Would You Date Someone Who Didn't Speak Your Native Language Very Well?

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Jeffro

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My thoughts would be if you are in a foreign country, make the effort to learn the language , I would accept any lady whatever language she spoke, and I would help teach and support the right lady for me, and of course the church would accept anyone who is a believer and help
 

laughingheart

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I have and it was a wonderful relationship. We had to try so much harder to communicate but it had us focus on each other so much more. We noticed each others moods and body language (yes you can insert the jokes here), we became sensitive to each other. We appreciated each other and learning together made us both vulnerable. It was a wonderful connection because we both had to be equally committed to working at it.
 

Solemateleft

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Another inspiration for this thread was a guy I used to work with who was from Cuba. He didn't know any English when he came to the US, and when he met (and started dating) his American-born wife, he only spoke Spanish and she only spoke English, but he said he knew he just had to meet her and give it a try. :) By the time I met him, he was in his mid-40's and they had been married for 8 years.
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That is simply the Universal Language of Love...
 

Demi777

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if i was single i would have no problem dating someone who spoke another language and mine barely. aint nuttin like more learning :D
 

Socreta93

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#45
No. If a girl had a cute accent and you can understand her English okay, then thats fine, but if it's hard to understand I can't do it.
 

Demi777

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No. If a girl had a cute accent and you can understand her English okay, then thats fine, but if it's hard to understand I can't do it.
Some people have a problem when i talk sometimes because i like to talk like really fast....
Ppl blame it on my accent but i swear it isnt just that lol
 

FlSnookman7

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Of course I would, come to think of it I don't speak my native language all that well!!