What are your thoughts on oral sex after marriage?

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Maddog

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Elizabeth619 said:
I read in one of the threads where someone said that sex is for reproducing and that is it...well i disagree...
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I think every reasonable person would disagree with the idea that sex is only for reproduction too. If you'll forgive my scepticism, did this person really say that? It just seems too incredulous a suggestion, even for this place.

Elizabeth619 said:
Intimacy is vital in a relationship, it is a way to "unite" as one, obviously make a family and a way to love.
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I agree.
 
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Maddog

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Megatron said:
Ok thats just weird. Really weird. Ok if it deals with something like that ill say their might be something wrong
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Heh, after all your defending of kinky stuff in the marriage bed...but you draw the line at shoes.

Sorry, it just tickled me a bit.
 
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Maddog said:
Heh, after all your defending of kinky stuff in the marriage bed...but you draw the line at shoes.

Sorry, it just tickled me a bit.
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I just said it was weird and he might have something wrong...i didnt say he couldnt do it...but at that point you're no longer loving your wife, you're lusting after her Manolo Blahnik's
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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Maddog said:
I already had you pegged as a right mucky lass.
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So that means you've got about half the people here pegged as mucky. It must be difficult going through life with that sort of negative view of people.
 
seoulsearch

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Megatron said:
I just said it was weird and he might have something wrong...i didnt say he couldnt do it...but at that point you're no longer loving your wife, you're lusting after her Manolo Blahnik's
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I am COMPLETELY SHOCKED.

That a GUY would know who Manolo Blahnik is...
 
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Maddog said:
I think every reasonable person would disagree with the idea that sex is only for reproduction too. If you'll forgive my scepticism, did this person really say that? It just seems too incredulous a suggestion, even for this place.
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reasonable?

curious choice of words considering that I thought it was YOU who held this position. (pun intended)
 
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Brandon777

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niceguyJ said:
Ohh so that's what those things are for. I wish I would've known sooner, cause I could've been saving a lot of money over the last three decades or so by not buying them. eesh.
At the rate I'm going, I might never need them. That's a lot of savings.
Maybe you should be a financial advisor.
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That's funny man!

Megatron said:
Verses Supporting Oral Sex

Song of Solomon 2:3
As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
Song of Solomon 4:16
Come ... blow upon my garden, that the spices thereof may flow out. Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruits.
1 Corinthians 7:3
Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

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Question: "What is a Christian couple allowed to do in sex?"

Answer: The Bible says that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a). This verse perhaps lays down the principle for sexual relations in marriage. Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something he or she is uncomfortable with or thinks is wrong. If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (e.g., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.), then the Bible does not give any reason why they cannot.

There are a few things, though, that are never allowable sexually for a married couple. The practice of “swapping,” or "swinging/swingers," or “bringing in an extra” (threesomes, foursomes, etc.) is blatant adultery (Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). Adultery is sin even if your spouse allows, approves, or even participates in it. Pornography appeals to the “lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes” (1 John 2:16) and is therefore condemned by God as well. A husband and wife should never bring pornography into their sexual union. Other than these two items, there is nothing that Scripture explicitly forbids a husband and wife to do with each other as long as it is by mutual consent.
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I agree 100%
 
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Jullianna

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^ditto^

I had trouble reading anything after the words "Manolo Blahnik". Thank you for not posting a picture. That would have been my undoing.

The flipflops in this thread are pretty cool too. ;)
 
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Jullianna

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I don't want to discount the postings of a minor (though I disagree, the post was well thought out) and I'm the last person to have an issue with consenting adults discussing anything, but I do have to agree with Megatron and Dino.... If much of this discussion had taken place with a minor in PM, this guy probably woulda shown up............. so we do need to be careful here :)
 

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Why is it so shocking i know what manolo blahnik's are?
 
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syborg

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this thread. . simply . . wow. . some strong views out there. . personally I like the giving and receiving of oral pleasure. .
 
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Megatron said:
Why is it so shocking i know what manolo blahnik's are?
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If we took a poll as to how many other guys here knew who he was or what he does for a living (not that it's necessary, I'm just sayin'), how many would know?

We know of at least one guy here... I doubt we'd find many others. Not that it's important but it was just really surprising!! (How many other guys would know about $500-$1500 and up shoes??)

Not that I know by experience but I've read about them. :) The next thing we know... Megatron is going to start posting about (Jane) Birken and (Grace) Kelly bags... :D
 
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seoulsearch said:
If we took a poll as to how many other guys here knew who he was or what he does for a living (not that it's necessary, I'm just sayin'), how many would know?

We know of at least one guy here... I doubt we'd find many others. Not that it's important but it was just really surprising!! (How many other guys would know about $500-$1500 and up shoes??)

Not that I know by experience but I've read about them. :) The next thing we know... Megatron is going to start posting about (Jane) Birken and (Grace) Kelly bags... :D
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Nah... I more into Dooney and Bourke...
 
Mediate

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Lol sperm does not cause miraculous diseases after 5 or 6 years lol that's hilarious. It's perfectly normal to have fun with your partner, and healthy for the relationship to. What you do in the bedroom after marriage is your own business :)
 
zeroturbulence

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I hear my metrosexual-radar beginning to go off in here. :)
 
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