What's the biggest reason you're single TODAY

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taggerung

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#82
To be honest, I'm not entirely sure. I'm sure those men Have their reasons *shrugs*. I'm chubby. Perhaps that's it. Or it could be that I simply haven't met someone who could keep up with my wittiness. Or maybe I don't make enough money to be of interest to anyone. Who knows. The ones who don't give me a second glance are the ones missing out in my opinion ;)
 
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Catlynn

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#83
Because all of the marriage proposals I've received lately are in the form of CC mail and come from the other side of the world...
 
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Shouryu

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#84
Because all of the marriage proposals I've received lately are in the form of CC mail and come from the other side of the world...
You said you wouldn't tell anyone!!!
 
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cmarieh

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#86
I am single because I am a little intimidated of men of feeling that I would not fit in to their ideal woman for them to marry. Secondly, I feel that God will place me when and where I will meet that future husband and have a family.
 
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Shouryu

Guest
#87
I had to tell SOMEone! Stop smothering me!
Considering the massive influx of newbies we've had of late, this was probably a dangerous joke to make. But I LOVE that you went with me on it. ^_^

Attention, ChristianChat newbs! I have not proposed marriage to Catlynn!













Yet.

*runs away, cackling*
 

Violet1993

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#90
I'm not ready for marriage lol. It's just Jesus and I for now and I'm cool with that :)
 

AsifinPassing

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#91
Oh, probably just me...lack of varying social interaction, rejection of those interested within current social circles, baggage, flaws, and fallacies, mixed with some genuine seeking/waiting for God's approval (else-wise would likely be married today) and hiatus from searching anymore. Probably...
 
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Kings_Rorschach

Guest
#92
Let's see....

1)I'm still being taught HOW to love so that way if and when God points her out i can walk hand and hand with her while Christ leads us.

2) I scare females away, because i 'really am Christian' (their words not mine)

3) Still working on getting so close to God that she will have to seek Him out in order to find me

4)Learning how to be satisfied with God's presence and stop calling it loneliness

5)Being broken, shaped and molded into a man of God who is fit to hold the heart of my Queen

*thank you for this question because i don't think i knew why i was single, i suppose i was getting used to the idea of being a bearded monk who would wander the earth spreading the Gospel
 
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Catlynn

Guest
#93
Considering the massive influx of newbies we've had of late, this was probably a dangerous joke to make. But I LOVE that you went with me on it. ^_^

Attention, ChristianChat newbs! I have not proposed marriage to Catlynn!













Yet.

*runs away, cackling*
Oh, good call. Good call. I did not take that into consideration.

Nothing to see here, people. Move on. Move on. No marriage proposals of any kind.
 
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Catlynn

Guest
#94
Oh, good call. Good call. I did not take that into consideration.

Nothing to see here, people. Move on. Move on. No marriage proposals of any kind.
Well, besides the aforementioned inbox proposals....those were real......just none from Sho.....*sniff* What?! Am I not good enough for you?!
 
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fourleaf

Guest
#95
the biggest reason is the trauma i've got on my past experience actually the only love relationship experience i have. its kinda hard for me to trust a guy after that..i shut everyone out except my family. it was only God who have help me love life again.
 
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evelina

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#96
Ha I guess I'm single cuz I move a lot to different provinces and when I came back i got more self esteem I guess I scared some cuz I changed ; maybe they r scared that I can change again in future life , or they don't know what to expect from me :) nowadays nobody beliefs in live at first sight well I never did :) so I think it takes time to get to know one another but when u change " all" the time or trying to find out who u really are and work on yourself - its difficult .... But still I believe I have that feeling I'm not gonna stay alone I'm very social and hahaha I would say I'm an awesome chick hahaha ,
 
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colalella2891

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#97
Let's see....

1)I'm still being taught HOW to love so that way if and when God points her out i can walk hand and hand with her while Christ leads us.
I really like what you said here. That's how I feel too, that I don't know how to love yet. I actually don't think I know what it really means either, so I feel like I have a lot to learn about it.
 
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JesusFreak787

Guest
#98
Just have not met the right one
 
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xAlphaOmega

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#99
Well, there are many reasons....


I am attracted to Caucasian woman but most caucasian woman dont like asian guys.

The ones that I think I could get hitched with I dont find particularly attractive.

I tend to be more of an introvert and tend to observe so initiating is not me and its difficult.

I enjoy my alone time, almost too much. I choose not to have roommates because ppl can get on my nerves after awhile.

Girls are still a fear for me.

I dont put myself in many social situations.
 
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Shine4Jesus

Guest
Hey xAlphaOmega, I like white men lol! Well that not the reason I am not married, basically, fearful of the men that I met whom are attracted to me . I had to be healed from past issues, and now I am alright but the members at my church are pretty much 45 and older or married. It is like hey there is a new attractive male at my church, oh wait he is already married.
 
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