What would you like in a mate?

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Perhaps this topic has already been covered, but I thought it was an interesting question. I’m not looking for a mate, but I suppose if I WERE looking for one, I would want her to be faithful and not much lazier than I am. It might help if she shared some of my interests. I would want someone who was at least a little tolerant of my faults, not someone who is too overbearing.
 
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I was thinking a chef, neat freak, one who talks a lot, knows more about God than me would be nice.
 
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SeekinHIM

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Dear resurrection33,

I would want her to be faithful and not much lazier than I am. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA WOW, I ABOUT FELL OFF OF MY CHAIR WHEN I READ THIS...........

THANKS .............GOT SERATONIN, CUZ I GOT LOTS........THANKS TO YOU!!!!

VERY CUTE. MY PRAYER FOR YOU EXACTLY.........LOL.

SeekinHIM
 
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Dear resurrection33,

I would want her to be faithful and not much lazier than I am. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAA WOW, I ABOUT FELL OFF OF MY CHAIR WHEN I READ THIS...........

THANKS .............GOT SERATONIN, CUZ I GOT LOTS........THANKS TO YOU!!!!

VERY CUTE. MY PRAYER FOR YOU EXACTLY.........LOL.

SeekinHIM
You didn’t tell us what sort of mate you’d look for, if you were looking for a mate.
 
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sportygirl

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Im honestly waiting on God on this one, but I've learned from the past, I need someone willing to work, willing to spend time with me, and someone I can share my faith with and speak my mind without fear of being judged.
 
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KeithOfTheNet

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Someone near me who could understand my quiet ways
 

Sharp

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Whichever woman gives water to my camels, she'll be the one for me.
 
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Wug

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One who can talk to me. One that's cool to hang out with. One that likes to eat, since I like to cook. One that's geeky about something I don't hate. One that doesn't want cats. One with ranged skills (since I'm mostly close ranged, it would be usefull in battle). One who's not a significantly higher lvl than me. 0n3 7h47 <0u1d r34d 7h!5 53n73n<3 \/\/0u1d 83 n!<3. I'm alliance, and if she were horde, well, it probably wouldn't work out...

No, f'real though. Easy to talk to, and of the same spiritual maturity as myself. That's who I'd like.
 
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howdy

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I would like someone who I can help grow and someone who does the same for me. I feel like as long as we better each other, the small things will fall into place. Of course he would have to love kids though, being that I am a mother and almost a teacher.
 
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Girl_22

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I would like someone who I can be friends with first and will always be there for me, nice, caring, honesty and faithful doesn't smoke or drink and goes to church and loves to talk about the bible. I think I might be too picky haha.
 
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Proverbs 31:10-31 (KJV) Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

Maybe I'm being too picky ;)
 
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ChristopherMichael

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I would like someone who I can be friends with first and will always be there for me, nice, caring, honesty and faithful doesn't smoke or drink and goes to church and loves to talk about the bible. I think I might be too picky haha.

Are you in prison? (Your photo.)
 
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ivy

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I dream of a mate who is afraid God. THe one if I am with him we will grow together in God.. The one who will love me with what ever I am and I will love him.. and who love my family too.

The one who is responsi ble and not arrogant.. and has a job ofcourse..

God bless u all
 

DinoDillinger

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One who can talk to me. One that's cool to hang out with. One that likes to eat, since I like to cook. One that's geeky about something I don't hate. One that doesn't want cats. One with ranged skills (since I'm mostly close ranged, it would be usefull in battle). One who's not a significantly higher lvl than me. 0n3 7h47 <0u1d r34d 7h!5 53n73n<3 \/\/0u1d 83 n!<3. I'm alliance, and if she were horde, well, it probably wouldn't work out...

No, f'real though. Easy to talk to, and of the same spiritual maturity as myself. That's who I'd like.
Awwe man why are ya hating on the horde??? You know salvation has now come to the heathens. :p
 
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Girl_22

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Are you in prison? (Your photo.)
Hi ChristopherMichael

NO I am not in prison the thing behind me is a chinese or japanese screen thing my mom has. Are you kidding or were you being serious? I have never been to prison I don't smoke or drink or do anything dumb like that.
 
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Maddog

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This one again? Okay:

I'm not looking for a girlfriend, but if I ever decided to get into that courting game, my ideal list would look something like this:

1. Christian, preferably of a High Church orientation or Catholic.
2. Fit
3. Smoker, or someone who otherwise hasn't jumped on the anti-smoking bandwagon (basically if I married her I'd want to able to smoke in my own home).
4. Intelligent and independent, yet submissive.
5. I suppose it'd be nice if I got on with her as well.
 
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Maddog

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Hi ChristopherMichael

NO I am not in prison the thing behind me is a chinese or japanese screen thing my mom has. Are you kidding or were you being serious? I have never been to prison I don't smoke or drink or do anything dumb like that.
Maybe you've just got two sentences running into each other and don't really mean what you seem to be implying, but if not I should advise you that it is not ordinarily an offence (prisonable or otherwise) for a 25 year old to smoke and/or drink.
 
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SeekinHIM

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Dear Resurrection 33,

I just read what you said about me not telling what I would look for in a mate...........First of all She would be totally consumed in CHRIST............In other words, Seated in Her Heavenly location RESTING THE SABBATH REST OF CHRIST .......While JESUS WAS AND IS INDEED MOVING THROUGH HER EARTHSUIT HERE.........Appearance is not so much of an issue for me, Heart content is far more important.......Meek and lowly in heart, tender, honest, loving, willing to go anywhere CHRIST asked her too, and truly wanting to be a JOINT- HEIR of life.......LIFE IN HIM. With her husband.....

There's more but the rest would be a little too personal to put here.......

SeekinHIM