What Makes A Persons Dateable/Non Dateable???

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Dec 26, 2012
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UMMM Question does it make one undateable when they have forgotten what a date is? :p

Or when someone talks about a date and this is what comes to mind?

 

CatHerder

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UMMM Question does it make one undateable when they have forgotten what a date is? :p

Or when someone talks about a date and this is what comes to mind?

Totally dateable. She wouldn't have all this background knowledge to compare all of her other dates to her date with me!
 

Fenner

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Undateable: Meets your Mom, then on your date says, your Mom is hot. Now I'll know what you'll like when you're her age.

Undateable: The passenger side door of my car is broke, you'll need to crawl through the window. Even though the driver's side door works and you could get in that way.

Undateable: Him, do you have any pictures of your family? Me, yes, show him some photos. Him, this is boring, can we leave now?

Undateable: Throws garbage out of car window while driving around a state park.


Dateable: Helps you find a safe place for a stray cat you found.

Dateable: Is able to hold a conversation.

Dateable: Respectful to you doesn't want to rush into a relationship, wants to get to know you.


The above undateable situations happened to me. The Dateable is my husband. I can laugh at the nasty one's now but then I really wondered what they were putting in the water around here.
 
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Relena7

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Hi, how are you doing?

I'm doing fine, how are you?

I'm good, how is the weather in (Insert place they are from) today?

It is good, how is it there?

Also good. I'm growing organic food in my garden.

That is good. I too am growing organic food in my garden.

I went to the gym today and worked out.

I too went for a run this morning.

Well, have a good day.

You too, have a good day.





That is small talk. Its like the filler of life's conversations. Its boring, hollow, shallow and repetitive. I don't care what anyone had for breakfast, what color their toothpaste is, or how their deodorant smells.

A woman who is deeply curious about the universe and its people, asks why, and there is nothing small about that.
To an introvert like me, small talk is like the equivalent of placing 10 blood-sucking leeches to someones body without asking. There is only so much we can take before we start feeling mentally and emotionally anemic. :p



That reminds me.
Undateable: Tries to get me to be social. xD

Dateable: Respects needs and doesn't debate them.
 
Dec 26, 2012
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To an introvert like me, small talk is like the equivalent of placing 10 blood-sucking leeches to someones body without asking. There is only so much we can take before we start feeling mentally and emotionally anemic. :p
I thought it was more like a brain sucker trying to take away my brain. :p
 
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Undateable - Doesn't like to read
Undateable - Feels the need to fill every silence
Undateable - Hates animals

Dateable - Is taller than I am (lol)
Dateable - Knows who F. Scott Fitzgerald is
Dateable - Loves music (listening to or making)
 
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Chrissy77

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A woman is dateable when..............she can appreciate the kinds of music I listen to w/out judging me or wearing earplugs.

A woman is dateable when..............she will laugh at my demented & sometimes sick & twisted sense of humor.

A woman is undateable when...............she collects precious moments figurines & has multiple bowls of potpourri in her home.

A woman is undateable when.................she has never seen one single Star Wars film & has no desire to.
I think I've become undateable.
 

seoulsearch

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A woman is datable when...

she doesn't ask what kind of meat is in the stew, or why her cat is missing.

I would simply ask WHAT KIND of cat it was.

Obviously, one simply cannot make "Calico Stew" out of tabbies.

And knowing that, I believe, makes me HIGHLY dateable.
 
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arwen83

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A man is undatable when...
his favourite pass time is napping and going for rides around the city in his car
He mentions on the first date that he was dependent on his last girlfriend and thus doesn't have many friends
He doesn't feel strongly about anything
he says the f-word every 3 word trying to macho and epically failing

oh there's much more
 
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A woman is most likely undateable if she is named after certain mystic pure-breds with potentially indefinite lifespans. Only slightly better is being named after a specific one of them.
 
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Undateable - If he's into RPG :/
Undateable - If he uses more hair product than I do
Undateable - If he has more than 3 cats
Undateable - If he smells like he took a bath in his cologne
Undateable - Tattoos

Dateable - Remembers my birthday
Dateable - Wears glasses
Dateable - Wears skinnies, converse and/or hoodies (lol)
Dateable - Will put up with my reading addiction
Dateable - Tattoos
 

maxwel

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I would simply ask WHAT KIND of cat it was.

Obviously, one simply cannot make "Calico Stew" out of tabbies.

And knowing that, I believe, makes me HIGHLY dateable.
A woman who knows the right cat for the right stew...
that's a girl who knows how to impress a man.
 
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Jullianna

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Undateable: wears skinny jeans, has a mullet, wears his shirt unbuttoned to show chest hair and gold chains, gets man manis, likes Bieber, dislikes reading, expects me to talk a lot, speaks ill of people, has a foul mouth/makes crude remarks about women, can't talk about anything other than NASCAR/sports/tv shows/video games, WHINERS, players, doesn't like animals or kids

Dateable: mature, dresses like a man, is well groomed, is polite and respectful of people, has a sense of humor - especially about himself, doesn't make fun of people or bully them, appreciates family, is confident in who he is, shows an interest in his health, loves to explore/learn new things.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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A man is dateable when he takes me to ihop for the all you can eat pancakes.
A man is dateable when he watches me eat 10 pancakes and asks if i want some more

He's undateable if he no likey pancakes
He's undateable if he no makey me pancakes
 
Dec 26, 2012
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But the first premise can not be left out

Undateable - has no pulse

Dateable - has a pulse
:p
 
Mar 22, 2013
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no idea.

but from what I gather in life. i am very unwanted or undateable or what ever people call it.
 

Descyple

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I know a woman is dateable when.............. she has Pizza Hut on speed dial.

I know a woman is dateable when.............. at Christmas she wraps her own presents that I bought for her (that saves me all the hassle).


I know a woman is non dateable when......... her laughter reminds me of a hysterical hyena.

I know a woman is non dateable when......... on our first date she discusses what the names of our children will be!!!
 
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GreenNnice

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DAteable -- can engage in direct conversation (Hey, this is a shameless plug for my 'DIRECT conversation' thread :D )

Dateable -- Doesn't need to be bold in personality but needs to be willing to be bold in personality

Dateable -- Good around kids, good around adults, good around people, period . Shows God's #2 commandment well. I'm not saying I'm perfect in ANY of these above three areas--I'm not--but I know the Lord leads, His strength in me will move me.

Undateable -- Cannot hold a conversation with me.
Undateable -- Unenthused about life, that is a red flag for me. God has given us a spirit of Love, peace, and, don't forget a spirit of joy is a fruit that we are to show, too.
Undateable -- God's not first in her life.
 
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iTOREtheSKY

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A dateable woman is a woman who can eat chinese food with chopsticks
A dateable woman is a woman who can eat chinese food while still knowing it's loaded with MSG & possibly the neighbors cat or dog & still enjoy herself.
A dateable woman is any woman who doesn't find me repulsive or flee in terror,or call the towns people to hunt & burn me & stick me with pointy objects.
A dateable woman is any woman who knows that HAN SHOT FIRST!

A non-dateable woman is someone who thinks that Keanu Reeves is a true Thespian.
A non-dateable woman is someone who when she first saw the movie Titanic was "shocked" when the ship sank & everyone died.
A non-dateable woman is someone who when you are out with constantly is texting her friends like a 12 year old.
 
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Chrissy77

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A dateable woman is a woman who can eat chinese food with chopsticks
A dateable woman is a woman who can eat chinese food while still knowing it's loaded with MSG & possibly the neighbors cat or dog & still enjoy herself.
A dateable woman is any woman who doesn't find me repulsive or flee in terror,or call the towns people to hunt & burn me & stick me with pointy objects.
A dateable woman is any woman who knows that HAN SHOT FIRST!

A non-dateable woman is someone who thinks that Keanu Reeves is a true Thespian.
A non-dateable woman is someone who when she first saw the movie Titanic was "shocked" when the ship sank & everyone died.
A non-dateable woman is someone who when you are out with constantly is texting her friends like a 12 year old.
And again I have found I am undateable...

Maybe it says a lot in regards to the past 24 hours of my life.