Well see, that's the problem. I seem to have a fairly bottom-line mentality. I don't look for whether the eyes are pretty, I look for the emotions the eyes express. What the person feels most often leaves permanent marks, and is the best way of forming a first impression.
Mind you, that's only for people I don't know. If it's someone I know I glance first at the hands. What the person is carrying indicates what the person is doing. I don't consciously decide "Okay if it's a new person I look at the eyes, but if it's someone I know I look at the hands." It's just something I do.
To the OP though - I have no idea what I would prefer a lady call me. They don't call me anything. But if a lady ever called me "hott" I would be seriously concerned about her eyesight, her sanity or both.