As Christians when dealing with these situations, and make no mistake if you are an adult living anywhere in the world you WILL come across it...you need to know what to do and what to say.
Many christian parents are dealing with their adult children 'coming out' or rather, simply confessing their sinful feelings. Do they ostracise them, shun them, or continue loving them while they are yet sinners? Do they put their own sons and daughters in jail or leave them there? Do they let them figure it out on their own? Or do they force them to pretend they dont have those thoughts and feelings? Do they pray for them?
Where is the minstry for these people that DO ask for help apart from conversion therapy, which is about as useful as getting surgery..? Does it really deal with the root cause of the problem? Nobody who is sexually attracted to someone else seems to be able to know how to control this even amongst heterosexuals, because then why all the adultery and fornication which is wrong as well. Even amongst MARRIED couples.
The other thing is to ask why are you coveting someone elses body in the first place? What exactly is the main issue here? if it wa just a case of too much or not enought testorsterone or oestrogen then eveyrone would just be taking pills to try and balance their genders right? Does anyone think about the consequnces of taking all those pills? esp things like birth control pills and HRT