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This one may be a controversial topic but my question to you is would you ever date a non-believer? What is this person is someone you have been dating since before you were saved? What is this person is genuinely a good person who treats you right and respects your new found beliefs?
[h=3]2 Corinthians 6:14-18[/h]English Standard Version (ESV)
[h=3]The Temple of the Living God[/h][SUP]14 [/SUP]Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? [SUP]15 [/SUP]What accord has Christ with Belial?[SUP][a][/SUP] Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever? [SUP]16 [/SUP]What agreement has the temple of God with idols? For we are the temple of the living God; as God said,
“I will make my dwelling among them and walk among them,
and I will be their God,
and they shall be my people.
[SUP]17 [/SUP]Therefore go out from their midst,
and be separate from them, says the Lord,
and touch no unclean thing;
then I will welcome you,
[SUP]18 [/SUP]and I will be a father to you,
and you shall be sons and daughters to me,
says the Lord Almighty.”
Even if this person is someone who treats your respect and treats you right caution must be taken. First, your relationship with Christ is more important. It would be wiser to take a step back from the relationship and provide an opportunity for this unbeliever to encounter Christ. Don't try to change someone for the sake of being with them.
I read the following advice from a book entitles "When God Writes your love story";
A word of caution: be sure the person in question doesn't just feign acceptance of Christ in order to win you back. If you make it clear that you are ending the relationship because you don't want to be united with an unbeliever, then it might be tempting for you unbelieving boyfriend or girlfriend to go through the motions of becoming a Christian in order to regain the relationship. When someone becomes a genuine believer in Christ, their lifestyle, motives, conversation, direction, and attitude are remade by Him. So it there seems to be a decision for Christ, let some time pass to make sure it's not just a mental choice but a true life transformation.
Also, don't just assume that you should dive right back into a relationship just because the other person is a Christian. Make sure God is truly holding the pen and allow Him to script your story as He sees fit, even if He takes the plotline in a completely new direction!