After some things that I have witnessed this week that has affected me, close friends, and my church congregation I am going to say that ALOT of the homosexual "issue" is the media.
Many in the media will take stories from people who are homosexual. Exploit it, make it look like their victims, and then throw in comments about bigots, ignorant Christians and hate. The fact is many of us Christians that do not approve of homosexuality are not bigots, haters, ignorant and so on. We interact with gay people, friends with them, related to them, and deal with them on a daily basis. We may not approve of their ways, but that by no means indicates we hate them or wish ill on them.
I mentioned that I witnessed something this week, and I have. My whole town did. On one of those Talent/singing reality shows there was a kid from my town that on the show this past week. He has a beautiful voice, and could easily reach fame by his talent. Yet, when this kid walked on stage he announced to the the entire nation that his parents kicked out him of his house on his 18th birthday for being gay. He tears up, and everyone feels sorry for him. This kid did sing well, and will advance on, but I can't help but wonder if it was because of his talent or because he was a "victim" of hate. News headlines are all over the internet about how this guy was kicked out of his home on his birthday, and disowned by his family. People are now calling his parents bigots, ignorant, shameful..etc.
Guess what. I know his parents. I know him. I attend the same congregation he once did. His parents NEVER kicked him out, but he walked out. His own brother denied the accusations, and his family is heartbroken. This guy(his name is Jonathan) got on national television, and slandered the people who raised him.
Has his family been interviewed or asked about the situation? No. Are people judging total strangers and looking down on these "ignorant bigot Christians" because of a lie? YES.
This is why I blame the media for ALOT of what is going on.
BTW, please pray for this situation. This could become worse, and I fear for those involved.