I am seeking to meet a Christian Woman to Marry... (USA)
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Just to say this, out of context: "This will be my last post in response to any of the pro-feminatzi taunters, and I mean it... I am responding to Liza at length, as she is the only one who has offered a coherent line or argumentation."
It sounded like giving up!
I´d like to encourage you, but THAT is for girls, solely.
I wish there were a device to share live life experiences, but there´s not.
You´ll find her (otherwise they or she will).
But don´t view her as pro-feminist (She is and all would be).
I could be involved in the macho men movement, but i know how those have ended up: Loneliness + isolation.
Cheer up! You are young, friend.
It sounded like giving up!
I´d like to encourage you, but THAT is for girls, solely.
I wish there were a device to share live life experiences, but there´s not.
You´ll find her (otherwise they or she will).
But don´t view her as pro-feminist (She is and all would be).
I could be involved in the macho men movement, but i know how those have ended up: Loneliness + isolation.
Cheer up! You are young, friend.
i'm sorry, i have to call baloney on this. you can cite nietzsche and scheler, use jargon and offer solid theory, but that doesn't make it true. it makes you one prone to assumption on the basis of nothing more than what was a late-night attempt at humor (albeit, at your expense).
but that's because 've gotten to know cinder well enough to recognize that for what it was.
but you don't know cinder at all, nor me, nor anyone else here. if you had come and integrated into the community of people and utilized this place in the spirit for which it was intended (friendship and fellowship) you'd know us well enough to assign our character and ideology flaws more accurately. : )
whether you choose to accept this or not, coming here to do a "drive-by personal ad" is seldom going to be treated with the serious intention you hoped for.
and despite your statement that you could "care less" about advice and ridicule (your words, not mine) you've proven that you're certainly not apathetic about feedback, and probably looking for a debate of some kind.
or maybe that's your "default setting".
also, i wanted to say i've enjoyed reading much of what you shared. while i don't agree with 100% of what you shared, we probably agree more than disagree, and think you'd make a welcome addition to this community.
if you're serious about looking for a wife online and wish to use cc for your purposes, i think you'd be more successful by trying an approach that is more laid back, and focused on getting to know other ladies. there are a lot of godly women (and men) here, but i sincerely doubt that the woman you think you're looking for is going to take this seriously. and i mean that in the very nicest of ways.
or take it to christian mingle. : )
but it's not fair for you to be disappointed when YOU come here, post something that you already know (and been informed of) isn't an accepted (or even welcome) practice, and others don't take this seriously.
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UUuuuffff!
I wish SOMEONE read Hosea book, at least.
He took back his promiscous wife "home" and SOMEONE said that: "Theology has nothing to do with the intrinsically social nature of the status of contemporary marriage and family structure. "
I need new glasses!
I´m getting BLIND.
PS
What about SAMSON and Delilah?
There are several cases in the Bible I READ.
I wish SOMEONE read Hosea book, at least.
He took back his promiscous wife "home" and SOMEONE said that: "Theology has nothing to do with the intrinsically social nature of the status of contemporary marriage and family structure. "
I need new glasses!
I´m getting BLIND.
PS
What about SAMSON and Delilah?
There are several cases in the Bible I READ.
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She took one sentence that I wrote out of context, and interpreted in a way that contradicts the whole of what I did say. Anyone can do that, you go ahead and take notes, buddy
(I want a woman who wants to stay home, make babies, cook and clean)?
Yes! Exactly! The one part where you're spot on! I also qualified that statement though, adding the dimension of friendship and love. If you are ridiculing me for this point, would you rather have me be complacent with a woman who will rarely be home, who will employ abortion and or artificial contraception to inhibit making babies so she can keep her career, who will hardly be able to cook a friggin hard-boiled egg, and who will hire servants to clean since she will have been working all day after having dumped off the one or two children we did conceive at day care?? Of course you would. For this is what secular feminism is all about
I assume this is what you are saying I took out of context?
Well no, you only gave two options: Either she stayed home and had babies and cooked and cleaned or you would have to accept a women who employs abortion. Which insinuates that if she doesn't cook and clean she must be the latter.
And I wasn't the one who said notes, I wouldn't be that silly you obviously expect to be teaching and the woman to take notes. You can take it, you can leave it. It's your choice.
It's just a suggestion to let go of the pride because in all of this you seem to have made it about YOU, Marriage never was about you, It's about God. Marriage, Children, Families-lock, stock and barrel is for our Lord, to bring Him praise.I don't recall you saying anything about her loving the Lord and serving Him, it was all about serving YOU. God will not bring this amazing woman you picture into your life if you have so much pride, it's like giving hard candy to a kid with no teeth, only a cruel mother would do that.
As you have this list, she too has a list and what she is looking for might be what God needs to work on with you first. You really could be holding up your own destiny. Ask God to make you just as amazing for her as you expect her to be for you. Don't take offence to this, I am not saying there is anything wrong with you. The right kind of Godly women deserves the right kind of Godly man.
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Ok!
You said this: "Theology has nothing to do with the intrinsically social nature of the status of contemporary marriage and family structure."
I tried to say this: "Have you read Hosea Book?"
Hos 1:2 When the LORD first spoke through Hosea, the LORD said to Hosea, "Go, take to yourself a wife of whoredom and have children of whoredom, for the land commits great whoredom by forsaking the LORD." (this goes more and more, inside the Bible)
I will not try to repeat what the Bible teaches contradicting "the social nature and the status of present day of the family..
The past is the same today!
Sodoma and Gomorrah is the same today.
Just tried to tell you that theology serves to KNOW human race, from the past, from today, and tomorrow.
And excuse me if I´m so dull and clumsy to explain nothig I can´t.
It was not my intention to get you upset.
You said this: "Theology has nothing to do with the intrinsically social nature of the status of contemporary marriage and family structure."
I tried to say this: "Have you read Hosea Book?"
Hos 1:2 When the LORD first spoke through Hosea, the LORD said to Hosea, "Go, take to yourself a wife of whoredom and have children of whoredom, for the land commits great whoredom by forsaking the LORD." (this goes more and more, inside the Bible)
I will not try to repeat what the Bible teaches contradicting "the social nature and the status of present day of the family..
The past is the same today!
Sodoma and Gomorrah is the same today.
Just tried to tell you that theology serves to KNOW human race, from the past, from today, and tomorrow.
And excuse me if I´m so dull and clumsy to explain nothig I can´t.
It was not my intention to get you upset.
Using these sad images of a "society" God showed Hosea the way to redeem broken families (and I´m glad I´m not a man like Hosea was).
God said: "Go again, love a woman who is loved by another man and is an adulteress, even as the LORD loves the children of Israel, though they turn to other gods and love cakes of raisins." (Hos 3:1)
I think there is more SOCIAL psychology here than in Bob Dobson´s books.
God said: "Go again, love a woman who is loved by another man and is an adulteress, even as the LORD loves the children of Israel, though they turn to other gods and love cakes of raisins." (Hos 3:1)
I think there is more SOCIAL psychology here than in Bob Dobson´s books.