Song of Solomon 2:3
As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
Song of Solomon 4:16
Come ... blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits.
1 Corinthians 7:3
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
All your doing (and the rest of you too for that matter) is quoting scriptures which you yourselves have twistedto suit your own lack of understanding. I can see that you all have no idea what these verses these verses truly mean. You only 'think' they mean something. Some of you even believe the song of songs is "holy porn." Where is the discernment amongst you all?
Well I'll explain the true spiritual meaning of thses passages so that you can no longer use them to support your depravity and put other Christians into err who may be reading this thread...
Two important scriptures to keep in mind before i begin:
2 Peter 1:20-21
Above all, you must understand that no prophecy of Scripture came about by the prophet's own interpretation. For phophecy never had its origin in the will of man, but men spoke from God as they were caried along by the Holy Spirit.
2 Timothy 2:16-17
All Scripture is God-Breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteouness, so that the man of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.
The song of songs is a book written by King Solomon (a typee of Christ). The book tells us of God's love for his people through imagery and symbolism. This is done through Solomon (spiritually speaking - Christ) admiring the Shulamite (Christ's Church) and in turn the Shulamite (Christ's Church) praising Solomon (Spiritually speaking - Chirst)
This verse is the Shulamite admiring Solomon (The Church admiring Christ):
Song of Solomon 2:3
As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste
The apple tree is Christ - the man Jesus being compared with ordinary trees, ordinary people. Think about how Christ was the only man to bear fruit to God (in him I am well pleased - Matt 3:17) Think of how Jesus is depicted in and throughout the bible as a tree (Psalm 1:3, Isaiah 11:1, John 15:1)
The shadow talks of the rest and refuge the believer finds in Christ.
Regarding the fruit, this talks of the refreshment there is in knowing Christ in such a sinful world.
As you can see there is absoloutely nothing here to do with oral sex, it is alien to this verse and to the bible too. Let's move on...
Song of Solomon 4:16
Come ... blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits
Wow, you certainly did twist this verse, here is the whole verse:
Song of Songs 4:16
Awake, north wind
and come, south wind!
Blow on my garden,
that its fragrance may spread abroad.
Let my lover come into his garden
and taste its choice fruits.
First of all what is the spiritual meaning of fragrance? It's our offering to God, that which we do which is pleasing to him. (Phil 4:18, Ex 29:18)
The North wind brings cold and rain (Prov 25:23) and the South wind brought a quiet and gentle warmth (Job 37:17 & Luke 12:55). Now when you consider these hard times and easy times of the lives of the saints, doesn't that produce a fragrance of God? Let's think about it, you thank God when things are going well (south wind) and you seek God in hard times (north wind) which produces praise when he answers.
The winds talked about are the Holy Spirit. When the wind blows (the spirit is at work within us) we produce a fragrance which is pleasing to the Lord.
Let my lover (Christ) come into his garden (the assembly) (Think of Matt 18:20)
...And taste its choice fruits...well believers bear fruit (Col 1:10, John 15:2, Matt 3:8 etc)
Again,even the thought of oral sex is ALIEN to this verse.
1 Corinthians 7:3
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husban
From other christian sites:
Question: "What is a Christian couple allowed to do in sex?"
Answer: The Bible says that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a). This verse perhaps lays down the principle for sexual relations in marriage. Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something he or she is uncomfortable with or thinks is wrong. If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (e.g., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.), then the Bible does not give any reason why they cannot.
There are a few things, though, that are never allowable sexually for a married couple. The practice of “swapping,” or "swinging/swingers," or “bringing in an extra” (threesomes, foursomes, etc.) is blatant adultery (Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). Adultery is sin even if your spouse allows, approves, or even participates in it. Pornography appeals to the “lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes” (1 John 2:16) and is therefore condemned by God as well. A husband and wife should never bring pornography into their sexual union. Other than these two items, there is nothing that Scripture explicitly forbids a husband and wife to do with each other as long as it is by mutual consent.
The bible may not say explicitly that oral sex is wrong, but it does talk about sexual immorality on many, many occasions. Now God has indeed allowed a married couple to have sex, that's fine.But there's a line which ought not to be passed and oral sex goes past the line. Here is an example to help you understand. Wine is ok to drink, but if you get drunk then your sinning. Similarly sex is fine, but oral sex crosses the line. Doesnt nature itself tell you it's wrong? I mean, your putting something full of germs, something you pee from, into another persons mouth. And you can't see the wrong in that? Have you no discernment?
