Do you consider "oral sex" sex?

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You are probably lying about your motives, or you're so deep in denial about them you keep saying it's not what you're looking for.


Ehh, whatevs.
when did christians become mind readers? what do i have to do to get this privilege?

you dont even know where this question came up or how or when.. but you know me, right?
 

DuchessAimee

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yea, i said the same thing you did, but you are lashing at me for it.. very hypocritical, dont ya think?



Sigh. I gave an opinion, you gave an order. End of story. I won't post in this thread again.
 
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Sigh. I gave an opinion, you gave an order. End of story. I won't post in this thread again.
sigh. you know what you were doing by your "suggestion" sigh.

and he said he cant because it will look prudish, but its not closing it for "prudish" reasons. its because these christians are showing their butt and for no reason.

outside looking in, its amazing how cruel all of you look. and for no reason. you should be ashamed.
 
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if you ask me, technically, no. i dont think it is. its not intercourse.

im not trying to justify doing this. its just a ongoing debate.

whats your take on it?

Bill Clinton says that its not.
 
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Is oral sex the same as "sex," as in sexual intercourse? No.
Would it be safe to call oral sex, sex (lack of quotes)? Yes, after all, the phrase "oral sex" has the word sex in it.

In the end, oral sex is really nothing more than a perversion of sex the way God created it. Now, enough arguing over semantics of the word "sex," it looks nothing more than silly and ridiculous.
 
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Is oral sex the same as "sex," as in sexual intercourse? No.
Would it be safe to call oral sex, sex (lack of quotes)? Yes, after all, the phrase "oral sex" has the word sex in it.

In the end, oral sex is really nothing more than a perversion of sex the way God created it. Now, enough arguing over semantics of the word "sex," it looks nothing more than silly and ridiculous.
but WHEN did the term fellatio get substituted out for "oral sex"? somebody who had the opinion that it is sex had to rename it. isnt the original term for it fellatio? that doesnt have the word sex anywhere in it.

so when did fellatio get named oral sex?

but the bolded is basically what i been saying.
 

T_Laurich

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but WHEN did the term fellatio get substituted out for "oral sex"? somebody who had the opinion that it is sex had to rename it. isnt the original term for it fellatio? that doesnt have the word sex anywhere in it.

so when did fellatio get named oral sex?

but the bolded is basically what i been saying.
When did we stop calling it cunnilingus??? You can call a pot a kettle... in the end its still the same thing...
 
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When did we stop calling it cunnilingus??? You can call a pot a kettle... in the end its still the same thing...
im pretty sure the term "oral sex" is still much more premature than "sex" in its purest form.
 
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but WHEN did the term fellatio get substituted out for "oral sex"? somebody who had the opinion that it is sex had to rename it. isnt the original term for it fellatio? that doesnt have the word sex anywhere in it.

so when did fellatio get named oral sex?

but the bolded is basically what i been saying.
Well, words and their meanings change all the time within cultures. For instance, take a look at the word Unicorn. A couple hundred years ago, unicorn was referring to a one-horned rhino. Now, unicorn is used as a fairy tale creature that never existed.
 

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im pretty sure the term "oral sex" is still much more premature than "sex" in its purest form.
Are you saying that it is newer to the world as in the act itself? Or the name is newer???
 
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These men are playing with their sax/organ. Are they engaging in sex?

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do you think adam and even were procreating by indulging in some fellatio? im pretty sure they didnt even know what that was.
 
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Well, words and their meanings change all the time within cultures. For instance, take a look at the word Unicorn. A couple hundred years ago, unicorn was referring to a one-horned rhino. Now, unicorn is used as a fairy tale creature that never existed.
it wasnt looked at as "sex".. so when did it become sex? when somebody renamed it oral sex, is when. but technically, is it? no. it is not.

im pretty sure all of us were conceived by having sex. fellatio may have played a part leading up to the point, but it wasnt the cause. so how can it be sex if you cant get pregnant by it.
 
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show me where. if you cant, then i want an apology.
Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.


Now, if you can not think lustful thoughts when you're petting a woman's privates, or when she's grinding on you, or when you're taking each others clothes off, then something is wrong with you.

mods close this thread. NOBODY is reading ANYTHING i said.. no point in repeating myself to everybody that feels the need to jump the gun and doing and saying all this extra stuff.

We read what you said loud and clear, and we're trying to issue correction.

How about "mods, look into this individual who is advocating lust and oral sex are acceptable behavior." This is a CHRISTIAN forum.
 
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Matthew 5:28
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
im not denying this. nothing i said has anything to do with this. adultery covers a LOT of ground. just thinking the wrong thing about another woman is adultery.. so is thinking about it having sex to?
 
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im not denying this. nothing i said has anything to do with this. adultery covers a LOT of ground. just thinking the wrong thing about another woman is adultery.. so is thinking about it having sex to?
YES!

Sex without physical contact, but you still did it in your mind. Hence why Jesus said you already committed adultery with her in your heart. Now if you're both setting yourself up for a situation where you both are thinking it, then you're both committing adultery in your hearts.

I remember a story once. A boy and his girlfriend were active members of a church. They were alone together one night. They slept with each other. They cried about it to their pastor and said "but we kept praying together." They were alone together, with raging hormones. They were praying against lust that they set themselves up for.
 
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YES!

Sex without physical contact, but you still did it in your mind. Hence why Jesus said you already committed adultery with her in your heart. Now if you're both setting yourself up for a situation where you both are thinking it, then you're both committing adultery in your hearts.

I remember a story once. A boy and his girlfriend were active members of a church. They were alone together one night. They slept with each other. They cried about it to their pastor and said "but we kept praying together." They were alone together, with raging hormones. They were praying against lust that they set themselves up for.
lol ok im done.
 
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