Answer: Because I do not conform to the worlds view as beautiful.
Many Christians, if not most, still stick to the social standard so anyone who is far from "beautiful" gets overlooked. Trying to find a genuine Christian female is impossible, then when finding a genuine Christian female who is available, its just as impossible to just get her to go out for a meal or trip to theatre or cinema etc, that is before you take into account that they have "issues" with a divorced man and want someone who is a virgin and is basically Christ.