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This guy has made it very clear that he wants to have sex and we have only been talking a few days. I have basically flat out told him he is not having sex with me, multiple times. Anytime he starts to mention sex or anything I tell him it is not gonna happen and he quits talking or hinting at it for a while. A lot of times when he brings up sex though he does it in a 'sweet' way like first i have to win your heart and other things along those line. He is really pushing me to hang out with him but I am very hesitant because I don't want to be pushed beyond what I want, because I know people can get caught up in the moment. He is very sweet and I don't think he would push beyond it, and i know he would stop if I told him to. But the fact that it is constantly on his mind makes me question his motives. Let me just add he is in the National Guard and just got back from duty. So it might be built up tension from being on duty for so long? I don't know...I'm just guessing. He also knows I'm a virgin, and likes to say witty remarks about it, trying to get me on the topic of sex. I know his friends are pushing him to have sex with me because they have liked me for a couple years now and whenever he is with his friends his texts and the way he talks kinda changes.
Does he just want sex? Should I quit talking to him or keep telling him how I feel about it and see if he quits. I don't know what to do, advice or anything would be awesome.
Does he just want sex? Should I quit talking to him or keep telling him how I feel about it and see if he quits. I don't know what to do, advice or anything would be awesome.