Where do you look for other singles?

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seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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Tintin said:
Weird. My church has many more guys than girls.
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I vote that all the single ladies here pool together and go on a "Missions Trip" to Tintin's church.

Because would all definitely be Women On a Mission...

In all seriousness, I have never heard of, much less attended, a church that had more guys than girls, and after moving around several times, I've been to a lot of churches.
 
shineyourlight

shineyourlight

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I go to Walmart to look for single men.

.....................​kidding.
 
jsr1221

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shineyourlight said:
I go to Walmart to look for single men.

.....................​kidding.
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You know, about 120 Walmarts do do this. You put a red ribbon on your cart, and walk around. The red ribbon shows you're looking to meet someone of the opposite sex.
 
shineyourlight

shineyourlight

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jsr1221 said:
You know, about 120 Walmarts do do this. You put a red ribbon on your cart, and walk around. The red ribbon shows you're looking to meet someone of the opposite sex.
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What is this? I don't even......
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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jsr1221 said:
You know, about 120 Walmarts do do this. You put a red ribbon on your cart, and walk around. The red ribbon shows you're looking to meet someone of the opposite sex.
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Why do I feel the need to suddenly go grocery shopping?

(Will I scare off all the men if they find me stopping by the prune, I mean, dried plum, section?)
 
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blondieindahouse

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I told the Lord long ago that I was done looking. I got tired of "christian" men high tailing it and running when I told them that sex was for marriage. So I said" Lord, I guess you will literally have to have him come knocking on my door".

Well, you see..... here lies my dilemna:
I have this handsome mailman that brings my mail to my door( I have a mailbox down the street) and I keep telling myself I am going to ask him if he knows Jesus. So he comes and goes and I freeze up every single time:)

Many who know me would laugh at me if I profess to being shy but in the sense of advancing myself to seem like I am interested;I really am terrified.

So the mailman will come and the mailman will go . I suppose Ill never know. The moments he is walking to and fro the door are pleasant though! Im a poet and I dont know it! LOL

I try to budget in ordering cheap things from china that wont fit in my mailbox! Ebay is flooded with this kinda thing .Hahahaha... TRUTH.
Christmas is around the corner so I am beckoning him more often hoping one day Ill open up and say "hey!!! You there oh handsome mailman! Do you know my Lord and Savior Jesus? " Maybe he will say " oh yes! I love him so!" Then Ill say" Should we have tea and talk about this?!:p

Time to wash the dishes and get my bearings about me.........................hmpf

Back in the day when I was a party girl I had lots of liquid courage. Today,tea doesnt quite cut it ya know what I mean Vern?! :eek:
 
maxwel

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jsr1221 said:
You know, about 120 Walmarts do do this. You put a red ribbon on your cart, and walk around. The red ribbon shows you're looking to meet someone of the opposite sex.
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I don't want strange women bothering me when I'm buying underwear or foot powder.

Is nothing sacred anymore?
 
jsr1221

jsr1221

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seoulsearch said:
Why do I feel the need to suddenly go grocery shopping?

(Will I scare off all the men if they find me stopping by the prune, I mean, dried plum, section?)
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Just make sure you tie a red ribbon around your cart.
 
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cmarieh

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maxwel said:
I don't want strange women bothering me when I'm buying underwear or foot powder.

Is nothing sacred anymore?
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Foot care aisle? That's not a bad idea
 
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VioletReigns

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blondieindahouse said:
I told the Lord long ago that I was done looking. I got tired of "christian" men high tailing it and running when I told them that sex was for marriage. So I said" Lord, I guess you will literally have to have him come knocking on my door".

Well, you see..... here lies my dilemna:
I have this handsome mailman that brings my mail to my door( I have a mailbox down the street) and I keep telling myself I am going to ask him if he knows Jesus. So he comes and goes and I freeze up every single time:)

Many who know me would laugh at me if I profess to being shy but in the sense of advancing myself to seem like I am interested;I really am terrified.

So the mailman will come and the mailman will go . I suppose Ill never know. The moments he is walking to and fro the door are pleasant though! Im a poet and I dont know it! LOL

I try to budget in ordering cheap things from china that wont fit in my mailbox! Ebay is flooded with this kinda thing .Hahahaha... TRUTH.
Christmas is around the corner so I am beckoning him more often hoping one day Ill open up and say "hey!!! You there oh handsome mailman! Do you know my Lord and Savior Jesus? " Maybe he will say " oh yes! I love him so!" Then Ill say" Should we have tea and talk about this?!:p

Time to wash the dishes and get my bearings about me.........................hmpf

Back in the day when I was a party girl I had lots of liquid courage. Today,tea doesnt quite cut it ya know what I mean Vern?! :eek:
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Maybe you could put a friendly little greeting card in your mailbox addressed to your mail carrier. And write inside: "Blessings to you in Christ Jesus" with a little happy face. :D Then the next time you see him, ask if he received it.

Something like this:

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blondieindahouse

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VioletReigns said:

Maybe you could put a friendly little greeting card in your mailbox addressed to your mail carrier. And write inside: "Blessings to you in Christ Jesus" with a little happy face. :D Then the next time you see him, ask if he received it.



Something like this:

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Thank you! That is a good idea :)
 
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VioletReigns

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Shopping for a spouse while shopping at the store...huh? Would wearing a wedding gown or a tuxedo be too much? :confused:

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melita916

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VioletReigns said:

Maybe you could put a friendly little greeting card in your mailbox addressed to your mail carrier. And write inside: "Blessings to you in Christ Jesus" with a little happy face. :D Then the next time you see him, ask if he received it.

Something like this:

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*writes down idea*

not for my mailman though.

i'm just writing down the idea for.. idk.. future writing skillzzzzz? maybe.

i think i ate too much chinese food tonight. what are we talking about again?
 
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Tintin

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setapartgirl said:
It's fine, sometimes i am wondering why most christians are single, is it because we have high standard?
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Maybe. But personally, for me, it's a confidence thing. Girls want guys with confidence. And I don't have much confidence, so I'm working on that. By the way, confidence in oneself is pointless, but learning to be confident in Christ is difficult.
 
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Tintin

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seoulsearch said:
I vote that all the single ladies here pool together and go on a "Missions Trip" to Tintin's church.

Because would all definitely be Women On a Mission...

In all seriousness, I have never heard of, much less attended, a church that had more guys than girls, and after moving around several times, I've been to a lot of churches.
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Kim, sounds good. Provided you're all cool with attending a Lutheran Church (Missouri Synod).

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Utah

Utah

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[h=2]Where do you look for other singles?[/h]
Okay, my Dear Abbey moment:

Take notice of what works best for you. Sometimes we don't have to look. For instance, when I'm clean shaven I can't get a date in a women's prison even if I had a fist full of pardons, but when I have five days of stubble and a flannel shirt, well, what can I say? :p

In all seriousness, there's a huge difference between arrogant and confident. There is no reason anyone should lack confidence because we're all in this thing called life together and no one is better than anyone else. We all put our pants on one leg at a time, etc.

Be confident knowing you are a child of the Living God, saved by grace, and this confidence will make you more attractive. You can't just look in the mirror and say okay, I'm confident if you're not already, it takes time to build it up, but work at it, and the confidence will come.

Its not the end all be all, but its a very good start, and it will reduce the time you spend looking for someone while increasing the time someone is looking at you.

Okay I'm done. :cool:
 
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