Your Primary love language.

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Your primary love language.

  • Physical Touch

    Votes: 8 24.2%

  • Quality Time

    Votes: 15 45.5%

  • Words of Affirmation

    Votes: 6 18.2%

  • Acts of Service

    Votes: 3 9.1%

  • Receiving Gifts

    Votes: 1 3.0%
  • Total voters
    33
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:
Words of affirmation
Quality time
Acts of service
receiving gifts
physical touch.

Although im thinking about making my first one receiving gifts so i can get someone to buy me stuff.

:D
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Everyone's going to know that I love Nod, because I'm planning on buying her a swimming pool of Coca-Cola... :D (But Nod, when it comes to finding a pool boy, you're on your own.) ;)
 
Descyple

Descyple

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seoulsearch said:
Everyone's going to know that I love Nod, because I'm planning on buying her a swimming pool of Coca-Cola... :D (But Nod, when it comes to finding a pool boy, you're on your own.) ;)
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Did someone say Nod is looking for a Coca-Cola pool boy??? Where do I sign up?

But I can't swim, so if I fall in the pool Nod has to rescue me!!!
 
Oncefallen

Oncefallen

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#23
12 Physical touch
9 Quality time
5 Words of affirmation
4 Acts of service
0 Receiving gifts


Arwen: I wouldn't consider someone who's love language was receiving gifts to be materialistic since for someone that has that primary love language it isn't the monetary value of the gift that's important, but the thought behind the gift. For most with that primary love language a card or other inexpensive thing is just as if not more meaningful as an expensive piece of jewelery.




 
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AgapeSpiritEyes

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The question and thread implies, for me, an uncertainty of parts of love even a mixture of the following: erose, philos, familia which seems to put Agape more remotely. Love here seems to be inferred as a soul feeling, which for me is not the same as my experiences of Agape from the Lord. I desire not to experience any lesser because of my experience with the Lord. Why would i want to give less than what i have from Him? So, i only want to give the way i do, which is opening my soul and allowing Jesus to emanate through me to them a desire that He would touch them that i would be open that He touch them and His love emanate to them through me but he can do it without going through me. Now in the light of the choices i still cannot determine how to express Agape in ranking the choices but ask only to be sensitive on which one if any He wants me to do, now in a marriage relationship i would observe how my spouse or friend believes to receive love: 10 Emanating Agape love from the heart and soul, All these equally; 7 Quality Time, 7 Words of Affirmation, 7 Acts of Service, 7 Receiving Gifts, 7 Physical Touch
God Bless All In Jesus' Agape Forever
 
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zaoman32

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#25
8 Words of affirmation
8 Quality time
8 Receiving gifts
5 Physical touch
1 Acts of service

Huh...three way tie, not sure how to respond.
 
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Kefa52

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#28
OOP's.... I didn't realize this was the singles forum....Nevermind.
 
LightningClap0002

LightningClap0002

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Feb 10, 2008
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No problem friend. :) Every now and then it's nice to get a married opinion in here. Sometimes feels the blind leading the blind otherwise!
 
seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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May 23, 2009
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LightningClap0002 said:
No problem friend. :) Every now and then it's nice to get a married opinion in here. Sometimes feels the blind leading the blind otherwise!
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I totally agree, I wish more married people would share their wisdom with us. Many of us try to write eloquent, intelligent responses here... but the truth of it is, most of us don't have the wisdom or experience to back it and we need to hear from more people who do.
 
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adekruif

Guest
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#31
Quality Time
Words of Affirmation
Receiving Gifts
Acts of Service
Physical Touch
 
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Stuey

Senior Member
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Aug 17, 2009
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zaoman32 said:
8 Words of affirmation
8 Quality time
8 Receiving gifts
5 Physical touch
1 Acts of service

Huh...three way tie, not sure how to respond.
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I'd give you a pat on the back but I'm not sure you would appreciate it. :p

Here are my results... I feel slightly frustrated at some of the questions where it is kind of - I want both! Or... I don't need either. Haha.

I feel I am changing over time, things seem a little more balanced than last time I did it which is interesting, I still think I show love in different ways though.

11Quality Time
7Physical Touch
5Words of Affirmation
4Receiving Gifts
3Acts of Service
 
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Newluke

Newluke

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Nov 29, 2012
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Time spend with my gf is quality time by definition... :)
 
Liamson

Liamson

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Feb 3, 2010
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Quality Touch, Physical Time.... jk ;)
 
PopClick

PopClick

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arwen83 said:
Hm.. looking at the poll answers, I have a feeling that I might be the only Gifts. Maybe its rare? Or maybe people shy away from the desire, because they are afraid they will be perceived as materialistic or selfish?
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Nah, I'm one too, Arwen. I agree that it isn't materialism at all. Usually the "gifts" that mean the most are really small, like an mp3 download or a bagel or something like that. It isn't the gift itself that means something, but it's like having a reminder of the person who gave it to me, and I tend to remember it more than most other acts of kindness.

But I don't seek out gifts, and will tell someone not to give me one, if they mention beforehand that they're planning to.
 
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GreenNnice

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BarlyGurl

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seoulsearch said:
I totally agree, I wish more married people would share their wisdom with us. Many of us try to write eloquent, intelligent responses here... but the truth of it is, most of us don't have the wisdom or experience to back it and we need to hear from more people who do.
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Because simply being married makes one wise??? I have noticed YOU seoulsearch, have demonstrated good wisdom. While I do not think married people are unwise... they are not necessarily good teachers for success... because people get married and stay married for an assortment of reasons... a succesful or long term marriage can be completely void of any biblical marriage principals.
 
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