Why men HAVE to do the ''first move''

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Art05

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Say what you will about Asian women, but while high schoolers here in America are committing fornication and having babies, cool Asian girls are doing this:



Makankosappo!

(Lord, ... send me one ;) )
 

Nautilus

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youre 24 why would you care what high school girls are doing anyways?
 

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BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

*sigh* I'm sorry.

I'm an Asian-American woman, raised by an Asian woman, with a LOT of Asian aunts/cousins/etc.

They aren't called "dragon ladies" for nothing...

Guess he's never heard of the tiger mom.
 
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Richie_2uk

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It gives the females the first option to refuse you.
 
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Say what you will about Asian women, but while high schoolers here in America are committing fornication and having babies, cool Asian girls are doing this:
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Say what you will about Asian women, but while high schoolers here in America are committing fornication and having babies, cool Asian girls are doing this:
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Say what you will about Asian women, but while high schoolers here in America are committing fornication and having babies, cool Asian girls are doing this:

Makankosappo!

(Lord, ... send me one ;) )
This is quite possibly the most offensive post on all of CC
as a high school girl who does not sin, fornicate or any other kind I want to correct you that Godly people are everywhere as are unGodly

I think it is partially a joke but still have to tell you it's not funny
teen pregnancy is a real issue but guess what the girls aren't getting pregnant with each other
therefore American teen boys who chase girls are just as responsible
your statements imply that it's the girls who should not fornicate

I seriously just learned why you are single
it's the generalizations :(
there are teen girls of both types everywhere
focus on being Godly and nice and caring and God may send you a woman to love
also you post a lot about wanting a girl
to me that's part of the issue
it comes across as desperate and as if that's your focus

Also you should not be wanting a High School girl from anyplace

If your whole distasteful statement was a joke
now you know something new about girls
we are not humored by such things
saying them will keep you single

Any girls who disagree please correct me
 
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youre 24 why would you care what high school girls are doing anyways?
-> A Plain School Uniform as the Latest Aphrodisiac - NYTimes.com

''Japanese men tend to be obsessed by schoolgirls,'' said Kaori, ... ''The men who come here are looking for submissive schoolgirls."


-> Otaku - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Otaku (おたく/オタク?) is a Japanese term that refers to people with obsessive interests, commonly the anime and manga fandom.

Otaku subculture is a central theme of various anime and manga works, documentaries and academic research. The subculture began in the 1980s as changing social mentalities and the nurturing of otaku traits by Japanese schools combined with the resignation of such individuals to become social outcasts. The subculture's birth coincided with the anime boom,

In modern Japanese slang, the term otaku is mostly equivalent to "geek" or "nerd". However, it can relate to any fan of any particular theme, topic, hobby or form of entertainment. "When these people are referred to as otaku, they are judged for their behaviors - and people suddenly see an “otaku” as a person unable to relate to reality"

Until the late 1980s, unatheletic and unattractive males focused on academics, hoping to secure a good job and marry to raise their social standing. Those unable to succeed socially focused instead on their interests, often into adulthood, with their lifestyle centering around those interests, furthering the creation of the otaku subculture.
 
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EliBeth

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Wow, after reading essentially all the posts on this thread I feel so rejected. Because I was not born on a particular side of the globe I am now not nice, not sweet, a fornicator, masculine, and unfavorable. Humph. :( *throws my hands up in the air and goes and finds a book.*
 
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Richie_2uk

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Because Females don't want to be rejected. They want to do the rejection thing, and watch and see how you feel bad and see how you deal with it.
 
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Art05

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This is quite possibly the most offensive post on all of CC
as a high school girl who does not sin, fornicate or any other kind I want to correct you that Godly people are everywhere as are unGodly

I think it is partially a joke but still have to tell you it's not funny
teen pregnancy is a real issue but guess what the girls aren't getting pregnant with each other
therefore American teen boys who chase girls are just as responsible
your statements imply that it's the girls who should not fornicate

I seriously just learned why you are single
it's the generalizations :(
there are teen girls of both types everywhere
focus on being Godly and nice and caring and God may send you a woman to love
also you post a lot about wanting a girl
to me that's part of the issue
it comes across as desperate and as if that's your focus

Also you should not be wanting a High School girl from anyplace

If your whole distasteful statement was a joke
now you know something new about girls
we are not humored by such things
saying them will keep you single

Any girls who disagree please correct me
Relax. Seeing as this is directed at me, then I'll correct you (since I know myself better than anyone else here lol)

1. Is this the most offensive post on CC?! No way! Really?! haha You should read the ones directed towards me.

2. So you're a godly teenage high schooler? Great. And you're not a fornicator like the high schoolers that I went with (I didn't fornicate because I was ugly and no girl wants to sleep with an ugly guy lol)? Then great. You have no reason to see yourself in what I've said, then; no not even associate with it.

3. You caught on that it was posted in humor? Bingo. But you didn't think it was funny ... that's fine. It was sort of sardonic, but it carries my opinion of the ungodliness in American public schools.

4. Yes, teen pregnancy is a very serious issue, hence my post.

5. Teen boys are just as responsible? To take care of that baby-- that's what you should mean. Other than that, unless he raped her, then she bears a greater part of being responsible for the sin. There is no use to level the blame here. He can't do anything unless she allows it (unless it's rape, again).

6. My statements imply that it's the girls that should not fornicate? What?! This supposition must have been formed in your anger. Please, Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.

7. lol So it's the generalizations, huh? And no other reason? Of course not haha.

8. Sure, and I'm glad that there are both saved and unsaved youth (of course). My post didn't go against young Christian ladies at all, so for you to accuse my words as such is nothing less than calumny. Please, this diatribe directed against me does not help your point whatsoever, but hurts you and your argument extensively.

9. I'm desperate? Uh oh, that term's alittle loaded ... plus, we're getting off topic here haha. But there are actually plenty of desperate guys and girls your age, so go and berate them.

10. lol You thought that I wanted a high school girl? You've spoken far too rashly, young lady.

11. I'm sure there are girls that like what I said; please don't accuse me of generalizing women and then doing the same. You (especially you, being so young) do not speak for every woman alive.
 
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Say what you will about Asian women, but while high schoolers here in America are committing fornication and having babies, cool Asian girls are doing this:

Makankosappo!

(Lord, ... send me one ;) )
Sigh...

-> Symptoms of Wapanese by Nekoori on deviantART

Symptoms of Wapanese by Nekoori, Jan 10, 2009

“Wapanese” are decidedly Caucasian individuals who, by means of thoroughly warped postmodern acculturation processes, have come to the conclusion that it is in their best interest to act as if they were denizens of the nation of Japan (please note that the term weeaboo can be substituted). Due to a chemical imbalance in their heads, the Wapanese will denounce their country, stalk Asian girls, eat nothing but Asian food, live in their parents house until they are 30 or older, and generally be annoyances for the rest of their lives or until they snap out of it, which usually happens around the 9th or 10th grade.

The term “Wapanese” is actually derived from the mixing of “white” and “Japanese” but due to the fact that Wapanese are no longer all white, we have adopted the new meaning of “wannabe Japanese”.

Wapanese can be classified by two or more of the following traits:

1. Are obsessed to a mentally unstable level with anything connected with Japan. Wapanese will believe and proclaim that every facet of Japanese culture is superior to all others, particularly American. Whether it is junk food like Pocky, animation, film, economy, work ethic, respect for this and that, Japan will be better in every way. They will continue to believe this to the point that they smother themselves with everything Japanese in order to bury their own origins.

2. Will try to learn Japanese simply from watching anime. They will learn only a small number of Japanese words and sprinkle them within English sentences, using what is called Japanglish. They are under the false pretense that they know a vast amount of the Japanese language by adding words such as “kawaii” or “baka” into their sentences (cute and fool respectively).

3. Has a superficial, rather unhealthy obsession with shallow, saccharine and intellectually insulting animation shows (referred to commonly as “anime” ), made originally for young Japanese children.

4. Have also unhealthy obsessions with supposedly handsome anime characters that resemble chopsticks painted with faces. They do such in a toxic level that other people who see that they worship some bony fool drawn on paper would vomit to death.

5. Operates under the flawed belief that the American culture is exceptionally inferior to that of Japan’s, even though 99.99% of Wapanese have never had any firsthand experience with their preferred culture (aka, they have never been to Japan itself).

6. Often owns a sword (Katana or other Japanese weapon of course) and claim they have studied the Samurai and Ninja and know how to expertly use their blade. Aside from being wrong, they forget that Ninjas and Samurai probably were in a lot better physical shape than them. Also they believe that merely by watching Naruto, they can become Ninja.

7. Don't realize that the Japanese would find them equally as sad, if not more so, than the Americans do. They are often looked down upon for slaughtering the language and culture.

8. Will proudly refer to themselves as "Otaku". They seem to miss the fact that in Japan being an Otaku means you are a sheltered and pathetic person obsessed with trivial pursuits, and that they need help. I actually don't think the Wapanese could have chosen a more fitting name for themselves.

9. Extreme cases may traipse around whilst wearing a “costume” that makes them resemble their favorite anime characters (this practice is referred to as cosplay; cross-dressing and raging homosexuality is not an uncommon component of cosplay.

10. Enjoy eating Pocky, ramen, and other Asian junk food while shunning all non-Asian foods as they are quite obviously inferior.

11. Love to harp how much better Japanese music is than American music, despite the fact that they listen to J-pop/rock, which has the same amount of substance as American pop, meaning none.

12. Try to dress harajuku/lolita by applying mountains of makeup and mixing up clothes which makes them look like they are in drag or a wannabe emo.

Interestingly enough, Wapanese are generally thought of as “failures” and rejects within their own culture. I speculate that it was their failure to gain acceptance within their own culture than has lead many a white geek to seek out Japan’s culture as a surrogate; however, they’d be shattered to know that the insular and somewhat racist Japanese society would be even less accepting of them than the people of their true and native culture.
 
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EliBeth

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Look, I surely don't want to get into a feud. That's not my intention. I retract my post. I just thought it was a bit stereotypical. Though I do understand the American woman's tendency to be those things. Agreed. I'm sorry if I offended.
 

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Relax. Seeing as this is directed at me, then I'll correct you (since I know myself better than anyone else here lol)

1. Is this the most offensive post on CC?! No way! Really?! haha You should read the ones directed towards me.

2. So you're a godly teenage high schooler? Great. And you're not a fornicator like the high schoolers that I went with (I didn't fornicate because I was ugly and no girl wants to sleep with an ugly guy lol)? Then great. You have no reason to see yourself in what I've said, then; no not even associate with it.

3. You caught on that it was posted in humor? Bingo. But you didn't think it was funny ... that's fine. It was sort of sardonic, but it carries my opinion of the ungodliness in American public schools.

4. Yes, teen pregnancy is a very serious issue, hence my post.

5. Teen boys are just as responsible? To take care of that baby-- that's what you should mean. Other than that, unless he raped her, then she bears a greater part of being responsible for the sin. There is no use to level the blame here. He can't do anything unless she allows it (unless it's rape, again).

6. My statements imply that it's the girls that should not fornicate? What?! This supposition must have been formed in your anger. Please, Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.

7. lol So it's the generalizations, huh? And no other reason? Of course not haha.

8. Sure, and I'm glad that there are both saved and unsaved youth (of course). My post didn't go against young Christian ladies at all, so for you to accuse my words as such is nothing less than calumny. Please, this diatribe directed against me does not help your point whatsoever, but hurts you and your argument extensively.

9. I'm desperate? Uh oh, that term's alittle loaded ... plus, we're getting off topic here haha. But there are actually plenty of desperate guys and girls your age, so go and berate them.

10. lol You thought that I wanted a high school girl? You've spoken far too rashly, young lady.

11. I'm sure there are girls that like what I said; please don't accuse me of generalizing women and then doing the same. You (especially you, being so young) do not speak for every woman alive.
This helps the numbers I mean

1. What you said was offensive :) people being offensive to you doesn't change that

2. You said American High School girls, I am one :) it was offensive because it implied all in high school are the same
you putting a question mark after saying I am godly is offensive
I don't question if you say you are not sinful
do not question when I say I am not
I do not sleep around because it is ugly in God's eyes
opprotunity has nothing to do with me refusing to sin

3. Again UnGodliness is everywhere :) if you are jaded against American schools I would say you need to visit other countries and see bad is everywhere

4. Your post implied non Americans don't have teen pregnancy issues and that it's the girls fault alone she is pregnant

5. Teen boys are just as responsible
It takes two to make a baby
guys can turn away from the sin of fornication as easily as girls
guys can tempt girls
girls can tempt guys
both boys and girls are responsible for teen pregnancy
a girl can't get pregnant without a guy it's impossible excluding Mary
teen girls who recieve immaculate conception have not sinned though I believe that is only Mary

6. I am not angry sorry you read that I was :) anger is not only a sin but also a secondary emotion
it is a lack of self control that leads to anger
I was offended not angered by your post
your statement in five is that girls carry the blame in teen fornication so I don't get where I misread what you imply
don't use the word of God to preach your point to me it's blasphemy because it implies what you said I should hear when that was scripture about hearing the word of God
God did not say Asian teens are more godly than American teens you did

7. I agree it was is not generalizations alone :) I have no interest in you because you are not kind in your posts

8. I must have misunderstood you when you said that while American teens are fornicating Asian women are doing this... To me it reads that you are saying all American teens are fornicating
if that's what you meant I stand by all I said
if you meant some then okay you make a point in some way

9. Anyone desperate to find anything beside Christ and do his work is not following what he said
I said you seem to be but I was wrong to say that :( I don't know you
and it was off subject
you do talk a lot about not having a girl and I am confused why that seems so important
it may not be though so I am sorry I made an assumption

10. You said send me a girl like this (the post was about teens) sorry I read it as what you meant And this was the most offensive part

11. I clearly said any woman who does not agree with that post to correct me
I do not claim to speak for all women
but as others have shown many women will see it as I did
if I misunderstood it sorry but regardless of my age I am a girl
I also if missunderstood what you said will stand behind that many other girls will read it as I did
I may be 14 but would guess I know how many women think

Sorry if you thought I was angry
also I did not mean to be attacking you
though by your response I read you took it that way
thus I am responsible for me not you and need to apologize

I will say that your response shows what I meant by much of what I said
maybe a girl in your mind should react positive to how you talk to us
but I fear many will be like me and turned away from you
of course you could say the same for me :) boys may not like how I say this stuff

Art I did not mean to imply you are a bad guy, I don't think that
I simply don't think you see how you come across to this girl
as suggested I won't speak for others
but to me it was offensive
To me it implied American girls all fornicate
since it was about teens and the Asian girls were teens
you saying send me one to me read like you were asking for a teen girl in school uniform
since that was what was in the post
that was offensive
I now see you didn't intend it that way thus I think you don't get how you come across to this one girl
(Me)

Since I don't see myself as completely rare and unlike everyone else
I don't think I'm alone in how I read what you post
again any girls who think I'm crazy, bonkers or simply wrong correct me :D

 

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Look, I surely don't want to get into a feud. That's not my intention. I retract my post. I just thought it was a bit stereotypical. Though I do understand the American woman's tendency to be those things. Agreed. I'm sorry if I offended.
I don't see why we can't be offended when someone
says American teens are fornicators

We are teens and it seems we have should have the right to say wait a minute
I thought your post was kind and not starting a debate or entering one

I know I did but it wasn't in mean intentions I just thought it should be pointed out the remarks had been insensitive if not outright degrading, rude and offensive

Sorry if I upset you or anyone though
 

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5. Teen boys are just as responsible? To take care of that baby-- that's what you should mean. Other than that, unless he raped her, then she bears a greater part of being responsible for the sin. There is no use to level the blame here. He can't do anything unless she allows it (unless it's rape, again).
This is just stupid. If you could see how biased this is you would even delete it. Its not more the girl's fault or the guy's. They both agreed to have sex. Youre excuse makes it sound like the guy has no control and just goes for whatever is there.