I let it come. I face it. I feel it. I accept the reality of it as something that has happened. I examine the positive or negative progress that I've made and determine which direction I want to go in. Then I let it go because I do not want it to consume me. No point in spending so much time thinking and reflecting on things you cannot change. Once in a while, God will bring up something in the past to give me an opportunity to heal hurts and correct wrongs, but only in his perfect timing.