What step/s are you taking to find a spouse? (multiple-choice poll)

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What steps r u taking to find a spouse (click all that apply)

  • Using online dating site(s)

    Votes: 4 8.3%
  • Dating a live person

    Votes: 2 4.2%
  • Dating someone online

    Votes: 4 8.3%
  • Looking for someone to date in real life (not through a site)

    Votes: 1 2.1%
  • Praying AND looking

    Votes: 11 22.9%
  • Praying, but NOT looking

    Votes: 8 16.7%
  • Not interested in a relationship at all right now

    Votes: 6 12.5%
  • I'm married, duh!

    Votes: 2 4.2%
  • I've simply given up

    Votes: 6 12.5%
  • Stalking o_o (just kidding!)

    Votes: 4 8.3%

  • Total voters
    48

Fenner

Senior Member
Jan 26, 2013
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#61
Hey, some of those crazy women out there have dead bodies in the trunk of their car.

We don't want Tintin to become another statistic.
Try putting them in a hatchback. Not easy.
 
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Catlynn

Guest
#63
My PASTOR is trying to play matchmaker for me. That's when you know it must be bad....lol
 
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Tintin

Guest
#64
My PASTOR is trying to play matchmaker for me. That's when you know it must be bad....lol
American men must be blind. You seem to be an amazing young woman, and mature in your faith too. :)
 
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Catlynn

Guest
#65
American men must be blind. You seem to be an amazing young woman, and mature in your faith too. :)
Wow! Thanks! What a great start to my day! I think it may judt be that I live in the middle of nowhere and don't often meet new people, especially not guys my age who are single. LoL
but really....thanks so much!
 

Fenner

Senior Member
Jan 26, 2013
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#66
I'm 6 foot 5 inches tall. I wouldn't fit in a hatchback.

You can put anything in a hatchback if you try hard enough;)

I'm only 5 foot 4 inches, I have a friend that is 6 foot 3 inches, he always says he feels like Big Bird talking to a dwarf when he talks to me.
 
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Tintin

Guest
#67
Wow! Thanks! What a great start to my day! I think it may judt be that I live in the middle of nowhere and don't often meet new people, especially not guys my age who are single. LoL
but really....thanks so much!
Hey, no worries! It's not just your physical looks either (although you're certainly blessed) but your Christ-like character and your love for live are very apparent here and elsewhere. Good on you, mate! It's type for bed. Have a blessed day!
 

AzureAfire

Senior Member
Apr 16, 2013
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#68
I'm proud to declare that i'm not dating nor looking either :) i'm done with that nonsense XD

I'm just prayerfully waiting on Papa GOD to bring me together with that pleasantly weird, wonderfully crazy, uber hot and cool, beautifully holy man that HE has in store for me :eek: someday, when we're both ready. In HIS perfect time :)

I used to be so insecure, thinking that i have to do something to get the attention of the one who i think just might be "the one"...trying so hard to be the quintessential "dream girl" that he just couldn't resist. And yes, i have gotten their attention, and even their focus. But i come to realize that the fear just gets worse...knowing that they really never pursued me, and that i stand the risk of losing them and their affections if i don't keep my juggling act going and becoming more awesome by the minute...*sigh* it was just all SO pathetic and SO wrong!!!

When i finally realized my true worth before our LORD, and have come to discover the depth and awesomeness of HIS love for me, i finally learned to value and love myself just as HE does, and to trust HIM completely in HIS plan and will for my life. Now, i want the love that HE wants for me to receive :) that perfect love that casts out all fear, pure, beautiful, and awe-inspiring. I want only that person HE has set apart for me (and set me apart for), and no one else :eek:

I don't have to be anything i'm not. And i don't have to be attractive to every man in this world. I just have to be everything that Papa GOD wants me to be. HIS daughter that abides in HIM, is inspired by HIM, walking with HIM daily, singing HIS praises, following HIS call, delighting in HIM, and resting and trusting in HIS love. With all my crazy quirks, and everything that makes me unique as is XD HE will bring out the very best in me, and beautify me from the inside out. HE will prepare me for everything, including meeting my one special guy who "sees" me :)

So for the meantime, while i'm waiting, i'll just keep on spreading love and craziness here at CC XD have to do some good and stave off the boredom at the same time!!!
 
Dec 21, 2012
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#69

Praying, not looking, stalking, given up, and "I don't know therefore aliens"



praus_daate.jpg
 

Cee

Senior Member
May 14, 2010
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#70
I blow the fresh aroma of chocolate chip cookies out a window with a high powered fan. So far, I've only had random animals come by, but hey I'll take the free pets.
 

rachelsedge

Senior Member
Oct 15, 2012
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#71
My PASTOR is trying to play matchmaker for me. That's when you know it must be bad....lol
My pastor is my dad. :p Though I don't think I'd want him playing matchmaker for me either...
 

Oncefallen

Idiot in Chief
Staff member
Jan 15, 2011
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#72
I thought everyone in America had to know how to speak and write in English?
You must be confusing us with some other country. Numerous attempts over the years to make English the official language of America have failed due to liberals claiming it will cause undue hardship on immigrants. As a result state and federal governments print documents (including applications for government aid) in numerous languages thus removing any incentive to learn English whatsoever. [/endrant]
 

Oncefallen

Idiot in Chief
Staff member
Jan 15, 2011
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#73
To answer the OP, I'm not doing anything at all to find a spouse (option wasn't available in the poll). I'm quite sure that if I was doing something to "find" a spouse, my lady would quickly disappear.
 
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arwen83

Guest
#74
Considering bacon-perfume, surely that would attract some fine young chaps
 
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MySavior

Guest
#76
in God's will he will find me a spouse
 

CatHerder

Senior Member
Mar 20, 2013
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#77
It's easy!! First, I prepare a giant version of one of these:

box trap.jpg

Then, depending what kind of woman I want, I insert the appropriate bait...

for and adventurous woman:

wild shoes.jpg

for a Scottish lass:

scottish shoes.jpg

and for someone from Kansas:

ruby slippers.jpg .

It the part that comes afterward that's difficult...they are usually pretty ticked off after the trap has activated... that Kansas chick even tried to bring a house down on me....


 
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BananaPie

Guest
#78

...call my "crazy;" here's my number?



 
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mykim

Guest
#79
I am hopeless with women, so i have given up on marriage.
 
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kenthomas27

Guest
#80
Every time I ask a girl out this is what I see

girl with cross.jpg

it makes me lick my teeth and hisssssssssssss-awah