Does God want me to masturbate?

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@ angelos I think that ill_rush is motivated by the zeal to do right with God and avoiding compromise, which usually corrupts us from within. But the thread is
good for making most of us conscientious of the pureness of the Lord we Worship. We all have weaknesses but that doesn't mean that we have to rush into
finding a justifiable means of conforming those weaknesses.

The question I have for you Angelos is what motivates you into masturbation, or the desire to.

If I'm not mistaken there is a scripture which infers that eating too much can be a sin(or lead to sin). This has always reminded me that Our father in Heaven gave us the mind or brain and the Holy Spirit so that we may be able to discern some of the implicit wrongs that the devil may easily lure us into.
 
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A public speaker called Mark Gungor (may have spelled that wrong) once said that when you masturbate the fantasies you have during set your standards for real women - when you have your first real experience with a real woman you will go unsatisfied.
With that in mind I don't think it's a good thing to do if you have a conscious choice in the matter.
 
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if your a woman and do it you are laying with a woman yourself and if your a man and do it you are laying with a man yourself
 
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BeauBLESSED

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I don't want to come off as condescending, but do you mean to say it's like having homosexual relations?
 
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A public speaker called Mark Gungor (may have spelled that wrong) once said that when you masturbate the fantasies you have during set your standards for real women - when you have your first real experience with a real woman you will go unsatisfied.
I see what he means, but this seems to suggest that masturbation is better, or more enjoyable, than the real thing.
 
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camragirl73

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Well God said dont lay with the same sex
 
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BeauBLESSED

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I see what he means, but this seems to suggest that masturbation is better, or more enjoyable, than the real thing.
In a way it could be, and that leads me to address another possible reason why masturbation is flagged by Christians as a sinful deed: it destroys the sacredness of the act of sex, post-marriage. God intended sex as an act of love between husband and wife and masturbation would no doubt tear it all up.

Well God said dont lay with the same sex
You're absolutely right, however I find it difficult to think of the correlation between masturbation and same-sex relations, unless of course one would think of a person of the same gender during the former.
 
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I didn't write this, but it's relevant and based in scripture:

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No doubt, much evil is done in the name of masturbation. A search on this subject on the internet (not recommended) will substantiate that. But is masturbation evil, in and of itself? Some seem to think so.
For example, the Catholic Catechism states,
By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action." (Catechism of the Catholic Church, copyright 1994, p. 564, #2352)
One Catholic web site plainly posts,
Masturbation is against the biblical teachings which always talks about sex with respect in the marriage context and to have children. To pursue sexual pleasure or orgasm in manner not associated with marital intercourse that is love-giving and open to the creation of new life violates the will of God and is immoral. (www.biblia.com/sex/masturbation.htm)
It is declared to violate the will of God and be immoral, yet no such teaching can be found in the word of God (Proverbs 30:5-6).
[SIZE=+2]I. Arguments Against[/SIZE]
According to the Jewish Virtual Library, masturbation is strictly forbidden.
Jewish law clearly prohibits male masturbation. This law is derived from the story of Onan (Gen. 38:8-10), who practiced coitus interruptus as a means of birth control to avoid fathering a child for his deceased brother. G-d killed Onan for this sin. Although Onan's act was not truly masturbation, Jewish law takes a very broad view of the acts prohibited by this passage, and forbids any act of ha-sh'cha'tat zerah (destruction of the seed), that is, ejaculation outside of the vagina. In fact, the prohibition is so strict that one passage in the Talmud states, "in the case of a man, the hand that reaches below the navel should be chopped off." (Niddah 13a) (www.jewishvirtuallibrary.org/jsource/Judaism/sex.html)
Clearly here we have another example of Jesus' words,
This people honors Me with their lips, but their heart is far from Me. And in vain they worship Me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men. (Mark 7:6-7)
Certainly, Scripture never teaches, "the hand that reaches below the navel should be chopped off," or anything like it! Nor, as is admitted above, does Genesis 38 even address the issue of masturbation. Onan "emitted" (NKJV, more literally, "ruined") on the ground. Indeed, Onan ruined or destroyed his seed on the ground, but there is a reason given as to why he did this:
lest he should give an heir [literally, "seed"] to his brother. (Genesis 38:9)
His motive for doing this was evil. He rebelled against the direct command of his father (Genesis 38:8), and displayed contempt towards both his dead brother and his wife. Indeed, this was evil in the eyes of the Lord, "therefore He killed him" (Genesis 38:10); but it was no act of masturbation. It was an ungodly act during intercourse (Genesis 38:9). The Jewish Virtual Library use of this passage is perverted.
Jews are not the only ones who teach "as doctrines the commandments of men" (Matthew 15:8-9). Broad way "Christians" do so as well, even on this particular subject. For example, Bud and Betty Miller of Christ Unlimited Ministries teach that masturbation is self-abuse and sexually immoral citing 1 Corinthians 6:18 (http://bible.com/answers/amasturb.html).
Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. (1 Corinthians 6:18)
The problem with their use of this passage is that masturbation is never described in the Bible as sexually immoral. The context of 1 Corinthians 6:18 is sex with a harlot (1 Corinthians 6:13-17), which is certainly sexually immoral. But, masturbation is never identified in this way.
Their self-abuse argument comes from "modern dictionaries," because masturbation is given as a synonym for self-abuse in modern dictionaries. But this begs the question at hand. Is it truly abusive, in and of itself? Is masturbation an intended use of the sex organ, or is it abuse? Obviously, people (at least those compiling the dictionaries) think so, and so they identify the term synonymously with self-abuse.
Bible Media Online, an ecumenical ministry in South Africa, argues,
The Bible gives us no direct answer to the question. It does not even mention masturbation. But we can deduct from Scripture principles that masturbation is an unnatural sexual practice. It is not according to the purpose of God who gave sex as a gift to be used between a man and his lawful wife, within the marriage bond only. Any other deliberate sexual act, where true love is not the main driving force, is unnatural. (www.bmedia.co.za/faq/masturbation.htm, bold added)
The Bible does mention masturbation, at least, the result of it (see below), but Scripture does not teach that it is "not according to the purpose of God." Moreover, the Word of God never identifies it as "unnatural." Homosexuality is unnatural (Romans 1:26-27). Masturbation is never spoken of in this way.
Another argument that could be made, is that Colossians 3:5 says to put to death "passion."
Therefore put to death your members which are on the earth: fornication, uncleanness, passion, evil desire, (etc. Colossians 3:5).
Also, Galatians 5:24 says,
Those who are Christ's have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. (Galatians 5:24)
What passions are being spoken of here? Sinful passions (Romans 7:5) and vile passions (Romans 1:26) are what have been crucified and are to be put to death. Passion, in and of itself, is not evil. Otherwise, the passion found between a married couple would also have to be put to death. But, on the contrary, Scripture cultivates this passion (see the Song of Solomon and Proverbs 5:19), and never identifies self sexual gratification as an evil passion or lust.
What about "uncleanness" (Colossians 3:5)? Doesn't the law identify masturbation, or at least the result of it, unclean? Yes it does.
If any man has an emission of semen, then he shall wash all his body in water, and be unclean until evening. And any garment and any leather on which there is semen, it shall be washed with water, and be unclean until evening. (Leviticus 15:16-17; see also verse 32)
Heterosexual intercourse is not in view here, because that comes in the following verse (verse 18). Therefore, there are two ways in which this "emission of semen" could happen. The ejaculation could be the result of a wet dream, "some occurrence in the night" (NKJV Deuteronomy 23:10; NAS "nocturnal emission," Hebrew, miqqer
 
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Well, this is only the first half of the article, but for some reason when I post the rest it only shows the first couple words.
 
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Trust_in_the_Name,

Thanks for the article (or half of it :)). There are a few ways we can know if something wrong. Two of these ways (I don't say they are the only ones) are what is expressly forbidden in Scripture or reasonably inferred from Scripture.

The article makes the point that it is not expressly forbidden in Scripture. True enough. But most of the arguments that I'm aware of argue that its wrongness is reasonably inferred from Scripture. The article appears acknowledge this. It quotes the following source to show that:

The Bible gives us no direct answer to the question. It does not even mention masturbation. But we can deduct from Scripture principles that masturbation is an unnatural sexual practice. It is not according to the purpose of God who gave sex as a gift to be used between a man and his lawful wife, within the marriage bond only. Any other deliberate sexual act, where true love is not the main driving force, is unnatural. (www.bmedia.co.za/faq/masturbation.htm, bold added)
The article then responds with the following:

The Bible does mention masturbation, at least, the result of it (see below), but Scripture does not teach that it is "not according to the purpose of God." Moreover, the Word of God never identifies it as "unnatural." Homosexuality is unnatural (Romans 1:26-27). Masturbation is never spoken of in this way.
But notice that the article goes back to talking about what Scripture explicitly states and ignores the inference. This is misguided, as the persons arguing from *inference* are doing just that: making an argument from inference. So to respond to this inferred argument that Scripture is not explicit is to miss the point.

Maybe the article gets back to the inferred argument and provides relevant objections in the second half that couldn't be posted. But I don't think anything it has said so far debunks the argument mentioned by "bmedia" (whatever that is, never heard of it). Personally, I think the argument that masturbation is wrong because it goes against our sexual design is a good one.

And telling guys that they can masturbate is pretty much guaranteeing that they will. Guys have a hard enough time refraining when they think it's wrong.
 
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Here's the second half of the article:

Heterosexual intercourse is not in view here, because that comes in the following verse (verse 18). Therefore, there are two ways in which this "emission of semen" could happen. The ejaculation could be the result of a wet dream, "some occurrence in the night" (NKJV Deuteronomy 23:10; NAS "nocturnal emission," Hebrew, miqqereh-laylah). Or, it could be the result of masturbation. Either way, the man is "unclean" until evening.
In the law, people are called unclean, but they have done nothing evil (Romans 14:14; Colossians 2:20-22), in and of itself (e.g. Leviticus 11:39; 15:5-8, 10-11, 19-23, 27; 17:15). In fact, in Numbers 19:7-8, 10, & 22, there they are obeying God's command, yet they become “unclean.” Also, the very next verse classifies people who have been involved in heterosexual intercourse as unclean as well (Leviticus 15:18), and clearly copulation of this sort is not evil in and of itself (Hebrews 13:4).
What about 1 Thessalonians 4:3-8?
This is the will of God, your sanctification: that you should abstain from sexual immorality; that each of you should know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in passion of lust, like the Gentiles who do not know God; that no one should take advantage of and defraud his brother in this matter, because the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also forewarned you and testified. For God did not call us to uncleanness, but in holiness. Therefore he who rejects this does not reject man, but God, who has also given us His Holy Spirit. (1 Thessalonians 4:3-8)
These are some serious words to heed (Psalm 119:60)! But, again, what is being spoken of is sexual immorality, and masturbation is never identified as such. Someone may argue, "masturbation is not 'in sanctification and in honor.'" Says who? The Lord says no such thing (Proverbs 30:5-6).
[SIZE=+2]II. Evil Thoughts Are Evil[/SIZE]
Wicked men have debased minds that are filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness, and evil-mindedness (Romans 1:28-29). They are "past feeling" and "have given themselves over to lewdness, to work all uncleanness" (Ephesians 4:19). Therefore, it is no wonder that masturbation would be greatly abused and misused.
Jesus said,
You have heard that it was said to those of old, "You shall not commit adultery." But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Matthew 5:27-28)
Jesus made it clear that adultery can be committed in the heart, even though no physical intercourse has taken place. "The imagination of man's heart is evil from his youth," (Genesis 8:21) so it would not be surprising to find evil masturbatic activity rampant in society. Masturbation with evil imaginations, which could include the use of pornographic material, is most certainly wicked (see also Job 31:1-4; Proverbs 6:25).
But, masturbation, in and of itself, does not demand such evil thoughts. To say it does, goes beyond what is written (1 Corinthians 4:6), adds to the word of God (Proverbs 30:5-6), and denies Biblical freedom in Christ (Colossians 2:20-22).
[SIZE=+2]III. To The Pure All Things Are Pure (Titus 1:15)[/SIZE]
Paul wrote,
All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful. (1 Corinthians 10:23)
Masturbation is lawful. There is nothing in the word of God that condemns it. The Lord never even intimates that it is some form of abuse or not according to His purpose. There is nothing new under the sun (Ecclesiastes 1:9), and it is not as if this is a new thing of which the Lord was unaware! Leviticus 15:16-17 addresses the issue, at least the result of it, and no condemnation is given. Therefore, neither should we condemn what God does not (Matthew 7:1-2).
Furthermore, since it is a practice the Lord does not condemn, and Paul point blank says "All things are lawful," it is something that the pure, with pure thoughts, could practice and still be pure (Titus 1:15). In fact, those who maintain that masturbation is impure, are those who put man made regulations upon men. As Paul rebuked the Colossians for submitting to such things, saying,
If you died with Christ from the basic principles of the world, why, as though living in the world, do you subject yourselves to regulations - "Do not touch, do not taste, do not handle," which all concern things which perish with the using - according to the commandments and doctrines of men? These things indeed have an appearance of wisdom in self-imposed religion, false humility, and neglect of the body, but are of no value against the indulgence of the flesh. (Colossians 2:20-23)
Such a regulation of "Do not touch, . . . do not handle" your genitals, i.e. do not masturbate, is a commandment and doctrine of men. It may very well have the appearance of wisdom, but no such "wisdom" is found in the word of God. It is the wisdom of the world, which God calls foolishness (1 Corinthians 3:19); and it is indeed "self-imposed religion." It may very well result in "neglect of the body," that is, the body that is crying out for relief! It is also of "no value against the indulgence of the flesh." If anything, it exacerbates the problem. People left to no sexual satisfaction whatsoever, like Catholic priests who are told they cannot masturbate or get married, are left to the temptations of the flesh with little to no power to overcome.
"But," someone might argue, "believers, who have the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:23, "self-control"), should be able to overcome in such a situation." On the contrary, Scripture identifies Spirit filled married people as those who lack self-control in this area (1 Corinthians 7:5). Spirit filled single people may as well (1 Corinthians 7:9). Having the Holy Spirit does not mandate absolute control in this arena, especially when man made standards are placed upon an individual, standards that were never meant by God to be imposed (in righteousness, that is).
Finally, Paul said, "All things are lawful, but not all things are helpful." Can masturbation be helpful? Certainly, it can be helpful in alleviating the sexual drive, as long as it is done with pure thoughts, as it is written, "To the pure, all things are pure" (Titus 1:15). A godly person, motivated by a godly motive, certainly could masturbate without it being sinful or self-seeking. For example, a man of God wanting to alleviate the sexual drive in his striving to be pure and not wanting to be in a vulnerable position for temptation towards sexual immorality via pent-up sexual desires, could certainly masturbate with this in mind (wanting to be sexually pure) and it would be pure. Nothing in the word of God condemns this.
[SIZE=+2]IV. Godly Limits[/SIZE]
Even though Paul says, "All things are lawful for me," he also says, "but I will not be brought under the power of any" (1 Corinthians 6:12). Masturbation should not control the individual. The individual should be in control of any masturbation. Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:23) and should be a continual reality in the life of any believer (Romans 8:5-6).
Also, for married people Paul writes,
Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. (1 Corinthians 7:3-5)
Since the wife and husband do not have authority over their own bodies, then masturbation should be in subjection to the spouse. In other words, any masturbation needs to be in submission to the spouse's desires and it should in no way diminish or take away from sexual intercourse and orgasm within the relationship. If it does, then a husband or a wife might deprive their spouse, either in part or in whole, in disobedience to 1 Corinthians 7:3-5.
Furthermore, as long as the spouse is available, sexual pleasure should be found in this relationship, as Proverbs declares to the man,
Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love. (Proverbs 5:18-19)
[SIZE=+2]V. Conclusion[/SIZE]
Those who maintain that masturbation is evil, in and of itself, are like the Pharisees of old of whom Christ said:
They bind heavy burdens, hard to bear, and lay them on men's shoulders; but they themselves will not move them with one of their fingers. (Matthew 23:4; see also Luke 11:46)
The sexual desire is a God given desire (Romans 11:36) and it is not evil in and of itself (Romans 14:14). Moreover, God has made a way for even those who are not married (male or female), or those who are away from their spouse (like a soldier at war), to at least somewhat satisfy the sexual drive via masturbation. It is oppressive to teach that such an act is against the will of God, and it is evil to maintain such a cause against the innocent in this matter (Proverbs 30:5-6).
Scripture says,
To the pure all things are pure, but to those who are defiled and unbelieving nothing is pure; but even their mind and conscience are defiled. (Titus 1:15)
If you have been defiled on this subject by those who profess to know God but deny Him (Titus 1:16) and your conscience is not pure on this matter (Romans 14:22-23), it is high time to renew your mind.
Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. (Romans 12:2)
This subject is a good example of Christ's words found in Matthew 11:28-30.
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.
The commandments of men are burdensome, but God's commandments are not (1 John 5:3).
They are life to those who find them, and health to all their flesh. (Proverbs 4:22)
 
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Thanks for the reply. I see your point about how the article doesn't seem to address the issues it raises, but I think that was just an artifact of my having only posted the first part of it, whereas the substance of its argument comes later. Incidentally, I figured out that the reason it wasn't posting correctly was that it contained a Hebrew word with some special characters.
 
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Credo_ut_Intelligam

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Thanks for the reply. I see your point about how the article doesn't seem to address the issues it raises, but I think that was just an artifact of my having only posted the first part of it, whereas the substance of its argument comes later.
I don’t think the rest of the article does in fact address the inferential argument. For example, it says:

But, masturbation, in and of itself, does not demand such evil thoughts. To say it does, goes beyond what is written (1 Corinthians 4:6), adds to the word of God (Proverbs 30:5-6), and denies Biblical freedom in Christ (Colossians 2:20-22).​

So instead of addressing the inferential argument, it simply points out that the inference is “beyond what is written” and “adds to the word of God.”

Of course in some sense it goes beyond what is written, as all inferences must. But then, so does the inference that YOU are saved! After all, Scripture does not explicitly say YOU are saved. Rather, it says something like “All who believe on Jesus will be saved” and you infer that you believe in Jesus and therefore you are saved.

So the charges made in the above quote ring empty.

The article then cites 1 Corinthians 10:23 and concludes:

Masturbation is lawful. There is nothing in the word of God that condemns it.​

But 1 Cor. 10:23 can’t be used as a proof text that whatever I think is lawful is lawful. I can’t cite the passage and then conclude “Murder is lawful.” And the following sentence just goes back to the explicit/inference thing.

The article continues:

It may very well result in "neglect of the body," that is, the body that is crying out for relief! It is also of "no value against the indulgence of the flesh." If anything, it exacerbates the problem. People left to no sexual satisfaction whatsoever, like Catholic priests who are told they cannot masturbate or get married, are left to the temptations of the flesh with little to no power to overcome.​

But this is nonsense, in my experience. Not masturbating may be difficult if it has become a habit for you (and for 80% of guys it has become exactly that). But just like any habit, you can recondition yourself and acquire new ones. What feels like an uncontrollable urge to find “relief” is like a withdraw symptom that does in fact go away over time. The act releases hormones like dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin, so it is in fact a sort of withdrawal symptom. The body wants to experience that high again. No wonder that people have a hard time stopping once they start and feel like they couldn’t possibly stop if they had to.

But the logic of saying that because our bodies get so addicted to it it is bad to tell us not to do it is like telling a heroin addict that because his body feels horrible when he stops taking heroin that he therefore shouldn’t stop taking the heroin because it will exacerbate the problem. After all, how will he find the power to resist?

The article continues:

On the contrary, Scripture identifies Spirit filled married people as those who lack self-control in this area (1 Corinthians 7:5)… Can masturbation be helpful? Certainly, it can be helpful in alleviating the sexual drive, as long as it is done with pure thoughts, as it is written, "To the pure, all things are pure" (Titus 1:15).​

But of course married people who are having sex are going to have a stronger desire for more sex (all other things being equal) because they are experiencing the “euphoric state” (for lack of a better term). The way to cure your sex drive isn’t to have sex or to masturbate. That will only reinforce your sex drive. This is why married couples don’t have a decreased sex drive simply be virtue of the fact that they are having sex! If they do have a decreased sex drive, it is attributable to other factors.

Arguing that masturbation (or sex) “relieves” the desire and therefore somehow “fixes” it is as silly as arguing that taking heroin relieves his heroin drive. Sure it does, for a day maybe. But that’s not how we normally measure relief. It’s only relieved because you’ve acquired it temporarily. But it’s like feeding a stray dog. You feed it and it will inevitably come back to you.

Saying that you can masturbate with pure thoughts is a only practicing pure self-deception, like the “Christian” who believes he never sins after he gets saved. If you are unmarried and messing with your penis and not having lustful thoughts you need to go see a psychiatrist because something is wrong with you.

The reason people try to find such elaborate ways to get around the obvious is the same reason why people still try to justify divorce: it’s one of their treasured sins and they can’t imagine a world without it. Like the disciples who told Jesus that if marriage is for life, it’s better to not have marriage at all! Most people just can’t fathom not having divorce as a legitimate option, so they’ll do all sorts of gymnastics to permit it or they’ll want to throw out the concept of marriage altogether. When you consider that most men (read: all) want to get married just so they can have sex, it’s no wonder they find it unbelievable that they should and even can stop masturbating (or looking at porn).
 
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I'd listen to your conscience on this one, if you feel guilty while doing it, there's your answer. One I heard was that every time this person starting doing that, Christian music would begin playing in their mind. That would make it pretty difficult. Sing praise to God instead, give glory to God and satisfaction to your soul instead of satisfying a fleshly desire.
 
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camragirl73

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lol you are soooooooooo right lol
 
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Just make sure that lust is out of the picture, because then you is commiting adultery... no woman (or man
) in mind when masturbating = no lust.
 
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i can answer that question. Yes masturbation is a Sin but a person cannot overcome it through effort.
I tried and it came back worst. the Idea is to starve the flesh from this desire. How does one starve it ::
One can stop looking at pornography, or other stuff you see on the computer, the filth you see it on TV, On magazines, on the street, you listen on the radio, hear from friends at work, school, and stuff that you think about when you mind drifts away. You must starve the flesh only then the Spirit can prevail. Once the spirit has control you must nurture the Spirit through prayer trying to develop a relationship with God will allow in to experience Gods presence on one's life and this will give a person Joy. This joy and intimacy with the creator will replace the joy you get from the flesh not only from masturbating but from other things. This will not kill the flesh, the flesh will only die when you die. the urges will subside but a need for sexual intimacy and pleasure will remain. When a person is half asleep and weak and the urges come, immediately ask God to fill you with his spirit, and the Spirit of God will overcome the flesh. Pure effort will not work But the holy Spirit will. Btw i came here looking for some post about dating or something, I need a girlfriend hehe.
God Bless you all
 
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Hmmmmm,

Listen up guys, Lil-rush is absolutely correct on masturbation being sin.....
first of all, the seed of the man is intended for the reproduction of the beings, not to spilled carelessly, if you wanna know what happens to the one who spills his seed, i.e. waste it, you can read Genesis 38:6-14
Now, what about women??? They can't spills their seed, let me tell you tell you one thing:
GOD made sex so that husband and wife be united, find joy and pleasure in having sex, and ultimately, become one flesh, Mark 10:6-8
Let me be clear, GOD created your genital organs not to satisfy only yourself, but to satisfy your spouse as well and thus, to follow the nature...

Nature shows that:
1. Plants do not masturbate, they reproduce through pollination
2. Animals do not masturbate, they have intercourse to reproduce

Masturbate is only the perverted way of sex, and by the way, to masturbate you must imagine that you're having sex with someone, but Jesus Christ said:
"But I tell you the truth, anyone who has looked at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart," Matthew 5:28
This also applies to the woman who looks lustfully at man or thinks she's having sex with him!!!

So, brother in Christ, I know that quitting masturbation is hard, trust me, I used to masturbate too, I know it is difficult to quit, but you'll have to do it no matter what. I'm quitting, I was born again about a year and a half ago and I still have this problem, but I'm fighting, and learning to resist it...

Good luck to you to too!!! If you want more help, do not hesitate to ask!!!1

Blessings,
Jehoshaphat Asher Hameed