A lot of men fail at being dads. Just sayin'
and their partners/wives dont let them be good dads either, take over the entire household, because they are undeducated and mothering is the only thing they feel they are good at, but actually end up smothering their children.
Ive observed this in many broken home families.
The trans issue rears its ugly head when males and females have their stupid 'battle of the sexes' each trying to one up each other. This sets up enormous conflict for young people trying to decide if they are more masculine or feminine or even what these mean to them.