Would You Rather Date A Single-Partnered Parent, or Someone Who Had Several Partners But No Children?

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EternalFire

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I completely understand that.

(Request, for the 4th Time, that keeps going unanswered.)

Do I have your permission to post a thread quoting your statements and directing the topic to your direction and liking, allowing people to answer your own thread as they wish?

The only reason I haven't is because you haven't said yes.

And the fact that you won't answer leaves me to assume you are saying no.
Thanks for your willingness to help me post a thread. If I desire to post a thread, I will do so, as I have done in the past. God bless you.
 

seoulsearch

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#63
Thanks for your willingness to help me post a thread. If I desire to post a thread, I will do so, as I have done in the past. God bless you.
I would sincerely be interested in reading any threads you might decide to post in Singles, and hope you will consider doing so.

Peace and best wishes.
 

Tararose

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#64
all interesting responses.

I would think both are viable if
a) the person is a serious and mature believer.
b) currently lives a life of abstinence, and has done for a reasonable amount of time, because they want to be pleasing to the Lord.
c)if children are involved - their current mental health, feelings and wishes are taken into account. (Whatever the reason the person is a single parent, the child will have been affected by it regardless. (I would rather be lonely than become a stumbling block or source of pain- especially to a child!)
d)their ex (spouse? assuming they were married) is not trying to reconcile. In such a case it would be wise to ensure there is a good reason for the divorce and for not reconciling, and that the decision is permanent and unlikely to change down the line.
 
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#65
I have never dated a man with multiple partners that’s not my thing . I would love to date a man who is sincere and truthful a child with him will be most welcome, as I am divorced and a have a son myself. So I don’t mind meeting single dad . He must be a man of God . Man after God’s heart . A heart for Christ and I am praying 🙏 I will find Him here .
 

Lanolin

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#66
why just the one child
In the Sound of music movie there were seven.

I'd put the limit at 12 children, I dont think I can handle more than that at once.
 

Lynx

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#67
Yeah but can you imagine dealing with all that singing, ALL THE TIME?! You'd go insane.