What's the biggest reason you're single TODAY

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Vava11

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I think mine would have to be that I stopped compromising when it came to my core values (Relationship w/ God, direction of spiritual walk). It's... a lot more difficult than I anticipated. What about you guys??? :cool:
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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I'm single mostly because Prince William is taken.
 

Agricola

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Answer: Because I do not conform to the worlds view as beautiful.

Many Christians, if not most, still stick to the social standard so anyone who is far from "beautiful" gets overlooked. Trying to find a genuine Christian female is impossible, then when finding a genuine Christian female who is available, its just as impossible to just get her to go out for a meal or trip to theatre or cinema etc, that is before you take into account that they have "issues" with a divorced man and want someone who is a virgin and is basically Christ.
 
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Noah-Grace

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I'm still single because I have not find the right person yet with whom I can continue this Christian road together in the same direction. I don't want to be with someone just for the sake of having someone in my life and feel don't feel lonely. My life is already full and I have everything in Christ.
 

T_Laurich

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I am single because I am not dating anyone... I think that is the only reason (by definition).
 

Blain

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I am single for many reasons. first off none of the girls who like me are my age so it is illegal, second I am not the most handsome person and in this day and age that really matters to people. third I do not really want a girl right now as I am far to busy in my faith to have a girl.
 
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Vava11

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Wow...cool. Thanks!
 
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zaoman32

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I'm scared of the opposite sex
 

Blain

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I'm scared of the opposite sex
no worries lots of men have this issue, I would rather be scared of the opposite sex than be one of those arrogant men who only have sex money and booze on their minds. although I grew up with women so i am able to make friends with them pretty easily, it always confused my friends because I would just walk up to this group of girls and talk and they had no idea how I could do that.
 
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Because I want to. Having a girlfriend would only limit opportunities in this phase of my life.
 
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zaoman32

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no worries lots of men have this issue, I would rather be scared of the opposite sex than be one of those arrogant men who only have sex money and booze on their minds. although I grew up with women so i am able to make friends with them pretty easily, it always confused my friends because I would just walk up to this group of girls and talk and they had no idea how I could do that.
I just can't bring myself to do that man. I see a group of girls and cower in fear, and if I'm stuck in a situation with them my tongue is numb with fright, or I pathologically lie about living off the land of the alaskan wilderness.
 
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LordSaveUs

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It is simply because I am still waiting for a Christ following man who will protect and encourage me. :)
 
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arwen83

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Well in regards to TODAY, I am single today because I've been lazing around the house on cc and watching YouTube videos, and not interacting with who is beyond these four walls.
 
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arwen83

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I'm scared of the opposite sex
Take it one step at a time man, you'll get there. Most often it's the same philosophy with regards to spiders: they're often more afraid of you than you are of them. I hope you find comfort in that :)
 

Blain

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I just can't bring myself to do that man. I see a group of girls and cower in fear, and if I'm stuck in a situation with them my tongue is numb with fright, or I pathologically lie about living off the land of the alaskan wilderness.
no worries man, trust me when I say sometimes it's not worth it.now I don't know about christian girls but almost every girl i have ever encountered love to gossip more than they like to breath. but you never know you may find an actual sweet girl, I found the ones like that are the shy ones not the pretty ones
 
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zaoman32

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no worries man, trust me when I say sometimes it's not worth it.now I don't know about christian girls but almost every girl i have ever encountered love to gossip more than they like to breath. but you never know you may find an actual sweet girl, I found the ones like that are the shy ones not the pretty ones
But I like the pretty ones!
 
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xXErraticEmilyXx

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Frodo isn't real...
that's what my mom said anyway.
 
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Jullianna

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I'm not married right now because I thought I would be spending too much time alone if I said "yes". Irony.