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Briannafaith2003 said:
I understand that. I didn't share anything private. My Instagram is already open to everyone
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And now any grown man with Google knows a 14 year old girl, that seems trusting, is looking for a guy. So all he has to do is come on here and fake a teen profile because he already knows you're looking for someone.
Or someone already on this site has a profile like that.
If God truly has called you to ministry then shouldn't that be your focus? And preparing for it? Paul talks about how marriage is a distraction from serving God and discourages it. And yet, here you are, years away from even being able to get married, and searching the internet.
Your inability to see the dangers in this behavior, and being so public with it, not to mention dismissing those who warn you, shows what is to be expected at your age. A lack of maturity and wisdom. We were all that way when we were younger, so it's not an attack.
There are various reasons that seeking 'Mr Right' at your age is bad, announcing it publicly online makes it worse. There are potential physical, emotional and spiritual damages you're not seeing, nor willing to hear others warn you about.
Part of biblical wisdom is knowing when to listen to counsel from others.
 
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Hey Brianna2013, look out for the old, crusty users that like to patrol the Teens forum for people to parent. They are just as bad if not worse than the creeps they are trying to warn you about ;)

Just trying to be a good citizen like everyone else and make sure you know who to look out for. :rolleyes:

Seriously, y'all are like a pack of rabid dogs just waiting for someone 'who needs correction' to swarm.
 
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ChandlerFan said:
Hey Brianna2013, look out for the old, crusty users that like to patrol the Teens forum for people to parent. They are just as bad if not worse than the creeps they are trying to warn you about ;)

Just trying to be a good citizen like everyone else and make sure you know who to look out for. :rolleyes:

Seriously, y'all are like a pack of rabid dogs just waiting for someone 'who needs correction' to swarm.
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So you think that people who in their intense concern for someone overdo the warnings are as bad as the kind of people who lie about who they are to catfish and rape a young girl? I guess my definition of "just as bad" and "worse" are different than yours.
 
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From your cavalier attitude, obviously you haven't read the entire thread, and seen the naivete and cocky attitude that this 14-year old OP has.. And IMO, she NEEDS someone here to act as a parent figure...

I agree with Tinuviel. You have a warped defintion of "just as bad or worse".. Being catfished is the least of this child's worries, if a pedo gets to her.. :/

But I forgot..you don't like it when people here try to protect the teens... We're just old and crusty and should let them fall prey to predators.. :rolleyes:


ChandlerFan said:
Hey Brianna2013, look out for the old, crusty users that like to patrol the Teens forum for people to parent. They are just as bad if not worse than the creeps they are trying to warn you about ;)

Just trying to be a good citizen like everyone else and make sure you know who to look out for. :rolleyes:

Seriously, y'all are like a pack of rabid dogs just waiting for someone 'who needs correction' to swarm.
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Corbinscam said:
This throws up so many red flags.
Please learn to listen to wisdom given from people who've made mistakes. It'll make your life much easier and much more fulfilling. Knowledge speaks...wisdom listens.
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Corbin, that was so well said. Great wisdom. Now let's pray this young girl is mature enough to understand and take heed to wisdom.
 
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Mr. Right at 14? Uh...

He's in puberty, Mom still puts toothpaste on his toothbrush, screams at him to bathe, take out the trash, stop picking his nose, to use Clearasil, and still buys his whitey tighties.
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Either that or he's a 60 year old pervert with grandkids her age that likes to send pictures of inappropriate body parts all shriveled up...with no teeth and bad b.o., bad breath, and a glass eye.
 
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ChandlerFan said:
Hey Brianna2013, look out for the old, crusty users that like to patrol the Teens forum for people to parent. They are just as bad if not worse than the creeps they are trying to warn you about ;)

Just trying to be a good citizen like everyone else and make sure you know who to look out for. :rolleyes:

Seriously, y'all are like a pack of rabid dogs just waiting for someone 'who needs correction' to swarm.
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Hey...it takes a village these days man. Someone's gotta look out for kids. We can't just look the other way. We all have a responsibility.
 
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Lighthearted said:
Either that or he's a 60 year old pervert with grandkids her age that likes to send pictures of inappropriate body parts all shriveled up...with no teeth and bad b.o., bad breath, and a glass eye.
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You're a wise girl, and have a sense of humor! :D
 
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preacher4truth said:
You're a wise girl, and have a sense of humor! :D
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Thanks Preacher, just painting a mental picture of a predator I know personally from my young life...thing I'd Brianna, we didn't have media...he didn't have to hide sweetheart. He was in the grotesque flesh.
 
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preacher4truth said:
You're a wise girl, and have a sense of humor! :D
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Thanks Preacher, just painting a mental picture of a predator I know personally from my young life...thing I'd Brianna, we didn't have media...he didn't have to hide sweetheart. He was in the grotesque flesh.
 
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blue_ladybug said:
From your cavalier attitude, obviously you haven't read the entire thread, and seen the naivete and cocky attitude that this 14-year old OP has.. And IMO, she NEEDS someone here to act as a parent figure...

I agree with Tinuviel. You have a warped defintion of "just as bad or worse".. Being catfished is the least of this child's worries, if a pedo gets to her.. :/

But I forgot..you don't like it when people here try to protect the teens... We're just old and crusty and should let them fall prey to predators.. :rolleyes:
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Oh, I did read the entire thread. I just think you have a much higher opinion of your ability and place to speak into other people's lives than what is actually the case. I mean, obviously it's a public forum and you can feel free to post your thoughts and feelings as you wish, but I doubt you would like it if someone wandered into one of your threads, ignored your posts/requests entirely, and criticized and insulted you. And yet you have made a habit of doing this to newcomers time and time again. No grace, just a pestering, annoying, parental attitude. Trust me when I say that not even you would listen to you if ever given the opportunity. No one online NEEDS a parental figure. What this forum NEEDS is for people to mind their own business and only offer advice when it is requested. Until that happens, I will gladly warn newcomers of you all.
I know nothing I say will change the impulse you and the rest of the mob have to be a pest to newcomers, but be aware that you are making CC a terrible place for them.

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Hey...it takes a village these days man. Someone's gotta look out for kids. We can't just look the other way. We all have a responsibility.
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This is definitely true, there is just a right and wrong way to go about it. Most of the people here have given us a solid crash course in the wrong way to go about it.
 
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No one online NEEDS a parental figure.
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I'm going to disagree. Your statement assumes that people online are somehow a different set of people than those in the real world. They're not. People need parental figures. Even my father who's earthly father has passed enjoys my mom's stepdad as a fatherly figure in his life.
 
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Conversationand said:
I'm going to disagree. Your statement assumes that people online are somehow a different set of people than those in the real world. They're not. People need parental figures. Even my father who's earthly father has passed enjoys my mom's stepdad as a fatherly figure in his life.
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I guess I should have re-ordered me words. I meant that no one needs a parental figure online. Especially one they didn't ask for. A parental figure is something you become for someone, not a position you assume at your own will.
 
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I guess I should have re-ordered me words. I meant that no one needs a parental figure online. Especially one they didn't ask for. A parental figure is something you become for someone, not a position you assume at your own will.
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You came to her "aid" because you are also immature, naive, and cocky for your age. And dude your 27, not a spring chicken, you should know better and also not refer to your elders as "old and crusty". There is no way you have children of your own with this rebellious teen mentality you have.
 
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pckts said:
You came to her "aid" because you are also immature, naive, and cocky for your age. And dude your 27, not a spring chicken, you should know better and also not refer to your elders as "old and crusty". There is no way you have children of your own with this rebellious teen mentality you have.
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Nah, I just care about how people are treated. "Old and crusty" is more meant as a character trait descriptor rather than a low blow. There's nothing wrong with being any certain age, but there is something wrong with someone pretending as though their age will allow them to get away with being unkind. And I didn't realize having or not having children was a basis for character judgment lol.
 
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You guys are ridiculous XD
How on earth did an argument start in a thread like this? XD
 
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More than one teen here, has been saved from predators by some of the adults here who DID care enough to step in and say something.. And more than one teen has thanked me and the others for doing it..

My age doesn't matter. If I were 14, as the OP is, I would've still told her the same exact things.. She came on here looking for a guy to get on cam with her and talk. That SHOULD send up red flags, even to you.. No one has "criticized or insulted" her. We gave her warnings, and she shrugged them off..

And if CC is such a horrid place for the teens here, then why are Natania, Demi, Tinuviel, and others still here? Obviously THEY don't mind the advice they get from the adults or they wouldn't be here.. :)


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Oh, I did read the entire thread. I just think you have a much higher opinion of your ability and place to speak into other people's lives than what is actually the case. I mean, obviously it's a public forum and you can feel free to post your thoughts and feelings as you wish, but I doubt you would like it if someone wandered into one of your threads, ignored your posts/requests entirely, and criticized and insulted you. And yet you have made a habit of doing this to newcomers time and time again. No grace, just a pestering, annoying, parental attitude. Trust me when I say that not even you would listen to you if ever given the opportunity. No one online NEEDS a parental figure. What this forum NEEDS is for people to mind their own business and only offer advice when it is requested. Until that happens, I will gladly warn newcomers of you all.
I know nothing I say will change the impulse you and the rest of the mob have to be a pest to newcomers, but be aware that you are making CC a terrible place for them.



This is definitely true, there is just a right and wrong way to go about it. Most of the people here have given us a solid crash course in the wrong way to go about it.
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