The more I think about it the more I feel that guys are more naturally dominant and girls are more naturally submissive. I know not everyone agrees with me but I feel that is more natural and what is in the Bible. So I feel this guys is being more 'dominant' with you and you are attracted to taht which I feel is pretty normal. BUT, that doesn't mean that it is good. But it's normal, like a guy attracted to a girl who is 'hot'. Really normal, but it doesn't mean that she is the girl for him to spend the rest of his life with. Sooooooooooooooooo just chill and realise you might be attracted to him, but that doesn't mean you have to marry him ! Perhaps even best to avoid him, like the other people here say.
This is Truth, the Word of God (bible) states that women are to be submissive to men when married to them, but man is to be with the fear of God in them.
But you're in a simple relationship, it sounds like, that's good, this guy seems not right, and , you need to submit to God at this stage in your life
Find your life in God and the lust of men will become less and less. Your life will become more and more , too. Because the Lord will be leading your life . Be brave and let Him lead you, it sounds like this guy is genuinely not sure himserlf of what he wants and often that comes from not knwoing who he is. But ,you are a child of God and you should tell him that he needs to commit to God and only if he begins to live his life in this way will 'we ever have a chance. '
I'm praying for you to be brave, KC, and, you can ONLY be that way with Him being asked to lead you. CAST ALL YOUR CARES ON HIM FOR HE CARES FOR YOU. Don;t be afraid to leave this guy IF the Lord tells you that it's time, and, it does sound like there is a disconnect of understanding by him of how to treat you in a way that says he is going to treat you right physcially if you ever get past just the social conversation state and stage of your relationship.
"Delight yourself in the Lord (serve Him) and He will give you the desires of your heart."