What are some of your biggest turnoffs?

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laughingheart

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Pretends to be dead by stopping their heartbeat
Sleeps in a coffin or while hanging like a bat from the ceiling
Is deathly afraid of getting suburned even when its totally cloudy outside
Keeps telling me what life was like in the 15th centurey, 16th century, 17th century, etc..
Yes. This sort of behaviour sucks. :D (I kill me, lol)
 

Lanolin

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Maori tattoos ok...if you are maori. But if you are not...
yea I dont know. Some maori women have moko a few in my school do. Also pacific islanders sometimrs have tradtional tattoos, but they are of patterns and symbolic. they arent like skulls and crossbones or dragons, or their dead ex girlfriends.
Maybe it depends what it is. You just need to figure out if they are part of a gang or not.

personally I would not be comfortable dating an ex-gang member and wouldnt be able to relate with someone like that but I supoose if I was an ex-gang member too it might be a perfect match. we might even have the same tattoos. Then we could both get them lasered off.
 

Lanolin

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when I was gardening quite a few of my workmates had tattoos of plants.
one had a strelitzia and the other had hebe.

I just had a few scratches from where I pruned roses.
 
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- Smoking (a big turn off)
- Drinking alcohol (the odd social drink is fine)
- Vulgarity
- I don't like tattoos personally
- Gossip girls
- Poor hygeine
 

tourist

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If I were single, I would say my biggest turn-off would be a woman who carries a list of her biggest turn-offs in her purse.
 

kinda

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Wearing sex outfits, being extremely hot, having a fun personality, being financially responsible, and being in my general line of sight. How is a guy suppose to stay single, if hot girls, wearing sexy outfits, with fun personalities, being financially responsible, and being in general line of sight? Definitely a turn off!


If only woman would dress like this, my life would be more wonderful.


 
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Wearing sex outfits, being extremely hot, having a fun personality, being financially responsible, and being in my general line of sight. How is a guy suppose to stay single, if hot girls, wearing sexy outfits, with fun personalities, being financially responsible, and being in general line of sight? Definitely a turn off!


If only woman would dress like this, my life would be more wonderful.



Yeah, But would men also have to dress like this?
 

Mezame83

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top tier worst turn-off,

when a person talks about their ex... ewww, literary, will throw up in my mouth.
Excessively I can understand but generally an ex will come up eventually.
 

cinder

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I thought that I was clear enough, but let me elaborate. No, Its perfectly fine to marry someone with tatoos. However if you notice that they are making a lifestyle of tatoos and piercing and have no inclination to stop.....beware. Christians will walk away from that libertine behavior and clean up their act. Tatoo parlors are seedy joints to begin with. I would never allow my wife to even enter such a place. BTW, God fobade Israelites to have tatoos and piercing.
God also forbade them to eat pork or shrimp or lots of other tasty things, to wear clothing of mixed fibers, and to boil a calf in its mothers milk. He also forbade working on the Sabbath and at least in the very early days of the law commanded someone to be executed for doing so. So I'm not sure that the forbidding of tatoos and piercings has any more revelavnce to us than the forbidding of pork ( and bacon, I'm so glad we don't have to follow the anti-bacon laws).
 
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God also forbade them to eat pork or shrimp or lots of other tasty things, to wear clothing of mixed fibers, and to boil a calf in its mothers milk. He also forbade working on the Sabbath and at least in the very early days of the law commanded someone to be executed for doing so. So I'm not sure that the forbidding of tatoos and piercings has any more revelavnce to us than the forbidding of pork ( and bacon, I'm so glad we don't have to follow the anti-bacon laws).
The reason that Jewish people stopped eating pork was that pork does'nt "keep' like beef and they were getting sick from eating it. Probably the same for shell fish...
 

Lanolin

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really didnt they know how to cure it or make bacon...?
Although, bacon isnt so good for you nowadays.

not eating shellfish...well that means more for me. But if they were allergic it might not be so good. They would not be having a fun time on a date to a seafood restaurant, and we couldnt enjoy fish and chips together.

The Israelites were not really allowed to go out with anybody not from their own family...so even now amongst some of the jewish sect they would get excommunicated if one dared to go out with a gentile. Like literally they would be cut off from their family.
 

Lanolin

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if you were a gentile male and wanted to go out with a jewish lady YOU would be the one needing to get circumcised.

Good luck with that one.
 
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if you were a gentile male and wanted to go out with a jewish lady YOU would be the one needing to get circumcised.

Good luck with that one.
I dated a Jewish girl that went to My church. And the other thing was taken care at birth?
 
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Too much body hair
Being aggressive
Pride
Ogling other women
Watching porn
Bad breath
Smoking
Drinking
Name calling
Doesn't like children/mean to children
Preoccupation with sex
Selfishness
Hypocrites
Talks without listening

Well that was longer than expected.
i wouldnt count most of your as JUST turn off's, they should be 'NO NO's' -watching porn in general is wrong (Christian view) and no guy who looks at porn should ever even think of trying to date. (ect its cheating)