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I was thinking almost the same thing today as I was thinking of my ex. Spiritually we were on the right page, same morals, same values, grew up with same beliefs, but there were things about each other we didnt like. We have different personalities and the way we even hear things are totally different. What one says, the other takes a complete different way and yet, we both felt like God told us we were for each other. We arnt together now, but we both are working ourselves with God and havent closed the door. Tonight at work I was thinking of some of the things he does, and to be honest its not bad things, he simply likes to help people WAY to much, to the point where he takes time away from us, but he says that fullfilled him. In reality, if thats the worst thing I have in a person, then I cant complain.
I have realized that there is going to be something about each person in my life that annoys me or bothers me, just like I do to other people. It might be smacking their food or not tapping their leg all the time. I need to just step back and let God work and I feel when God sends you someone, and lays it on your heart, you see them different and learn to grow to love them even when its annoying. I knew with my ex, that I would have to get used to it and accept it, cause this was the man God gave me!
I have realized that there is going to be something about each person in my life that annoys me or bothers me, just like I do to other people. It might be smacking their food or not tapping their leg all the time. I need to just step back and let God work and I feel when God sends you someone, and lays it on your heart, you see them different and learn to grow to love them even when its annoying. I knew with my ex, that I would have to get used to it and accept it, cause this was the man God gave me!