The Venting Thread (GRRRR moments/pet peeves)

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Jullianna

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From time to time we all have our GRRRRRRRRR moments or pet peeves. Have you had one? Feel free to let it fly! And we'll know how to pray for you and when to give you some space. :)
 
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princessbella

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my pet peeve is when people arnt honest if they have a problem with you or something youve said or done , they dont verbalise it but ignore you and refuse to acknowledge theres a problem no mater how hard you try to sort it :)
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Im gonna agree with bella up there

I cant stand when someone has a problem with me, or is upset at something i've done, then they go run their mouth to everyone BUT me.

Its like.. look im the one you got a problem with why dont you just come say it to my face.

my other pet peeve..

people that breathe to loud when they eat...
 
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thimsrebma

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I am extremely annoyed when people make plans and then break them without warning. I understand that things come up but give me a call and let me know whats going on.

Last night I was supposed to meet the rescue group organizer that I foster for to pick up my new foster dog. I talked to her around 5pm and told her I had Bible Study at 7:30 she said she could meet me before then. By 7:15 she hadnt shown up so I called her and she said she wasn't coming and gave me some excuse about someone showing up to her house.

I was not a happy camper. Maybe someone did stop by unexpectantly but you still could have called. That really makes me not want to do business with her, (there was another issue before too) If you run an organization, even if its non for profit you still need to be organized and communicate with your volunteers. The foster dog parents are the reason why you have an organization, without us there would be no where to keep all of these pets, no one to pay for food, no one to train the animals. Treat us with some respect!

I am finished.
 

Liamson

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Alright, so you know what kills me...

Women that want to be complimented and flattered, just because they are women. (especially when they are shopping) go figure.

Women that think they deserve a boyfriend, just because they are are a woman.

Women that settle for silly boyfriends because they don't want to be alone. OR can't be alone for more than 2 weeks.

Women that don't dump their stupid boyfriend because they have self esteem issues and can't see that they are actually way out of his league.
 
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NukePooch

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My biggest GRRRR moment is when a friend posts a thread asking what my favorite car is when she knows I'm moving to another state and will have very limited internetz access. I hate it when that happens.
 
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Jullianna

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Your friend bows humbly before you and begs forgiveness!! Would some lasagna make it better? hahaha
 

Hommer

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My pet peeve is when I pull up next to a friend and we roll down our windows to chit chat and they wont shut off their diesel.............drives me nuts.......

oh I also hate when my dog farts and doesnt warn me.......thats just plain rude
 
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GreenNnice

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I don't like it when people DOUBLE DIP chips at a party , I've trained my 4 year old niece and nephewz 10, so why can't I train others . Ick ! Even my dog doesn't DDI!! ;)

NOW, since this is a singles forum, I go grrr when I like a girl, a lot, and, she expects me to like her so she says something in response to what I say to try and make me feel sorry for her. (Example: Me:It's cold out today. Her:Yeah. What happens when life is cold? ) That makes me feel sorry for her but. Good Christian guy , if he's smart, will flee a Hi with low self-esteem. Don't do it, ladies!!! :) YOU are alive in Christ, don't act dead around me, the wrong guy will take advantage of you, maybe, and, the right guy, a God guy, will fleeeeee :)
 
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I don't like it when someone bumps into you in public and doesn't say excuse me or sorry, and when a cashier at a store fails to say thank you or when you hold the door open for someone and they don't say thank you. It seems like not many people have manners these days.
 
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lordsservant121

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My GRRRRR's are pointless questions. It irks me when:
I ask someone out to lunch and they say, "Why, you hungry?" No I thought the cooks should get some experience!!!!
I am in a chair, book opened, me looking at book with my eyes moving and the come and say, "Whatch doin, readin?" No, I'm looking for Waldo!
I am in bed, lights off, snoring and they come in and ask, "Hey, you sleeping?" No, why, cause I jumped when you shook me?!?!?!

Think before you speak, O family of mine!
 
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My GRRRRR's are pointless questions. It irks me when:
I ask someone out to lunch and they say, "Why, you hungry?" No I thought the cooks should get some experience!!!!
I am in a chair, book opened, me looking at book with my eyes moving and the come and say, "Whatch doin, readin?" No, I'm looking for Waldo!
I am in bed, lights off, snoring and they come in and ask, "Hey, you sleeping?" No, why, cause I jumped when you shook me?!?!?!

Think before you speak, O family of mine!
LOL you should be in comedy! Seriously! :D
 
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thimsrebma

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I don't like it when someone bumps into you in public and doesn't say excuse me or sorry, and when a cashier at a store fails to say thank you or when you hold the door open for someone and they don't say thank you. It seems like not many people have manners these days.

How about when someone doesnt hold the door open for you and you're right behind them so it just slams on you. That is so discourteous.
 
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NukePooch

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Your friend bows humbly before you and begs forgiveness!! Would some lasagna make it better? hahaha
Well, I'm much better now...it's not like I posted a thread asking what everyone's favorite all-around firearm is when certain people were on vacation in Florida or anything...BTW, I'm partial to the Glock 30 myself...or my Remington 870 Express...
 
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Kooper

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When people mumble something, and I release a genuine "Huh?" Or even "What did you say?" but said people go "Nothing." <- Only when it happens more then three to six times a day.

This really gets to me... >_<
 
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Jullianna

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My pet peeve is when I pull up next to a friend and we roll down our windows to chit chat and they wont shut off their diesel.............drives me nuts.......

oh I also hate when my dog farts and doesnt warn me.......thats just plain rude
My dog does that too Hommer :p The silent killers haha
 
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Jullianna

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I don't like it when people DOUBLE DIP chips at a party , I've trained my 4 year old niece and nephewz 10, so why can't I train others . Ick ! Even my dog doesn't DDI!! ;)

NOW, since this is a singles forum, I go grrr when I like a girl, a lot, and, she expects me to like her so she says something in response to what I say to try and make me feel sorry for her. (Example: Me:It's cold out today. Her:Yeah. What happens when life is cold? ) That makes me feel sorry for her but. Good Christian guy , if he's smart, will flee a Hi with low self-esteem. Don't do it, ladies!!! :) YOU are alive in Christ, don't act dead around me, the wrong guy will take advantage of you, maybe, and, the right guy, a God guy, will fleeeeee :)
I read that scientists have tested dips where people have done this and the bacterial level is about the same as if that person had kissed you on the mouth. If you wouldn't kiss them, don't share dip with them. haha

One guy does this: Dips half of a chip into the dip and bites, then spins it around and dips the part he didn't bite into the dip. Not quite as many germs, but he's still had his fingers on it. hahaha
 
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Jullianna

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Well, I'm much better now...it's not like I posted a thread asking what everyone's favorite all-around firearm is when certain people were on vacation in Florida or anything...BTW, I'm partial to the Glock 30 myself...or my Remington 870 Express...
I'm kinda partial to an old 38 my dad gave me with specialized grips for smaller hands :D
 
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Jullianna

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hmmm...these are mine:

1. People who cut me off in traffic (tempts my vocabulary sorely I have to admit), drunk drivers and people who pass in no passing zones. The last two things kill more people on the road than anything else.
2. Gossip
3. Bigotry
4. "Christians" who seem to know the scriptures, but not the loving Spirit thereof, because they seem more concerned about proving themselves right regarding a matter than than they do about edifying their sibs in Christ or downright good manners.
5. People who aren't handicapped and park in handicapped spaces
6. People who stand in the center of a shopping aisle gawking at things while crowds gather trying to get by them
7. General abruptness/rudeness... I think this bugs me most. People who don't care whether they needlessly hurt someone else with their words as long as they get what they want.
 
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thimsrebma

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hmmm...these are mine:

1. People who cut me off in traffic (tempts my vocabulary sorely I have to admit), drunk drivers and people who pass in no passing zones. The last two things kill more people on the road than anything else.
2. Gossip
3. Bigotry
4. "Christians" who seem to know the scriptures, but not the loving Spirit thereof, because they seem more concerned about proving themselves right regarding a matter than than they do about edifying their sibs in Christ or downright good manners.
5. People who aren't handicapped and park in handicapped spaces
6. People who stand in the center of a shopping aisle gawking at things while crowds gather trying to get by them
7. General abruptness/rudeness... I think this bugs me most. People who don't care whether they needlessly hurt someone else with their words as long as they get what they want.
I must admit, I am number 6. I doit all the time and then I realize that people are trying to get around me and I feel so bad. You would think I would stop but I just can't.