sick with illness Shine
Ralllly
Who cares if u marry Elmer Fudd

U joke with us daily

Sooo not cool
 
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Blah Blah I didnt read this

It is an A and B situation shine

You post u are married
I post my prayer
You post
Its a joke

I shall not address this further

You joke about a wedding
Cool

I give u a page of prayer

You joke

Thereb are people sick with illness Shine
Ralllly
Who cares if u marry Elmer Fudd

U joke with us daily

Sooo not cool
I am sorry I offended you.
 

jsr1221

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Sky I was the one that joked about it being a wedding. I think you're getting mad at the wrong person. If anyone is to blame, it's me since I started it. As Katie mentioned, this just supposed to be a silly, fun thread.
 
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CarolSampaio

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Oh boy... this is getting too far!!!

Sky... Shine was joking... Jsr was joking... we are all joking here!!!

Just relax... really!!! You're too tense!!!

And why don't we just move on? It's silly to keep on arguing about this... ;)

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skylove7

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No not offended

Im just like

Why constant jokes of lies u are engaged

This is CC

We pray for newleyweds here
Then u joke

Well pardon me
I tried to get u serious
I dont care if u marry Curly

I long for truth
In prayers

Yes I a clown

But I dont announce I engaged

Golly
step outside u
 
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SkyLove, time to let it go. This is a playful thread and these young people were teasing each other. You are stepping into shaming them for having fun. They have apologized that you were hurt, let you know that they are here in this moment to play, offered you care outside of the thread.

im sorry that there is stuff going on in your life that is hard, but life goes on around us. If you need prayer, ask for it, but stop scolding.
 
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skylove7

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Carol...forgive me

But I am a strong prayer person for peoples happiness

Shine jokes daily she has a fiance

Comedy is cute not this

Ok you all I am getting married!
He is soooo fab
He gave me the ring!

Suddenly all our good hearts at CC pray for Shine

Then Shine announces
Oops y'all I kidding

Seriously?

Announce an engagement if its real...or stop lying to us

This isnt 5th grade

Its CC

We pray for illness here
Not daily fiances of shines thats a joke
 

melita916

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1) katie does not joke about being engaged on a daily basis. to be honest, this is the 1st time the subject ever happened.
2) because of the context of the posts (as in the convo going back and forth between individuals), we knew it was all in good fun. we knew it was kidding around.
3) because tone gets lost in writing, it's common that we have misunderstandings. those were clarified.
 
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skylove7

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SkyLove, time to let it go. This is a playful thread and these young people were teasing each other. You are stepping into shaming them for having fun. They have apologized that you were hurt, let you know that they are here in this moment to play, offered you care outside of the thread.

im sorry that there is stuff going on in your life that is hard, but life goes on around us. If you need prayer, ask for it, but stop scolding.
I am not scolding Olerica

But I was praying for Shines engagement
To last
Then she says joking#

She says this all the time

Sorry Olerica

I tire of prayers

Then they say they are jokes!

Forgive me
 

jsr1221

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Sky I haven't seen one post of Katie's that says she's engaged.. I see a lot of posts of people teasing her about having "skills" with men, though. That's a big difference..
 
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skylove7

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In fact, he proposed to me soon after.

GUYS, IM GETTING MARRIED AND YOURE ALL INVITED.
See...I prayed for your engagement
It was not true

Yet you all cant understand
Why
Jokes are jokes

But Katie I thought u really were engaged

Im sorry friends
I guess jokes about marriage hurt me deep
Because I am a love poet

Forgive me Katie

I must confess..I was so into prayer for your engagement

Then it was a joke :(

Sad to joke thougj about love
When it is so rare
Im sorry
 

jsr1221

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Sky I also think it was wrong of you to imply we don't care about others that are in pain and sick.. I have a member of my household in so much pain in the hospital right now from his cancer... You think I don't care about that? Am I supposed to just sit there 24/7... Or in my room 24/7 and not do a darn thing? I'm sorry but I really take offense to that.
 
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