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Nautilus

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Oh the glorious breakdowns i miss while at work...it was probably good i wasnt here for that...
 
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Doll did not say that quote about Grace, in case that's what anyone is thinking. I took that from an unrelated comment of hers.
 
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GraceLikeRain and Tintin This is my last post on the subject.
Furthermore here are Gods words on the subject not my own. God Bless!

Ephesians 4:29

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.


Ephesians 5:4

Let there be no filthiness nor foolish talk nor crude joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving.



Proverbs 26:18-19

Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death is the man who deceives his neighbor and says, “I am only joking!”

Seems that GOD comes to the defense once again.
I'm confused. What is this in response to? I haven't been in this thread for days.
 
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He molested Children!!! which one here is the bigger issue?? You are obviously not a parent nor have ever been molested. I also never said it was right to wish that upon someone but we all have our own sins , id rather be persecuted for standing up for innocent children than someone who makes fun of new Christians.
Now I'm really confused. No-one is advocating abuse, child or otherwise. I'm strongly opposed to such evils.
 
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Doll did not say that quote about Grace, in case that's what anyone is thinking. I took that from an unrelated comment of hers.
Exactly , it was unrelated!! You had to dig through my blog just to find that. And the subject was about a man who MOLESTED AND RAPED innocent children, I do not take it back ...I do hope he gets harsh judgement. You must not have children or have not been molested. Maybe then you might have a similar opinion. So no... I am not perfect and I never claimed to be,but I will ALWAYS stand for the weak, the voiceless ...the CHILDREN. Further more id rather be persecuted by the likes of you for speaking up for a innocent angelic child rather than a person on a dating blog who thinks its alright to make fun of people,specially a NEW Christian. Amen to that.
 
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Sorry, but since the day she's joined i've not heard or seen one bad word said against Grace. She is well liked and her humor has gone over well. Perhaps the issue lies in your own defensiveness. This is not a criticism, just something for you to consider.
I am not concerned with popularity as you seem to be, a simple apology would have sufficed. Obviously other people had agreed with me that it was not a very nice joke at all. I have quoted scripture of what GOD has to say about this exact treatment. I think its something we should all learn from.
 
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Tintin

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Ugly concerned with popularity? That's a good one! Which joke are we talking about, because I think we have our communication wires crossed incorrectly.
 
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MissCris

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Wow, guys...what on earth did y'all do to this thread?! :p
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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I was reading back starting here...got all the way back to page 8 & lost interest...maybe I should have just started at the 1st page. I am feeling rebellious tonight though.
 
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Tintin

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Dolly, Descyple is our official CC (Class Clown). He was joking and Grace was playing off his joke, nothing more. It's all done in good spirits.
 

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Dolly, Descyple is our official CC (Class Clown). He was joking and Grace was playing off his joke, nothing more. It's all done in good spirits.
Grace was playing off one of my jokes??? Hey Grace, back-off, I work alone (unless your joke was really funny, than I'll allow it!!!).

And thank you for the compliment Tintin. The last time someone called me a clown was my psychiatrist, but it sounds more meaningful coming for you - lol.
 
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Ugly concerned with popularity? That's a good one! Which joke are we talking about, because I think we have our communication wires crossed incorrectly.
Thank you for attempting to sort this mess out, it has been blown way out of the water.

It surely did not read as a joke and I do not see how its funny. She said " Using the index is a terrible idea Donk. Anyone caught using the index is automatically labeled as a Bible illiterate. It's even worse than flipping backward and forward with that dazed expression on your face. Just sing that children's song over and over... Genesis, Exodus, Leviticusssss.... (There's a tune, but you have to add it on your end.)"

this is the sort of mentality that keeps people from wanting to learn , simply because they are being made fun of by what is supposed to be a fellow Christian. How in the world is this funny in any other way than cruel and condescending?

So I spoke my mind about it. Crucify me I guess... I said "

We all need to start somewhere, there is no sense in downing someone who is trying to learn and If I were you I would lose that uppity judgmental tone its really unattractive.

which in return she inboxed me and it was also condescending ,no apology at all. I feel that internet bullies are ramped. A simple apology would have done. Lord knows if I hurt someone ,even with a bad joke id apologize. I guess not all people care about the feelings of others. They just care about being right or liked.
 
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Dolly, Descyple is our official CC (Class Clown). He was joking and Grace was playing off his joke, nothing more. It's all done in good spirits.
I forgive her, the bad joke still hurt I feel an apology is owed but I can't drag it out of someone who simply doesn't care. I think the lesson to be learned here is that we should really watch what we say because words can cut to the bone.
 
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Yes, we need to watch our tongues but I honestly can't see what's wrong with the joke. I believe you've had some horrible experiences. Maybe you're projecting as a result. Also, who's the new Christian? Donkey's been here for ages. I'm far from perfect but I've seen nothing but a Christ-likeness from Grace.

Now I'm even more confused.
 
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Yes, we need to watch our tongues but I honestly can't see what's wrong with the joke. I believe you've had some horrible experiences. Maybe you're projecting as a result. Also, who's the new Christian? Donkey's been here for ages. I'm far from perfect but I've seen nothing but a Christ-likeness from Grace.
Then nothing I have to say will matter to you in regards of the ill considered joke. Sometimes we say things that hurt others because we haven't considered people who are not like us . Myself and a hand full of friends that I brought with me here are new in Christ. Having someone joke about how you read the bible doesn't necessarily make things any easier. Even God himself doesn't approve of the treatment. I am Thankful that I can read the bible as well as I can so far. I might get lost but its not funny or something I want to be made fun of for. Someday you might be the new guy and lets hope that someone sticks up for you.
So defend that hurtful joke all you want. I don't see any sort of love in that treatment.
 

Nautilus

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Tsk Tsk, we all know you can't cast revive until level 30
please...i added raise dead to my spellbook at level 9. All i need now is the material component of a diamond worth 5000 gold. then im in business.
 

Nautilus

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Then nothing I have to say will matter to you in regards of the ill considered joke. Sometimes we say things that hurt others because we haven't considered people who are not like us . Myself and a hand full of friends that I brought with me here are new in Christ. Having someone joke about how you read the bible doesn't necessarily make things any easier. Even God himself doesn't approve of the treatment. I am Thankful that I can read the bible as well as I can so far. I might get lost but its not funny or something I want to be made fun of for. Someday you might be the new guy and lets hope that someone sticks up for you.
So defend that hurtful joke all you want. I don't see any sort of love in that treatment.
As advice 1)dont get so easily offended and 2) dont take the internet so seriously