Why we still single?

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jaybird88

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#81
lol.... I don't know, never did that or got one.
i would never do that today, its far to childish and immature. thats why i choose today to paint their names on water towers. ladies love that classy stuff!
 
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skylove7

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#82
i would never do that today, its far to childish and immature. thats why i choose today to paint their names on water towers. ladies love that classy stuff!
Lol :) funny
 

Tinkerbell725

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#83
i'm single because i never can tell when/if a guy likes me. for the real.

Doesnt matter if he likes you for real or not. The question is do you like him? If you do, then give it a shot and see for yourself so you will not keep on wondering whether he likes you for real or not.
 

jsr1221

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#84
Doesnt matter if he likes you for real or not. The question is do you like him? If you do, then give it a shot so you will not keep on wondering whether he likes you for real or not.
I think she was saying she can't see when a guy likes her, even when he's standing right in front of her practically with a sign.
 

Tinkerbell725

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#85
I think she was saying she can't see when a guy likes her, even when he's standing right in front of her practically with a sign.
Oh! That's what she meant. Lol! I can relate im not the assuming type too and cant notice subtle signs of flirting. A guy needs to tell me up front. I know some guys dont have the nerve to tell you upfront and thats the problem single women have.
 

melita916

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#88
I think she was saying she can't see when a guy likes her, even when he's standing right in front of her practically with a sign.
this is correct lol a few years ago, there was this dude going to my church. we were good friends. we would talk a lot when we were hanging out with the rest of the group, but outside the group, he didn't talk to me. he moved to another congregation a year later.

a year after that, he saw some of my female friends, and i somehow came up in conversation. he told them he liked me, but i never gave him a chance. my reaction: wat? he never asked for one!

the end.
 
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#89
Oh! That's what she meant. Lol! I can relate im not the assuming type too and cant notice subtle signs of flirting. A guy needs to tell me up front. I know some guys dont have the nerve to tell you upfront and thats the problem single women have.
Agh!

For the sake of all men born blind

And for the sake of all women who made men that way :)cool:)

Could you possibly elaborate something more on that subject?

You are telling men (guys) do not have the nerve to tell you things in front of you, but I see too many ppl playing their online hide&seek and, later on, blaming other ppl, instead of assuming personal responsibility on their TEMPORAL state of loneliness.
 
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#91
Doesnt matter if he likes you for real or not. The question is do you like him? If you do, then give it a shot and see for yourself so you will not keep on wondering whether he likes you for real or not.

Oh, my...!

Now you really got my full attention...



(Please! Don´t give me a shot.)
 
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Richie_2uk

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#92
state you reason..
because we all want to much or too little and the relationship is not matched or compatible properly. And we want something better after a certain amount of time, and Im speaking men and women. we get fed up to quick and rather trying to sort it out, we rather it abruptly. We dont give chance to the whole concept of relationships, we dont fully commit, we dont fully comprehend the extent of a relationship.

But most of all and the most important of it all, we dont trust God and dont put him first in relationships, we tend to think we can do it alone.
 
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"...Love is in the air..."


"Love is in the air
Everywhere I look around
Love is in the air
Every sight and every sound

And I don´t know if I´m being foolish
Don´t know if I´m being wise
But it´s something that I must believe in
And it´s there when I look in your eyes

Love is in the air
In the whisper of the trees
Love is in the air
In the thunder of the sea

And I don´t know if I´m just dreaming
Don´t know if I feel sane
But it´s something that I must believe in
And it´s there when you call out my name

Love is in the air
Love is in the air
Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh

Love is in the air
In the rising of the sun
Love is in the air
When the day is nearly done

And I don´t know if you´re an illusion
Don´t know if I see it true
But you´re something that I must believe in
And you´re there when I reach out for you

Love is in the air
everywhere I look around
Love is in the air
Every sight and every sound
And I don´t know if I´m being foolish
Don´t know if I´m being wise

But it´s something that I must believe in
And it´s there when I look in your eyes

Love is in the air ohh ohhh ;
love is in the air ooh ooh ohh"

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jsr1221

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#95
this is correct lol a few years ago, there was this dude going to my church. we were good friends. we would talk a lot when we were hanging out with the rest of the group, but outside the group, he didn't talk to me. he moved to another congregation a year later.

a year after that, he saw some of my female friends, and i somehow came up in conversation. he told them he liked me, but i never gave him a chance. my reaction: wat? he never asked for one!

the end.
Maybe he felt he cause you never talked outside, he thought you didn't give him a chance. I have a story about prom.I never went. But a friend I met through bowling and my cousin had told me a few years later she would have gone with me had I asked, and that at the time she liked me. She has a boyfriend now, and the same one back when she initially told me that. I had the same reaction as yours. "What!"
 

melita916

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#96
Maybe he felt he cause you never talked outside, he thought you didn't give him a chance. I have a story about prom.I never went. But a friend I met through bowling and my cousin had told me a few years later she would have gone with me had I asked, and that at the time she liked me. She has a boyfriend now, and the same one back when she initially told me that. I had the same reaction as yours. "What!"
i guess it's safe to say both genders are confusing/confused. lol
 

Lynx

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#97
I don't know about confusing... I think I'm fairly straightforward. I do know however that I was born confused, and the further I go the more confused I get.
 

NotmebutHim

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Because a lot of women think I'm.......

....a creeper
....below their standards
....too far away geographically
....not in the right career field
.....bonus: I don't hold my mouth straight (yeah that was supposed to be sarcastic)

At least it seems that way.....

Now mind you, I don't want or need any girl "groupies". But the ones who even give me the time of day are very few and far between.
 
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kenthomas27

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#99
Because a lot of women think I'm.......

....a creeper
....below their standards
....too far away geographically
....not in the right career field
.....bonus: I don't hold my mouth straight (yeah that was supposed to be sarcastic)

At least it seems that way.....

Now mind you, I don't want or need any girl "groupies". But the ones who even give me the time of day are very few and far between.
That's a short list, man! Do you carry around a coke can to spit in? Do you have dental records.... at all? I think you've got a chance, friend.


well... fact check..... what is it you do? You're not like an.... embalmer or whatever. Right?
 
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Wow!

I could not stop laughing at this: "...Do you carry around a coke can to spit in?..."

Give it a shot!

Give it a shot!