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My wife is a teacher, and she just said the MOST EFFECTIVE thing is to have your PARENTS contact the school, and tell them that if something is not done about this, THEIR ATTORNEYS WILL BE CONTACTING THE SCHOOL.
And she was dead serious when she said this. She said it is the ONE thing school administrations will pay attention to... and FAST.
And she was dead serious when she said this. She said it is the ONE thing school administrations will pay attention to... and FAST.
It was a sad day when nice young ladies had to start 'standing up for themselves' while other young 'men' just stood by and gawked about like zombies. I realize that things may have come to that, even in my day. I remember that one girl in my class came to school with steel toed shoes, and she used them. Boys that get away with that kind of stuff grow up to be a real mess.
I am sorry, I know that you have a beautiful, kindly, and Christlike nature Natania, but it just frustrates me what this world has come to.
I am sorry, I know that you have a beautiful, kindly, and Christlike nature Natania, but it just frustrates me what this world has come to.
My older sister had a situation similar to this a couple years ago. She is very soft spoken and passive. He finally made her mad enough that she yelled LEAVE ME ALONE. At a football game. With a lot of people around. He listened that time 
As did many other non well intentioned males. Listen to Willie
As did many other non well intentioned males. Listen to Willie
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This sounds like a perfectly fine response!
"I'm flattered that you asked me...," lets him know that you take it as a compliment he was thinking of you.
"...but I am not ready to begin dating," states a simple fact.
He may feel disappointed, but there's no reason for him to feel rejected. If he falls apart over your honest answer, he's not ready to date and has some growing up to do.
Btw, I used to tell my kids when they were teens, "Blame everything on me and your father." In other words, to remove yourself gracefully from a situation, use the old standby, "My parents said I'm not allowed to date yet."
"I'm flattered that you asked me...," lets him know that you take it as a compliment he was thinking of you.
"...but I am not ready to begin dating," states a simple fact.
He may feel disappointed, but there's no reason for him to feel rejected. If he falls apart over your honest answer, he's not ready to date and has some growing up to do.
Btw, I used to tell my kids when they were teens, "Blame everything on me and your father." In other words, to remove yourself gracefully from a situation, use the old standby, "My parents said I'm not allowed to date yet."
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Get away from me! Stop touching me! That will turn heads but more along the lines of wanted attention as opposed to the unwanted attention you are getting from him
People say that now a days just because or as a joke so no one really pays attention to that.
Heck I was even walking to school one time and I refused to help someone cuz I didn't know him and he screamed rape to try to get people over there but no one payed any attention. So I can try it but it may not work with what I've been seeing
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My older sister had a situation similar to this a couple years ago. She is very soft spoken and passive. He finally made her mad enough that she yelled LEAVE ME ALONE. At a football game. With a lot of people around. He listened that time As did many other non well intentioned males. Listen to Willie
As did many other non well intentioned males. Listen to Willie
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Oh.... I just got in from my morning walk and am having my first cup of coffee. I didn't read past the first page of this thread.
As for this boy taking liberties by touching you, that's a whole different matter. As a mother, I'd put a stop to his antics in one little "conference" with him and the police. If you told him to keep his hands off you and he ignores your request, it is assault.
At this point, getting his feelings hurt would be the least of his worries.
As for this boy taking liberties by touching you, that's a whole different matter. As a mother, I'd put a stop to his antics in one little "conference" with him and the police. If you told him to keep his hands off you and he ignores your request, it is assault.
At this point, getting his feelings hurt would be the least of his worries.