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I will not speak for all men, as each is different. But I have hid many different ways.
1. Acting like I am tough, strong, "long lasting". Such as, pulling up posts with my bare hands, even though it hurts a lot. It shows that I can do a lot, even when I can't. And then once I do a feat, I can always have it in people's minds how strong I am. And I use that to my advantage to "cover up" Who I really am
2. Humor. I used to make people laugh all the time (still try too, but in better ways). I used to tell all kinds of jokes, not the bad ones. But some where still not the best. And I would use the fact that I was the funny guy, and I would keep it like that. Make people laugh and they don't pry much.
3. Degrading. This is something I just thought about. I used to degrade myself terribly. I mean, I would put myself down like nothing else. People might ether find it funny, or maybe humility, or maybe just sad. But in reality, I was doing it so that others could boost me up. That way I get their praise without "searching" for it.
I actually did this a very long time without realizing I was doing it.
Guys never seem to go off of look much. I mean, I can suck in my gut. But in the end I am like "I am me, like it or don't" And I think that goes for most guys. But the amount of covering up we do, seems more mentally done. At least on my view!
1. Acting like I am tough, strong, "long lasting". Such as, pulling up posts with my bare hands, even though it hurts a lot. It shows that I can do a lot, even when I can't. And then once I do a feat, I can always have it in people's minds how strong I am. And I use that to my advantage to "cover up" Who I really am
2. Humor. I used to make people laugh all the time (still try too, but in better ways). I used to tell all kinds of jokes, not the bad ones. But some where still not the best. And I would use the fact that I was the funny guy, and I would keep it like that. Make people laugh and they don't pry much.
3. Degrading. This is something I just thought about. I used to degrade myself terribly. I mean, I would put myself down like nothing else. People might ether find it funny, or maybe humility, or maybe just sad. But in reality, I was doing it so that others could boost me up. That way I get their praise without "searching" for it.
I actually did this a very long time without realizing I was doing it.
Guys never seem to go off of look much. I mean, I can suck in my gut. But in the end I am like "I am me, like it or don't" And I think that goes for most guys. But the amount of covering up we do, seems more mentally done. At least on my view!
