Worst Dating Experiences
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And to add to Elizabeths comment, this is the very nature of existence. Anything can be a trigger. Driving by a restaurant, a smell or any number of things. And interacting with humans at all is always a potential trigger. The very act of being on the forums puts that person at risk of something coming up and triggering them.
The topics in most threads, no matter what they start out as, tend to change as the threads get longer. You can open a thread on one topic, and 3 pages in be on a 'trigger' topic. All a person can do is try to avoid things that they can foresee will be a problem, such as threads with titles like this one.
The topics in most threads, no matter what they start out as, tend to change as the threads get longer. You can open a thread on one topic, and 3 pages in be on a 'trigger' topic. All a person can do is try to avoid things that they can foresee will be a problem, such as threads with titles like this one.
I used to date a police officer years ago. One day I went to his apartment while he was working to clean it for him. When he comes home he begins to take his gun belt off.... And holds the gun to my head. He informed me he thought it would be funny to see the look on my face with a gun to my head. I will not share what I did to him( I temporarily "lost my religion")but I will share that he is no longer a police officer.
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I was out with a guy for our first date and we had already been talking for a couple weeks at that point. Well he asked me again what I did for work. So I told him for like the 10th time I was a special ed teacher. He responds really loudly and meanly with "what? U teach retards? In a public school? They shouldn't even be allowed in school!! That's a waste of my tax dollars!! Ur job is a waste of my money and those retards are a drain on society!!" People were staring and I was mortified. I very nicely said I have to leave this isn't going to work out. As I'm driving home he texts me saying I need to wake up and get a real job and stop taking advantage of tax payer's money.
Needless to say we never went out again. It was hard to resist his charm but maybe some other lucky girl can experience him for herself
Needless to say we never went out again. It was hard to resist his charm but maybe some other lucky girl can experience him for herself
In my enduring search for love I have had more than a couple bad dates:
I could bring up....
- The guy who wanted me to hold his dog's poop bag. I refused.
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- The guy who drilled me with questions, then when I told him I wasn't interested, he threw a verbal tantrum. Afterwards he texted me a long explanation of why I made a HORRIBLE mistake.
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- Another guy told me he added me to a dating book he was writing. (this was after one date) Then he called me and wanted to meet to give me a manuscript. He didn't change my name and it was SO AWKWARD to read it because he pretty much proclaimed his love along with a list of other women he dated. I gave it back and asked him to take me out of his book.
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-The guy who wouldn't look me in the eye. Have you ever had a conversation with someone where they refuse to look you in the eye for an hour? Even when you ask? It's almost unbearable.
BUT I would choose:
The guy who introduced me to his dog on the first date. Unfortunately the dog was dead, cremated and in a Parkay container. When he opened the lid, he revealed the ashes. The guy barked in time with the moving lid and proceeded to chase me around the island in his kitchen. (since I was backing away from him and the 'barking' ashes)
Good times.
I could bring up....
- The guy who wanted me to hold his dog's poop bag. I refused.
or
- The guy who drilled me with questions, then when I told him I wasn't interested, he threw a verbal tantrum. Afterwards he texted me a long explanation of why I made a HORRIBLE mistake.
or
- Another guy told me he added me to a dating book he was writing. (this was after one date) Then he called me and wanted to meet to give me a manuscript. He didn't change my name and it was SO AWKWARD to read it because he pretty much proclaimed his love along with a list of other women he dated. I gave it back and asked him to take me out of his book.
or
-The guy who wouldn't look me in the eye. Have you ever had a conversation with someone where they refuse to look you in the eye for an hour? Even when you ask? It's almost unbearable.
BUT I would choose:
The guy who introduced me to his dog on the first date. Unfortunately the dog was dead, cremated and in a Parkay container. When he opened the lid, he revealed the ashes. The guy barked in time with the moving lid and proceeded to chase me around the island in his kitchen. (since I was backing away from him and the 'barking' ashes)
Good times.
I was out with a guy for our first date and we had already been talking for a couple weeks at that point. Well he asked me again what I did for work. So I told him for like the 10th time I was a special ed teacher. He responds really loudly and meanly with "what? U teach retards? In a public school? They shouldn't even be allowed in school!! That's a waste of my tax dollars!! Ur job is a waste of my money and those retards are a drain on society!!" People were staring and I was mortified. I very nicely said I have to leave this isn't going to work out. As I'm driving home he texts me saying I need to wake up and get a real job and stop taking advantage of tax payer's money.
Needless to say we never went out again. It was hard to resist his charm but maybe some other lucky girl can experience him for herself
Needless to say we never went out again. It was hard to resist his charm but maybe some other lucky girl can experience him for herself
Well, my worst date was last month. He was so intense and was asking me questions about marriage which was too quick for us to talk about that. Then he started saying he wanted a submissive wife and told me he was sexually pervert. Honestly, that was scary but I was curious about himself. Then, I asked his older brother if his younger brother serious telling me those awkward conversations. His brother explained that he suffered from Asperger's syndrome. It did not stop me, I tried to understand and care for him. Unfortunately, he was very embarrassed of himself so he wanted me to leave him alone.
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Mine would have to be after months of dating this young lady and thinking we were going to get engaged being surprised by the sudden arrival of her "boyfriend" who was in the military and returning from duty. She had never breathed a word about him. LOL.
Then there was the girlfriend that ran off to another state with my best friend at the time. LOL.
I wish them all the best. haha.
Then there was the girlfriend that ran off to another state with my best friend at the time. LOL.
I wish them all the best. haha.