A man that can lead. This means morally this man can make good moral decisions. This means the practice of good judgement, patience, discernment, love, mercy... etc. This makes him a good leader and trust worthy.
Closely related to this... she also wants a man that can stand up for her and those beliefs. A man that can protect. Think of David facing Goliath. Men, I'd say... were created to protect their community. This is, I believe, part of manhood.
On a more social level, when someone is rude... lies... or acts like a jack ass...I also think men (the ideal kind of men anyways) should verbally protect and stand up as-well.
Next, I also think its part of manhood to be hard workers and provide for family.
I also think women have emotional needs to be fullfilled. They want to feel good. That's why they like funny guys.... then again who doesn't? Still, I think they need to feel good somehow... maybe this can be fullfilled via humor, romance, or maybe just her just feeling "safe"with you.
I also think women are attracted to a man who shows consistency. It makes them feel like you'd be reliable and that you'd be "safe."
That's what I think so far... watcha peoples think?