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I have a story!
Once upon a time I went to the bank. Sitting quietly was a guy who I would deem attractive, he looked at me and smiled.(Aww!) But when I approached the teller, a man who didn't have the physical qualities that I usually find attractive(for me, not saying he was ugly(I'm more attracted to men who, strangely enough, remind me of my dad.), but his conversation was so dynamic and the confidence was spilling over. I could tell he was having a good day and I forgot all about Mr. brown hair and scruffy beard with the sweet smile.
The End.
Initial judging the book by its cover, yes, it has an effect, but that's people. You evaluate them without even noticing. This person looks like a potential mate. This person looks a bit too old/young. This person looks like a very sweet old lady.(Then she yells at you xD)
I was just struck that day with how quick it was to get over that initial size up. Personality wins in the end.(Unless your heart is not in the right place. Then that's you messing up.)
Once upon a time I went to the bank. Sitting quietly was a guy who I would deem attractive, he looked at me and smiled.(Aww!) But when I approached the teller, a man who didn't have the physical qualities that I usually find attractive(for me, not saying he was ugly(I'm more attracted to men who, strangely enough, remind me of my dad.), but his conversation was so dynamic and the confidence was spilling over. I could tell he was having a good day and I forgot all about Mr. brown hair and scruffy beard with the sweet smile.
The End.
Initial judging the book by its cover, yes, it has an effect, but that's people. You evaluate them without even noticing. This person looks like a potential mate. This person looks a bit too old/young. This person looks like a very sweet old lady.(Then she yells at you xD)
I was just struck that day with how quick it was to get over that initial size up. Personality wins in the end.(Unless your heart is not in the right place. Then that's you messing up.)