I'm in the Doghouse Now
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I'm fairly confident no one is trying to actually "download a wife." So yeah, you are literally correct. But given the number of relationships/marriages which have originated through online communication - including those of some users here on CC - your comments just come across as needlessly bitter.
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ok so a couple people here and there actually got a working relationship, what about the millions who jump in the "e-love" game and get nowhere cause everything is great until they meet and then they find out they really don't like each other.
trust me for every 1 that ends up successful playing the "e-love" lotto, 1,000,000 failed.
Like I said in another post, no point in even playing the boy/girl friend game UNTIL YOU BLOODY MEET FACE TO FACE. I know that is seems to be a hard concept for many people to understand. so I will type it out slowly so it comes out clearly
IF
YOU
WANT
A
RELATIONSHIP
MEET
FACE
TO
FACE
FIRST
THEN
GO
FROM
THERE.
doing the "e-love" game before you meet is pointless. wait until AFTER you meet.
trust me for every 1 that ends up successful playing the "e-love" lotto, 1,000,000 failed.
Like I said in another post, no point in even playing the boy/girl friend game UNTIL YOU BLOODY MEET FACE TO FACE. I know that is seems to be a hard concept for many people to understand. so I will type it out slowly so it comes out clearly
IF
YOU
WANT
A
RELATIONSHIP
MEET
FACE
TO
FACE
FIRST
THEN
GO
FROM
THERE.
doing the "e-love" game before you meet is pointless. wait until AFTER you meet.
thing is, it don't work most of the time. its like hitting a 600million powerball lotto. yeah someone will win it, but millions will not. playing the "e-love" game is just like the powerball, people think they going to get rich "love" but end up with wasted time.
Thus everyone should wait until they meet face to face then see if they would like to go into a more serious direction.
Thus everyone should wait until they meet face to face then see if they would like to go into a more serious direction.
Pretty sure Paul is talking about the gospel, not giving Timothy dating advice... lol. I have one though.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. (Galatians 5:22-23)
Of course, if someone isn't a Christian, then this isn't relevant.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. (Galatians 5:22-23)
Of course, if someone isn't a Christian, then this isn't relevant.
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Lets not jump the gun on wisebeardman. And I wouldn't be calling people out as if their a wolf, that's not your job. (Looking @ Ageofknowledge and Jonahlynx.)
Your ego is just as bad as the rest. And specifically quoting scripture to use it has a backslap to another person, proves to me that you have no idea about the spirit of God either. So don't go quoting scriptures about those who don't endure sound doctrine. Because it seems to me, you aren't enduring sound doctrine either. And that is also, specifically calling other people, "bitter," or forming a gesture that he could be. You're only provoking a situation, and harassing individuals to become offended.
If she gives you the, "time out" or "dog house" I think you need to start reevaluating the current situation. She doesn't exert authority over you, and give a touch of, "When you can talk to me, and when you can't." Love doesn't look that way. I've been in and out of relationships, and what I've learned is to trust in God for those relationships. Which means, my obsession isn't talking to her, nor is it seeing her before seeing the Lord. And my wife wouldn't give me the doghouse, because if we're upset about something. We speak it, and if someone goes out of line, we are mature enough in God to surrender our emotions and feelings, and still be able to speak our minds and express our hearts.
But for your situation, for her to put you on time out and to tell you when she wants to talk to you again, sounds like a premature development in Christ, and also on you. Rethink where you stand before God, and make sure this is from the Lord. Because overall, you'll just end up hurting yourself, she will end up hurting you, and you will end up hurting her.
Your ego is just as bad as the rest. And specifically quoting scripture to use it has a backslap to another person, proves to me that you have no idea about the spirit of God either. So don't go quoting scriptures about those who don't endure sound doctrine. Because it seems to me, you aren't enduring sound doctrine either. And that is also, specifically calling other people, "bitter," or forming a gesture that he could be. You're only provoking a situation, and harassing individuals to become offended.
If she gives you the, "time out" or "dog house" I think you need to start reevaluating the current situation. She doesn't exert authority over you, and give a touch of, "When you can talk to me, and when you can't." Love doesn't look that way. I've been in and out of relationships, and what I've learned is to trust in God for those relationships. Which means, my obsession isn't talking to her, nor is it seeing her before seeing the Lord. And my wife wouldn't give me the doghouse, because if we're upset about something. We speak it, and if someone goes out of line, we are mature enough in God to surrender our emotions and feelings, and still be able to speak our minds and express our hearts.
But for your situation, for her to put you on time out and to tell you when she wants to talk to you again, sounds like a premature development in Christ, and also on you. Rethink where you stand before God, and make sure this is from the Lord. Because overall, you'll just end up hurting yourself, she will end up hurting you, and you will end up hurting her.
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The last part was what I written towards your quote.
Calling people bitter doesn't do no justice, or anyone anything. Calling people out of what they are, doesn't serve no purpose, but glory in the flesh. Because it just open doors to conversation and bickering that doesn't need to be. If there's anything to be said, say it out of love. There are multiple people here already on Wisemenbeard's case on what he said. We don't need 10 more people jumping on him. What about we just give him a water, ask him if he wants to go play some basketball, or do as Proverb suggest, "A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in til afterwards."
Calling people bitter doesn't do no justice, or anyone anything. Calling people out of what they are, doesn't serve no purpose, but glory in the flesh. Because it just open doors to conversation and bickering that doesn't need to be. If there's anything to be said, say it out of love. There are multiple people here already on Wisemenbeard's case on what he said. We don't need 10 more people jumping on him. What about we just give him a water, ask him if he wants to go play some basketball, or do as Proverb suggest, "A fool uttereth all his mind: but a wise man keepeth it in til afterwards."
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Actually I was the only one "on his case." Perhaps you started reading this page only and neglected the entire thread? Well, thanks for the suggestion anyway, but it seems your post was reactionary to my word choice. I think we've derailed the OP enough. Send me a PM if you still have a legitimate concern. Otherwise, enjoy your day!
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