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doll

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1.) Don't stand up for the people who hurt others. 2.) It's not the internet I take seriously , it's God and Christianity.
 
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Ugly

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Exactly , it was unrelated!! You had to dig through my blog just to find that. And the subject was about a man who MOLESTED AND RAPED innocent children, I do not take it back ...I do hope he gets harsh judgement. You must not have children or have not been molested. Maybe then you might have a similar opinion. So no... I am not perfect and I never claimed to be,but I will ALWAYS stand for the weak, the voiceless ...the CHILDREN. Further more id rather be persecuted by the likes of you for speaking up for a innocent angelic child rather than a person on a dating blog who thinks its alright to make fun of people,specially a NEW Christian. Amen to that.
Persecuted? Setting yourself up as a martyr and a victim is not the same as persecution. I said clearly i was not attacking you but offering you something to consider. If you are happy to live your life playing the 'woe is me' card then, fine. But i'm not going to fold under your self righteous guilt trip.
So feel free to twist my words further, find insults where there are none and try to manipulate people. I will not be a victim to your deep seated anger and insecurities, your guilt or manipulation. Welcome to my ignore button.
 
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Donkeyfish07

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I forgive her, the bad joke still hurt I feel an apology is owed but I can't drag it out of someone who simply doesn't care.
It wasn't meant to be taken seriously, and it wasn't directed at you anyway. May I suggest a chill pill?

 
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doll

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I will pray for you because that is what Christ wants me to do, God Bless.
 

Nautilus

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i think he is saying more prescription meds, not drugs
 
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Donkeyfish07

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i think he is saying more prescription meds, not drugs
lol.....I was just talking about the proverbial "chill pill" and whipped up a quick pic to go with the post. I think she just takes everything too seriously. I wasn't actually suggesting she get on meds :p
 
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doll

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Persecuted? Setting yourself up as a martyr and a victim is not the same as persecution. I said clearly i was not attacking you but offering you something to consider. If you are happy to live your life playing the 'woe is me' card then, fine. But i'm not going to fold under your self righteous guilt trip.
So feel free to twist my words further, find insults where there are none and try to manipulate people. I will not be a victim to your deep seated anger and insecurities, your guilt or manipulation. Welcome to my ignore button.
Praying for you. God Bless.
 
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doll

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lol.....I was just talking about the proverbial "chill pill" and whipped up a quick pic to go with the post. I think she just takes everything too seriously. I wasn't actually suggesting she get on meds :p
I will continue to pray for you all and for my own understanding...I don't think anyone here realizes nor cares how hurtful they have been. I will pray in good faith and good spirit, no ill intentions or sarcasm in my words. I have not been offered any kind words or prayer here. It's best that I leave.
 
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Donkeyfish07

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I will continue to pray for you all and for my won understanding...I don't think anyone here realizes nor cares how hurtful they have been. I will pray in good faith and good spirit, no ill intentions or sarcasm in my words. I have not been offered any kind words or prayer here. It's best that I leave.
I've got nothing against you sis....I just think you need to chillax. There's no reason to be upset over anything.
 

Nautilus

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I will continue to pray for you all and for my own understanding...I don't think anyone here realizes nor cares how hurtful they have been. I will pray in good faith and good spirit, no ill intentions or sarcasm in my words. I have not been offered any kind words or prayer here. It's best that I leave.
I never meant to start a war
I just wanted you to let me in
And instead of using force
I guess I should've let you win
I never meant to start a war
I just wanted you to let me in
I guess I should've let you win

 
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which in return she inboxed me and it was also condescending ,no apology at all.
Uh, WHOA there lady... I refused to be riled by your other accusations, but this is just slander. This is what I sent you:

Hi Doll, my comment about using the Bible index was a joke, in response to the post above it which was also a joke. The others knew that. I just wanted to make sure that you did. :)

Cheers!


I would like to see WHERE in this very polite and deliberately friendly note (especially after your attack on my character in a public forum) you see condescension?

I forgive her, the bad joke still hurt I feel an apology is owed but I can't drag it out of someone who simply doesn't care. I think the lesson to be learned here is that we should really watch what we say because words can cut to the bone.

Yes they can. Have a care, please. I've already explained to you what my post was in reference to. It was not written about ANY new Christian. If it helps you to move forward, then I am certainly sorry. That's all I have to say about it.
 
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Tintin

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I don't put many people on Ignore, but there goes one more.
 
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Donkeyfish07

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I think my threads are cursed
 
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FireWire

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Why is it that so many women who ARE intelligent still go for men that are bigoted towards women who are intelligent while ignoring the men that find the very fact that they are intelligent the most attractive thing about them? Because deep down women are just as shallow as they claim men are. In short, you women are as depraved as we are, perhaps worse.
I've said this in a couple of other threads. My personal opinion is that a lot of women are in fact worse than men but unfortunately the bible says we're all equally guilty and none is worse that the other.

The problem I see is women say they're not shallow and not as bad as men. Seriously?

There was a thread recently that opened with: I'm not shallow but there's this cute guy et al.

I have done the math and this doesn't compute given what women say.
 
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danschance

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Doll,

I just saw a few of your posts and in all honesty you seem to be very sensitive. A person makes a light hearted joke and you took it the wrong way. You feel persecuted but now others are starting to also feel persecuted by your condescending attitude. The people you are praying for are in my opinion decent Christians who I have never seen rude.

When I was a kid my dad would tell us stories at bed time. He told one story of a man who had Limburger cheese for lunch and some got caught in his mustache. Then opened the front door to go out side. Everywhere he went he smelled the stinky cheese and concluded the whole world stunk.

I am starting to wonder if you had Limburger cheese for lunch? As you think this whole site is attacking you while others can't understand why you feel persecuted. I hope you will take this in the spirit of correction it was given, but I also expect to read that you will be praying for me as well.
 
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lav

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i got so lost in all of this , i feel bad for everyone !


have a happy thanksgiving all

side note : one sex is not better than another just as one person isn't better than another.
we all fall short.

we're all just trying , maybe we could forgive and forget and move past this chaotic thread into some friendlier territory ?

it could be nice if we were able to discuss things and not freak out .

it would be a nice day to remember our One true love , and the forgiveness and mercy he had and has and will always have for us who believe in Him.
 
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lav

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I've said this in a couple of other threads. My personal opinion is that a lot of women are in fact worse than men but unfortunately the bible says we're all equally guilty and none is worse that the other.

The problem I see is women say they're not shallow and not as bad as men. Seriously?

There was a thread recently that opened with: I'm not shallow but there's this cute guy et al.

I have done the math and this doesn't compute given what women say.
i feel partially responsible for triggering the ' war of the sexes '

but in the words of rodney king ' can't we all just get along ? '

enough already.

we're all flawed . we all struggle with the flesh... and it gets especially ugly when we turn on other members of the body, especially those of the SAME sex.

i guess it was destined to unravel to this, but should we not also support the opposite sex... and be willing to be honest and work through some of these issues in prayer and patience with one another ?

love,
patience, kindness, goodness....
these things
 
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lav

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1 Corinthians 13

New International Version (NIV)

13 If I speak in the tongues[SUP][a][/SUP] of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. [SUP]2 [/SUP]If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. [SUP]3 [/SUP]If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast,[SUP][b][/SUP] but do not have love, I gain nothing.
[SUP]4 [/SUP]Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. [SUP]5 [/SUP]It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. [SUP]6 [/SUP]Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. [SUP]7 [/SUP]It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
[SUP]8 [/SUP]Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. [SUP]9 [/SUP]For we know in part and we prophesy in part, [SUP]10 [/SUP]but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. [SUP]11 [/SUP]When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. [SUP]12 [/SUP]For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
[SUP]13 [/SUP]And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

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i've made mistakes, am making them now and will continue to make them,
who of us doesn't ?
forgiveness, because we were forgiven first... Love because we were loved
FIRST


i know we've all probably heard this passage, but i really feel it's a great and important one, and one of my favorites.
i'm going to try very hard to meditate on it today.
 
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