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Trudes

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Actually I don't know anyone who is comfortable being a gay Christian. Several years ago I had a male friend who was in his twenties who I suspected Was struggling with gay thoughts. sometimes during our conversation he would say something that made a red flag go on in head. I didn't know how to approach him about the topic so I left it alone. I did tell him that I would talk to him about anything that might be bothering him. I do believe he loved The Lord though. I think he is a great guy and he was quite inactive in the church.


i think it is only human to have our own personal struggles. I truly believe he will stay faithful to God nonetheless.
 
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Mark 10:6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. We need to believe the Lord that he didn't mix it up. I think those that want to do this sin, it is like any other sin temptation is difficult to break away from.
 
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Mark 10:6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. We need to believe the Lord that he didn't mix it up. I think those that want to do this sin, it is like any other sin temptation is difficult to break away from.
 
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Mark 10:6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. We need to believe the Lord that he didn't mix it up. I think those that want to do this sin, it is like any other sin temptation is difficult to break away from.
Sin is sin, no matter how big or small, it still caused death until the Christ at the resurrection and ascension, sending the Holy Spirit of God to us in love.

I am not excusing sin and taking advantage of this miraculous grace bestowed upon all that do believe. So if I am struggling with any sin, where do I take it? To God and see what truth is and do as God leads not man.
Romans 13:9 If you love your neighbor as much as you love yourself you will not want to harm or cheat him, or kill him or steal from him. And you won’t sin with his wife or want what is his, or do anything else the Ten Commandments say is wrong. All ten are wrapped up in this one, to love your neighbor as you love yourself.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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Good advice:

[video=youtube_share;Pcy_6anmVUc]http://youtu.be/Pcy_6anmVUc[/video]
 
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jetson

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There is no such thing as a gay Christian. The Bible states, man that lay with man and a woman that lays with another woman is an abomination to God. Homosexuality, was the reason Sodom and Gomarah were destroyed.
 
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Good advice:

[video=youtube_share;Pcy_6anmVUc]http://youtu.be/Pcy_6anmVUc[/video]
Oh, come on. Whether or not you think being gay is a sin, THIS is ridiculous propaganda that is 100% untrue.
Next you're gonna tell us that "gangs want our innocent white kids."
 

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There is no such thing as a gay Christian. The Bible states, man that lay with man and a woman that lays with another woman is an abomination to God. Homosexuality, was the reason Sodom and Gomarah were destroyed.
What sin, any sin never caused death? and is your obedience perfect?
 

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I had a friend long ago, that was a hermaphrodite. Timothy was born with both female and male parts, and back in the early 1940's, they automatically saved the male parts, and made the decision for the person which they would be. Timothy had desires for both males & females. He went through hormonal changes every month, and his dream was to find a mate, like himself. He was a Christian, who had been rejected from every church he had been to, because he was called "an abomination". Why would God call Timothy to Him, if Timothy wasn't loved by the Lord? Remember, the Lord fashioned us in our mothers womb, according the Bible. We are not qualified to judge a person's salvation. Only 1 is.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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No. I've seen it play out exactly like this in communities I've lived in. THIS is good advice that most certainly is true and I've already listed numerous studies and key statistics showing that it is in previous posts.

You're simply misinformed.

Oh, come on. Whether or not you think being gay is a sin, THIS is ridiculous propaganda that is 100% untrue.
Next you're gonna tell us that "gangs want our innocent white kids."
 
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woka

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Hi Lyndies thanks for such a great thread.

It has been proven statistically that not 90 or even 99% of people who are gay have been molested, raped, or suffered some kind of immoral sexual act but actually 100% of cases. Lots of people who think they are born gay, genuinely believe this to be the case, they could of suffered some kind of abuse at such a young age it is no longer even in their memory recall bank.

You see for me acceptance of the person is absolutely key, when we accept each other as Christ accepts us then we desire a real relationship with Him, and when we really get into the Word it will free us. Also when people are struggeling with self acceptance just everyday normal issue's and we have a gay friend, they have an ability to completely accept us just as we are, this can lead to us being curious about being gay, because they are always just so loving and caring, and when we feel like we don't fit in anywhere else but are so accepted in this circle it makes the transition just so much easier. This would be people who don't think they were born gay but decided they were gay later on in life, an example of this would be my neighbour who was married for many year's and left her husband for her best female friend. This friend listened, and loved, and cared.

Gay people really get other's, because they themselves have suffered rejection, humiliation and everything else, they would never subject somebody else to that, and that is why the lifestyle could become something we might be attracted to. I just thought I would drop you a few of my thoughts on the subject.
 
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AgeofKnowledge

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A human being cannot be a hermaphrodite. This is the online Websters dictionary definition of Hermaphrodite:
Main Entry:her·maph·ro·dite
Pronunciation:\(?)h?r-'ma-fr?-?dit\
Function:noun
Etymology:Middle English hermofrodite, from Latin hermaphroditus, from Greek hermaphroditos, from Hermaphroditos
Date:14th century

1 : an animal or plant having both male and female reproductive organs

2 : something that is a combination of diverse elements

Only Snails, plant life, worms, and some types of fish can be hermaphrodites.

Hermaphroditism in humans never occurs. The closest you can get is ovotestes. But phenotype is not determinable from the ovotestes so you are referring to intersex.

Intersex is a rare condition of variation in sexual characteristics that include chromosomes, gonads, and/or genitals that do not allow a person to be distinctly identified as male or female. Such variation may involve genital ambiguity, and combinations of chromosomal genotype and sexual phenotype other than XY-male and XX-female.

Usually, intersex infants with ambiguous outer genitalia are surgically corrected. Research has shown gender identity of intersex individuals to be independent of sexual orientation though some intersex conditions also affect an individual's sexual orientation.In other words, after surgical correction as infants, the vast majority behave what they are raised to be.

That latter point is disconcerting for it reveals that confusing children as the liberals have set out to do is going to result in a great deal of serious immoral homosexual sinful behavior that, of course, will negatively impact their personality and spiritual condition in dramatically damaging ways. Most will never be the same afterwards nor what they could have been if they hadn't been deceived as children.
Also, you need to understand that while it's true that rarely humans can have some chromosomal arrangements contrary to their phenotypic sex (XX males or XY females), the vast majority that do have them don't even know they do and are not homosexuals.

Often, they are sterile and in all cases, something went wrong. A chromosome didn't cross over or the egg was over fertilized resulting in an extra chromosome, etc... These are birth defects. These are not the people engaging in homosexual behavior currently in our society. Almost all of the people engaging in homosexual acts have either XX or XY chromosomes.


I had a friend long ago, that was a hermaphrodite. Timothy was born with both female and male parts, and back in the early 1940's, they automatically saved the male parts, and made the decision for the person which they would be. Timothy had desires for both males & females. He went through hormonal changes every month, and his dream was to find a mate, like himself. He was a Christian, who had been rejected from every church he had been to, because he was called "an abomination". Why would God call Timothy to Him, if Timothy wasn't loved by the Lord? Remember, the Lord fashioned us in our mothers womb, according the Bible. We are not qualified to judge a person's salvation. Only 1 is.
 
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No. I've seen it play out exactly like this in communities I've lived in. THIS is good advice that most certainly is true and I've already listed numerous studies and key statistics showing that it is in previous posts.

You're simply misinformed.
Yeah... My brother is gay and I'm pretty sure that he's never tried to molest a teenaged boy...

There's a BIG fat difference between homosexuality (the attraction to the same sex) and pedophilia (the attraction to children.) This is the same hateful non-facts that the Family Research Council spews and it's the reason they're labeled a hate group. They use LIES to make people like you believe their made up facts.
 
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Hi Lyndies thanks for such a great thread.

It has been proven statistically that not 90 or even 99% of people who are gay have been molested, raped, or suffered some kind of immoral sexual act but actually 100% of cases. Lots of people who think they are born gay, genuinely believe this to be the case, they could of suffered some kind of abuse at such a young age it is no longer even in their memory recall bank.

You see for me acceptance of the person is absolutely key, when we accept each other as Christ accepts us then we desire a real relationship with Him, and when we really get into the Word it will free us. Also when people are struggeling with self acceptance just everyday normal issue's and we have a gay friend, they have an ability to completely accept us just as we are, this can lead to us being curious about being gay, because they are always just so loving and caring, and when we feel like we don't fit in anywhere else but are so accepted in this circle it makes the transition just so much easier. This would be people who don't think they were born gay but decided they were gay later on in life, an example of this would be my neighbour who was married for many year's and left her husband for her best female friend. This friend listened, and loved, and cared.

Gay people really get other's, because they themselves have suffered rejection, humiliation and everything else, they would never subject somebody else to that, and that is why the lifestyle could become something we might be attracted to. I just thought I would drop you a few of my thoughts on the subject.

Your 100% statistic is 100% false. Actually, most gay people (men and women) have never suffered sexual violence or violation, and those that have, have done so after "coming out" as gay. Obviously, there are cases that gay men have been raped or molested as children, but it's no bigger a statistic than straight men that have been raped or molested as children.
 

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I had a friend long ago, that was a hermaphrodite. Timothy was born with both female and male parts, and back in the early 1940's, they automatically saved the male parts, and made the decision for the person which they would be. Timothy had desires for both males & females. He went through hormonal changes every month, and his dream was to find a mate, like himself. He was a Christian, who had been rejected from every church he had been to, because he was called "an abomination". Why would God call Timothy to Him, if Timothy wasn't loved by the Lord? Remember, the Lord fashioned us in our mothers womb, according the Bible. We are not qualified to judge a person's salvation. Only 1 is.
Thank you for that and I know this to be true
Luke 6:32 For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them.
[h=3]Luke 6:32[/h]Living Bible (TLB)

[SUP]32 [/SUP]“Do you think you deserve credit for merely loving those who love you? Even the godless do that!
 

homwardbound

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Hi Lyndies thanks for such a great thread.

It has been proven statistically that not 90 or even 99% of people who are gay have been molested, raped, or suffered some kind of immoral sexual act but actually 100% of cases. Lots of people who think they are born gay, genuinely believe this to be the case, they could of suffered some kind of abuse at such a young age it is no longer even in their memory recall bank.

You see for me acceptance of the person is absolutely key, when we accept each other as Christ accepts us then we desire a real relationship with Him, and when we really get into the Word it will free us. Also when people are struggeling with self acceptance just everyday normal issue's and we have a gay friend, they have an ability to completely accept us just as we are, this can lead to us being curious about being gay, because they are always just so loving and caring, and when we feel like we don't fit in anywhere else but are so accepted in this circle it makes the transition just so much easier. This would be people who don't think they were born gay but decided they were gay later on in life, an example of this would be my neighbour who was married for many year's and left her husband for her best female friend. This friend listened, and loved, and cared.

Gay people really get other's, because they themselves have suffered rejection, humiliation and everything else, they would never subject somebody else to that, and that is why the lifestyle could become something we might be attracted to. I just thought I would drop you a few of my thoughts on the subject.
you know acceptance is key, and many do not really love others unless others agree with them/
[h=3]Luke 6:32[/h]Living Bible (TLB)

[SUP]32 [/SUP]“Do you think you deserve credit for merely loving those who love you? Even the godless do that!
 
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Winners

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I truly believe that if we want to win over people who are gay we must not judge them but meet them where they are. We should not just rush them with sin, sin, sin. Although that may be the case we need to show the Jesus in us, love them not condem them then maybe with the help of the Holy Spirit we will win the over but we must first show Love. Remember how Jesus dealt with the prostitute?