What are some of your biggest turnoffs?

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selfdissolving

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Hmmm...
Cocky
Arrogant
Self absorbed
Not a doer of the Word. (Uses christianity like an accessory to meet a specific type of lady, but has no real relationship with Jesus)
Spouts off lame pick up lines to try to impress
Defensive when being questioned and not willing to apologize when wrong
Dishonest
Oh, and poor hygiene.
I find it easier to look past physical things if their character is healthy. :)
Whew, that poor hygiene is a killer.
 

Lanolin

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keeps hinting he wants something....either a particular body part or to clone himself through you.
what am I, your toy and baby factory?
 
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Puppy dog behavior....aka they're a grown adult, they don't need to cling to others all the time. Also goes with respecting personal space. Had a co-worker who kept on going into my cube even though the COVID-19 outbreak was getting serious.
 

Mezame83

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keeps hinting he wants something....either a particular body part or to clone himself through you.
what am I, your toy and baby factory?
That's just weird.
 

Mezame83

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Too much body hair
Being aggressive
Pride
Ogling other women
Watching porn
Bad breath
Smoking
Drinking
Name calling
Doesn't like children/mean to children
Preoccupation with sex
Selfishness
Hypocrites
Talks without listening

Well that was longer than expected.
 
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Liars. I find most physical traits to be secondary to character, but I can’t forgive a liar.
 

Ruby123

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Fake people
Someone who is preoccupied with their looks
Arrogance
 

cv5

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Females without piercings and tattoos is a turn off. I grew up looking at tattoos (my mother was a tattoo artist at one point so I grew reading tattoo books and magazines) I've always enjoyed art and design. I'm not fond of short tempers (however I have developed a temper of my own the past few years so I'm more lenient of that now)
People overly obsessed with tattoos and piercings are highly suspect. Christians will eventually walk away from these sorts of fetish behaviors.
 

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#33
when women show to much skin... before, really knowing Her!
 

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#34
top tier worst turn-off,

when a person talks about their ex... ewww, literary, will throw up in my mouth.
 

Magenta

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Females without piercings and tattoos is a turn off. I grew up looking at tattoos (my mother was a tattoo artist at one point so I grew reading tattoo books and magazines) I've always enjoyed art and design. I'm not fond of short tempers (however I have developed a temper of my own the past few years so I'm more lenient of that now)
That is probably a generational thing, since tats were fairly rare on women just as piercings were rare on men when I was growing up. (Even hair dying was far less common than it is today, maybe except for those trend setting little old ladies who dyed their hair purple ;):giggle:) I have long viewed both tats and piercings as a type of branding, a form of identification with a tribe so to speak. Some people have their little girl's ears pierced at a very young age.
 

Kojikun

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People overly obsessed with tattoos and piercings are highly suspect. Christians will eventually walk away from these sorts of fetish behaviors.
and if I where to marry someone with tattoos would it still be an issue? I find people who make overgenralized statements to be suspect. I dont come here to be hassled.
 
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Pretends to be dead by stopping their heartbeat
Sleeps in a coffin or while hanging like a bat from the ceiling
Is deathly afraid of getting suburned even when its totally cloudy outside
Keeps telling me what life was like in the 15th centurey, 16th century, 17th century, etc..
 
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Pretends to be dead by stopping their heartbeat
Sleeps in a coffin or while hanging like a bat from the ceiling
Is deathly afraid of getting suburned even when its totally cloudy outside
Keeps telling me what life was like in the 15th centurey, 16th century, 17th century, etc..

You know that you can get sunburned while cloudy outside. Happened to my daughter
just 4 day's ago. Lol...
 

cv5

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and if I where to marry someone with tattoos would it still be an issue? I find people who make overgenralized statements to be suspect. I dont come here to be hassled.
I thought that I was clear enough, but let me elaborate. No, Its perfectly fine to marry someone with tatoos. However if you notice that they are making a lifestyle of tatoos and piercing and have no inclination to stop.....beware. Christians will walk away from that libertine behavior and clean up their act. Tatoo parlors are seedy joints to begin with. I would never allow my wife to even enter such a place. BTW, God fobade Israelites to have tatoos and piercing.