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[h=5]To all the people who blame others for THEIR problems:
GROW UP!!! It's no one else's fault that you are immature (and lets face it, stupid sometimes). It's your fault when you won't learn. It's your fault when you hurt others. It's your fault you keep the company you do. It's your fault you get offended by others. Stop blaming your parents, your brothers and sisters, your in-laws, your spouses, your children, and your friends. They are not responsible for your thoughts, your actions, and your mistakes. YOU should be.
Until you learn this, you will never be truely happy, and you will make the people you blame quite irrate. Blaming others for what you've done, will never get anything fixed.
Sincerely, The People You Blame.
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GROW UP!!! It's no one else's fault that you are immature (and lets face it, stupid sometimes). It's your fault when you won't learn. It's your fault when you hurt others. It's your fault you keep the company you do. It's your fault you get offended by others. Stop blaming your parents, your brothers and sisters, your in-laws, your spouses, your children, and your friends. They are not responsible for your thoughts, your actions, and your mistakes. YOU should be.
Until you learn this, you will never be truely happy, and you will make the people you blame quite irrate. Blaming others for what you've done, will never get anything fixed.
Sincerely, The People You Blame.
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I'm just gonna recommend something...and I say this out of experience and love, but feel free to heed it or ignore it as you see fit:
When you're having a fight with your husband, it's...a bad idea...to take that fight anywhere outside the confines of your marriage. I know it's hard to deal with sometimes, and it makes us feel better (for a while) if we can go vent about it somewhere. But it's...destructive.
Uhh...that awkward moment when you're really bad at giving advice, and it wasn't asked for in the first place, but you don't want to see somebody go down a road you went down and crashed at the end of.
When you're having a fight with your husband, it's...a bad idea...to take that fight anywhere outside the confines of your marriage. I know it's hard to deal with sometimes, and it makes us feel better (for a while) if we can go vent about it somewhere. But it's...destructive.
Uhh...that awkward moment when you're really bad at giving advice, and it wasn't asked for in the first place, but you don't want to see somebody go down a road you went down and crashed at the end of.
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The awkward moment when..... I am walking in Walmart with my children grocery shopping. I ask my son to grab a bottle of
juice. This is a gallon of juice. He puts it is the cart. As I am standing there in the freezer section, the plastic bottle falls out of the top of the cart and lands smack dab in the middle of my left foot!!! I grit my teeth and say, "Gosh that hurt". Needless to say, I now have a beautiful purple and blue bruise on the top of my foot.
juice. This is a gallon of juice. He puts it is the cart. As I am standing there in the freezer section, the plastic bottle falls out of the top of the cart and lands smack dab in the middle of my left foot!!! I grit my teeth and say, "Gosh that hurt". Needless to say, I now have a beautiful purple and blue bruise on the top of my foot.
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(Imma... please forgive me if I'm stepping out of my boundaries here. It's just really been on my mind that there might be a little follow up needed.)
Folks, there is some back story to this post. It is very possible that she is understating things significantly with that simple post.
A little of the backstory can be found here: http://christianchat.com/prayer-requests/61850-leaving-my-abusive-husband-finally.html
Folks, there is some back story to this post. It is very possible that she is understating things significantly with that simple post.
A little of the backstory can be found here: http://christianchat.com/prayer-requests/61850-leaving-my-abusive-husband-finally.html