How to say No

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TemporaryCircumstances

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Oh.... I just got in from my morning walk and am having my first cup of coffee. I didn't read past the first page of this thread.

As for this boy taking liberties by touching you, that's a whole different matter. As a mother, I'd put a stop to his antics in one little "conference" with him and the police. If you told him to keep his hands off you and he ignores your request, it is assault.

At this point, getting his feelings hurt would be the least of his worries.
My parents don't care.
I am gonna try to get my step mother to call the school
 
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We are so fortunate to have Jesus and each other. Let's not forget to all pray sincerely about this matter. God would not be pleased if we neglected to look to Him in this time of need.
Yes we are
 
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Well, I've gotta do community service in about twenty minutes so I've got to go, but I'll try being more direct and stern, and loud when I say no.
I'll tell the resource officers and maybe Sergeant Rush, I see him today anyway.
And I'll try to get my step mother to call in
 
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Are you friends with this guy before he asked you out Natania?

From the sound of it, though, he's not taking your 'No' seriously.
 
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Are you friends with this guy before he asked you out Natania?

From the sound of it, though, he's not taking your 'No' seriously.
No, I literally know no one in this school cuz I came from a whole other district.
 
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No, I literally know no one in this school cuz I came from a whole other district.
Okay, then bring pepper spray. If he ever does the arm/shoulder thing again, tell him you're gonna use pepper spray on him. If he doesn't, then do it.

Wait, that's with the assumption that he doesn't wear glasses and that it's legal to use pepper spray where you are.

Also, tell Sergeant Rush about it (if you ever get to spray him).
 
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Okay, then bring pepper spray. If he ever does the arm/shoulder thing again, tell him you're gonna use pepper spray on him. If he doesn't, then do it.

Wait, that's with the assumption that he doesn't wear glasses and that it's legal to use pepper spray where you are.
I don't really want to get suspended :p
Anyway I really do gotta go haha
 
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My parents don't care.
I am gonna try to get my step mother to call the school
I'm sorry to hear that, dear. That's extremely heartbreaking. :(

We care, though. We are your eternal spiritual family thru Christ. ♥

Yes, absolutely get your step-mother to call the school! Also, you have legal rights as a person no matter what your age. You can contact your local police and ask them how to handle this matter in the most effective way. That way the law will be aware of what is going on and should the boy continue to bother you, it will be a legal matter between him and the police.

I pray the matter be taken care of quickly, in Jesus' name.
 
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I'm sorry to hear that, dear. That's extremely heartbreaking. :(

We care, though. We are your eternal spiritual family thru Christ. ♥

Yes, absolutely get your step-mother to call the school! Also, you have legal rights as a person no matter what your age. You can contact your local police and ask them how to handle this matter in the most effective way. That way the law will be aware of what is going on and should the boy continue to bother you, it will be a legal matter between him and the police.

I pray the matter be taken care of quickly, in Jesus' name.
My step father would just want me to hurt him.
Because "That's how they raised me"
He hasn't raised me. He hasn't done anything of the sort. My step mother usually just follows unless she's not around him.

Yeah, I'll try to get her alone and ask her to call in.
Yeah I know I do :/ ...
 

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Natania is God's little girl. Just think of how aggravated He must be. They misused His Son 2000 years ago and they neglect his little ones today. "Adults" just throw the little ones in the cold lake and tell them to sink or swim. It reminds me of the pagans of old who casted their babies into the fire. Come quickly Lord Jesus. God help us if we forget to pray or turn a blind eye like those men on the road to Jericho.
 
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Natania is God's little girl. Just think of how aggravated He must be. They misused His Son 2000 years ago and they neglect his little ones today. "Adults" just throw the little ones in the cold lake and tell them to sink or swim. It reminds me of the pagans of old who casted their babies into the fire. Come quickly Lord Jesus. God help us if we forget to pray or turn a blind eye like those men on the road to Jericho.
Awww ^-^
We are very blessed to have such a caring Father

We are taking a break from community service.
We cleaned up a burn scar. The people put me on carrying logs haha
 
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Me and a boy (My element leader from ROTC) Did this in two hours.
It was super weird being with him outside of ROTC he actually called me Natania instead of Cadet (My last name) xD
 
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Hi Nat have you ever watched Miss Congeniality.

Try the moves at the end of the film and remember sing!
Solar Plexis
In Step
Nose
Groin



https://youtu.be/97JIFQzw8NM
 
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My parents don't care.
I am gonna try to get my step mother to call the school
You DO NOT want a submissive person calling. You need to have someone with an authoritative attitude and voice, who will be heard when they talk. The goal is to intimidate the principal into action.

One of the phrases I have often used, in various forms, is: "My complaint is registered, if this is not addressed immediately, my lawyers will be contacting you. Govern yourself accordingly."
 
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You DO NOT want a submissive person calling. You need to have someone with an authoritative attitude and voice, who will be heard when they talk. The goal is to intimidate the principal into action.

One of the phrases I have often used, in various forms, is: "My complaint is registered, if this is not addressed immediately, my lawyers will be contacting you. Govern yourself accordingly."
She won't be passive if she is not around my step father and my step father doesn't know about it.
 
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No Pepper Spray. You can open yourself up to untold liabilities for that.
Wasn't planning on it
Its times like this when I wish things didn't turn out like they did with my Father cuz he would've been able to take care of it :p