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Ok the bible points out a few things along these lines. 1) Our body is a temple of the Holy Ghost, 1Cor 6:19 talks about this. 2) We're told not to defile the marriage bed. Look at 1Cor 7:1-5. This explains a lot. "First and foremost, sex should only occur between married couples (1 Corinthians 7:1-2). Secondly, each mate should consider the sexual needs of the other and be sure each of you are concerned for each other's welfare and capabilities (verse 3). In marriage, each person should regard their bodies as belonging to their mate (verse 4). You are only to refrain from sex with each other by mutual agreement such as fasting or when the woman has her period (verse 7:5). Aside from the above the Bible does not put any further restrictions on how a married couple perform sexually." (http://www.biblestudy.org/question/what-is-defiling-the-marriage-bed.html) Hope this makes everything a bit clearer.
in a perfect world where fvery family was perfect and unbroken and life was carefree and easy everything would be perfect.
but in the real world there are 1000 different pressures on people and most of them are the overselling of SEX in popular culture. half the time even breakfast cereal comercials use sex to sell the product so people are overwhelmed and pressured.
most families are broken so there is no real role model for many people.
sex before marraige is a fact of life. all you can really do is educate and caution your kids and hope for the best. in the end the choice is up to them for good or ill.
I've come so close to having sex so many times, but because I'm not married, and a Christian, I never have. If I was a different kind of girl, I probably would have done it a long time ago