What would you like in a mate?
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Like Yeah...its like the traditional kiss on the hand thing but it lasts longer! so sweet...
Backs?
Kuroko...that is what you need kids for...they can walk, jump, and provide an often and less occasional elbow drop to the back. That must have been why men created wrestling...
Backs?
Kuroko...that is what you need kids for...they can walk, jump, and provide an often and less occasional elbow drop to the back. That must have been why men created wrestling...
Foot rubs!
Do girls ever feel more pampered then when they are getting their feet rubbed, I'm curious
It works the same for guys but any working guy knows it's all about a back massage, the trouble is those have to be done harder ^_^
Do girls ever feel more pampered then when they are getting their feet rubbed, I'm curious
It works the same for guys but any working guy knows it's all about a back massage, the trouble is those have to be done harder ^_^
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hmm ok. A man's man, yet a woman's man too. lol In other words, he would have no problems cleaning the house, doing laundry, dishes, etc. He would be much more organized than I, because I need help there. He would also fix things that are broken in the house. I love to cook, but he would have to too at times, so he needs to be a good cook. He would lead the family unit. IE Lead in prayer and bible study and be consistant with it. He would be supper gentle with children and be able to really connect with them. He would be coroperative in almost every area including finances. IE There wouldn't be "his money" and "my money" , we would work together to meet our financial needs equally participating. He would make me bust out laughing when I'm angry. He would speak softly and gently to me when he disagrees. He would be adventerous and hate watching TV. He would make me feel safe in the most dire of circumstances. He would protect me, and my name. In other words if someone trash talked me, he would defend me period. He would always correct me with the Word and not his opinions. He would teach me new things about God. If I can respect him, I can adore him, therefore I can follow him anywhere.
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What do I want in a mate? I think right now, I just want to be with me. So, I guess I want a 26 year old mom who goes to school, works full time but still has time to be a good role model for her son. I need to figure out what I'm doing with my life first before I know what I want. I thought I knew, even recently, but I'm not happy with my relationship with God right now so I probably shouldn't even think about a relationship with a dude because it wouldn't work out the way I need it to in order to be happy. So, I think me and the ol' ball and chain called it quits last night. My announcement: I am beginning a relationship with myself. I am determined to be a better christian, mother, employee, student, friend, and person. Wish us luck!
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Like Yeah...its like the traditional kiss on the hand thing but it lasts longer! so sweet...
Backs?
Kuroko...that is what you need kids for...they can walk, jump, and provide an often and less occasional elbow drop to the back. That must have been why men created wrestling...
Backs?
Kuroko...that is what you need kids for...they can walk, jump, and provide an often and less occasional elbow drop to the back. That must have been why men created wrestling...
Who let you in on the secret anyway?! ^_^
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wowo...yeah girl that the man. I know there are men like that out there. My step dad is one, my cousin soon to have twins, my friend's husband, and my oldest son... Oh and a handful of pastors I have around me. These men show love to their family's withholding harmful judgment- criticism, maintaining reasonable expectations, and having self control. They love just being with their family and do not put pressure on their wives to perform. I think that what we expect from one another sometimes will actually create fear and anxiety in them, not bearing the fruit that we really want to see. If we love a person for who they are unconditionally, then they will become the best that they can be by choice. This is the gift that we receive when we are supportive and endure the rough areas they have to work through. Just as we choose to serve God or not. The Lord gives us room to really crash, if we know that our spouse gives us this same room women feel secure. I can't see how a christian or any person with their head on straight would want to mess up this sort of good thing. Once you have kids..and they have been through the ringer of divorce, or illness, or some other condition...all you want is for them to be happy no matter what. Even when they can do nothing but look at you and cry. Would you turn your face to them in shame or embarrassment? Would you leave them for someone else to deal with? What if that was you? Our spouses at times could be like our children. But this does not always last. When we make a promise for in sickness and in health. We are provided an opportunity to stand by our word or change the contract and try to justify it. If a person can consciously live with the justification of intolerance, then I would not want that type of person in my life anyway.